Sometimes I feel toward some person love and suddenly I hate them, and then love them and at the time I don't like them I just pick a fight with them or just criticize them for remembering little things they did or I just picked up in it and I did not like it at the time but did not affect me that much but affect me at the time when I get those episodes where I am mad at any one, what is that? And how do I control it and have stability in my emotions towards people

How old are you?

First you need to love yourself and learn to have a positive outlook on things.
Often people are this way because they are miserable with their own self.
If it is severe or extreme and you get depression you might be bi-polar or something.
Counseling might be helpful.
You can start with stopping in your tracks and thinking about what you are feeling and evaluating why you feel that way before you let yourself get to deep into the feeling or
Before you act on the negative feelings.
Try reading self help books that deal with attitude and feelings.

How to Squash Negative Thought Patterns


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Sometimes I feel that way but I control those emotions because I don't want to hurt the other person.

Think about all the good things that this person has done for you. I garuntee that there will be more positive things than negative. The past is the past. Look to now and the future. How does this person treat you now?

Thank you so much guys.
Gosh, I think I am kind of bi-polic, never thought of that, that I might have a mental illness, because people just think you are just moody , and very hard to deal with.
The advice that I just try not to act on them, gosh that's very very helpful, because I always thought I was right and this is how I feel and I should express it, so, what do you think the difference about a normal person reaction to something they don't like and a bi-polic?
Do you react on the spot and just forget it, I just keep remembering it or just think of other things I never thought about and find them negative towards me and call the person on it after the fact most of the time and if this person likes me, I just find little things to not to like him and say, oh this is not going any where, I hate him and I can not forget that little comment he said or not said or just a look in the eyes or not a look in his eyes, and sometimes I think he does not find me sexy enough and I say no this is not working I want to be desired in a specific way and looked at in a specific way and you are not giving me that, even though he assure me otherwise, I just don't believe it and in my heart I take them for granted till I break up with them eventually, I feel I will end up alone this way?
Do you think I should take medications for it or just not to act on it, I really hate going to doctors, I don't like most of them, I feel the advice I am getting here is way better for me, no one is judging or giving that stupid look doctors give you.
And something else, do you think muscle relaxant might make a person gain weight?

Not only do not act on them---redirect them to positives.
You might not be bi-polar at all.

You're not mentally ill, you're just young and immature!!

You need some positive hobbies in your life to focus on. Make something out of yourself. :)

Good Luck in 2008,

With the mental illness advice, there are other options besides bi-polar. Do you tend to push people away when you feel threatened by them (meaning they will reject you)? Or do you push them away when you feel like everything in life is good and you need to stir it up for some reason? Maybe you feel depressed and want others to feel crappy too (misery loves company). Think about it... and next time you do it, write your feelings down, before and after the incident. Learn why. It could just be you thrive on chaos sometimes... or there could be something else. LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF. You can do that in counseling if you think that would help. They can help you see things you may not be noticing in your life.