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I sorry!! I was referring to Stellaws answer for you (not you)!!

I do understand what you are going through... I was married for 14 years. He cheated on me and as a result... I do have a problem...

Listen to JudyKayTee!

Focuse on yourself and your school! This is very important!

And do not "use" anybody!! Can you live with yourself doing something like that to someone?
It always come...

Shark killer is right!

I have taken all kinds of prescriptions (from my doctor) and found that they do not work well for me. I always feel sick after I take them.
I came across this in walmart...

I agree with Maria Lee... you may love him... but he does not know how to love you back sweetie.
You deserve so much more! And there is someone out there looking for someone like you!
Let him go,...

You are so very welcome :)!

I forgot to add that there maybe a support group near you, check online about support groups in your area.
They are free.
Not really sure what you would like to...

Ask your therapist if you can have sessions including your parents OR can you have them go in on their own. I had mine court ordered to go through my therapist.
When they found that I was...

This is a great site to come to when you need to speak with others... there are a lot of caring people on here from all over the world who will respond :) and try to help you within their means if...

I love QLP's response! Look into what he says!

Now about the looking for love thing... everyone has someone out there, you just haven't met "him" yet.

First off you need to learn to love...

When a woman is beautiful... men easily can be intimidated. That's why they are asking your friends about you, instead of coming out and asking you directly. Do you like any of them? If so go out :)!...

I agree! You need to speak with someone professional...
You yourself know who and what you are, it does not matter at all what others think!!
Your actions ALWAYS speaks louder than words!

But...

Florida sunshine!! Sounds like the way to go! Weather does have a big impact on some people.
I live in South Carolina. It may snow once or twice a year, and it gets cold. But nothing like up...

Have you ever considered moving to a smaller city or town? A lot of values are lost in the big city. Its harder and more expensive to live in. Smaller towns have a lot to offer. You would be able to...

I meant to say you are not alone in my post to you!! Sorry!! :)
As you can see... I am not perfect either LOL!

Everyone of us have something special about us sweetie!
No 2 people are alike :)! No one is perfect...

Like horses huh? See if you can visit a stable, and learn how to ride.
Or just go online...

Hey! You are normal OK!!
You are grieving for your father, which is normal (I grieve for my parents daily).
You want love, which is normal (we all search for and want the same).
You feel unloved...

Is there anything drastic that you have experienced lately? Work? Family? Relationships? Any major changes?
You should go to your family doctor and tell him about your feelings. Then he can tell...

Good Morning... When I came across your question I had to reread it a couple of times...
I have been there and done that.
Let that girl go... no Contact!
There is something seriously going on...

You need to focus on what broke the two of you up...
This is a very hard thing to do, that I DO know... but you can survive this.

There is someone out there who is better suited for you... do...

You are blessed to have a husband who loves you...
You are blessed to be with child! :)!

The color of our skin means NOTHING, where we were born means NOTHING.
All that DOES matter is what is...

It will get better... after a period passes it begins to feel different.
You will think back and remember it, but it will not be so painful.
Try to establish a new routine for yourself.
Go out...

Listen to Fr Chucks advice...

I understand what you are saying... my mother was bi polar, then came the drinking and the drugs.
She was very abusive. And she did similar things like that to my father.
He moved out...

You also need to stop hurting yourself... you need to find and join a support group, find one that will help you and others who do cutting...
You are not alone in this either... there are others...

When you see and experience all those bads things, try to think of it as a learning tool.
They are teaching you how NOT TO BE!!

Growing up, I did not want to become one of those sad and unhappy...

I grew up in an average family. Then my father at the age of 33 came down with M.S. He had to retired from the fire dept. My mother went off the deep end big time, drinking, drugs, etc.
That's when...

Hey... I grew up having the same problem... I actually lost it one day and I did started fighting back. And never stopped.
My parents went to my school and told the school that this was what I was...

What are the reactions of the people that you see? And what makes you feel like they hate you?

I grew up feeling the same as you, but only to find out 51 years later that I have a certain look to...

So True! The funny thing about her moving to Fla... is that she never ever came to see me just for a visit.

I do love my mom and I love my sister... regardless of all that happened in the past or...

Sorry to hear about your Mom. I lost mine in 1996.
You are so right... that shadow still does hang around!
My sister is a carbon copy of my Mom!
And I react the very same way around her as I...

Thank you for your input! I live in South Carolina.
She has just started getting her disability.
And looking to get a small place in Fla. Thank goodness... I NEED all that mileage between us!...

I have a sister who acts a lot like your brother...
She is always bringing me down to make herself feel good.
I actually feel like I live with a Paris Hilton!
She lives with me due to having RA....

My sister moved in with me for health reasons. She has RA.
She is narcasitic. I have a horrible time dealing with her.
All my life I have always felt that she hated me. Never had a nice thing to...

I have those dreams myself... I always thought that my dreams were a result of the past experiences that I went through.
I was abandoned. And it is one of the most painful experiences that I have...