no emotions

xspeedyx · #1 Sep 30, 2007, 03:05 PM

i really think im going crazy or im just not normal i have a child of 7 yrs and i have no feelings for them at all not like some mothers do ive been like this since they were born ive tried but everything they do grates me

N0help4u · Sep 30, 2007, 03:49 PM

That is sad that you don't enjoy your children. I wish I could have enjoyed mine. I couldn't because my one son was always trying to kill somebody from the time he turned 7 so I was always having to stop him and ended up neglecting my other kids needs.
I would say you are in serious trouble if you can imagine how you would feel if they died and it not bother you. I think you should get some counseling to see why you feel this way before it gets worse in any way!

pinkface92 · Oct 11, 2007, 06:56 PM

Wow really? Um i think maybe u should talk 2 a psychologist.

ms2busy · Oct 11, 2007, 07:45 PM

My heart goes out to this 7 year old child. I cannot imagine how it would feel at 7 years old to not be loved by my mom.
I beg you-if you have family, thell them what exactly what you wrote on this site and ask if anyone would be interested in giving this child a loving home. If you have no family to help you please go to your local family and children's services and ask them to place this child in a loving home. Please get help and counseling for your mental condition as this isn't how a mother feels toward a young child that they gave birth to.

babigirl1 · Oct 13, 2007, 09:07 PM

when God made a woman , he made them to love their children. so I would have to say , you do love your child but you just have something going on with you that is keeping you from feeling it. I would advise counseling for myself and counseling with my child. you really need to love yourself before you can love anyone else, but dear you do love your child. and for your childs needs you need to act fast and dont delay any of your time you have with your child. everyday counts.

KeepItSimpleStupid · Oct 13, 2007, 09:13 PM

Is it possible that you were emotionally abused as a child? That could explain it.

babigirl1 · Oct 13, 2007, 09:24 PM

Good ? if you have been than you need to get help for yourself. I was abused and I got help for myself when my son was only 2 months old. I had a lot of anger and I knew if I didnt. I wouldnt be able to be the mother I needed to be nor wanted to be.



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