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Hi, my cousin has confided in me with a serious issue, she have been seeing this guy for over eight months now. She said she is in love with him, and wants to continue wit him . She said two weeks ago the guy told her that he killed someone 8 years ago and no one knew about it.
It happen because he found his girl friend at that time in bed with the other man. He told her that part of his life is over and he no longer think in that way. He told her that he shot him in the head.
What do u think she should do? I told her to run from that because he could do that again.... But she says she want to give him a chance.
Am scared for her, and even myself , because i live with my cousin. He dont seem to be violent but ... who knows? Whats the possiblity on that ... please let me know..
They really say love is blind.... I see how blind she is... Imagine she try to turn it around on me saying that i always ready to judge everybody. And she said she wish she never told me , cause i dont understand. She was upset that i left saying i making it out to be far more than it is because it was a long time ago..
And imagine ... the girl he claimed to kill the guy for, he got her pregnant afterwards and had two kids...... "WELL HOW STUPID CUD HE BE" .. OR MENTAL.
That guy is unstable and dangerous! It doesn't matter how long ago it was. If he did murder someone, and then walks around telling people about it, that is a scary situation your cousin has gotten herself into.
He doesn't seem to have a conscience, and seems quite willing to almost brag about what he did (or didn't do) In either scenario, your cousin is in a dangerous situation. You can't make her decisions for her, but you can make them for yourself. I'm glad that you see the big red flashing lights telling you to get out of there while you still can. He's just trouble from the word go! It's too bad your cousin is blinded by it. Hopefully soon she will realise that it's not good for her to be around him too.
Has you cousin tried to research this? Newspapers have archives of past articles. You might even try Googling with whatever info you have ie) city this took place, year, age of man at the time, etc.
Why would this woman not have turned him in, if this were true????
Heck if it were my cousin I'd be going to the police to have THEM check out the story!
I agree with Flossie. Where did this guy live 8 years ago? If you know the city, call up the police dept and ask them if they have any unsolved murders from 8 years ago that involved a man being shot in the head. Bingo - you have a perfect suspect for them.
Hi, my cousin has confided in me with a serious issue, she have been seeing this guy for over eight months now. She said she is in love with him, and wants to continue wit him . She said two weeks ago the guy told her that he killed someone 8 years ago and no one knew about it.
It happen because he found his girl friend at that time in bed with the other man. He told her that part of his life is over and he no longer think in that way. He told her that he shot him in the head.
What do u think she should do? I told her to run from that because he could do that again.... But she says she want to give him a chance.
Am scared for her, and even myself , because i live with my cousin. He dont seem to be violent but ... who knows? Whats the possiblity on that ... please let me know..
OMG> I would turn him into the authorities or make some inquiries as to the validity of his claim. I think about things like this: If she knows about this, but doesn't know who it was has she become an "accessory" to the crime since she is now "aware" of his actions and didn't make any effort to resolve a crime? If he did actually do this crime, more than likely he would've been caught. People don't just "get away" with murder in this day and age. If he is fabricating this story to gain some type of "control" over her in manipulating her by obtaining "emotional control" over her to keep from losing her. (ie: my girlfriend "cheated" on me...so you better never do the same") to which I would say with respect to either situation.....run like hell!!! It sounds like this person might have a mental disorder if someone can just "kill" someone over a cheating spouse. Who would want to be involved with someone like this. I was involved with a person who strangled my cat, but we were involved for two years prior to this occurrance..........i got the hell out of that relationship!! Who knows, he might've strangled me in my sleep someday.
Hi, my cousin has confided in me with a serious issue, she have been seeing this guy for over eight months now. She said she is in love with him, and wants to continue wit him . She said two weeks ago the guy told her that he killed someone 8 years ago and no one knew about it.
It happen because he found his girl friend at that time in bed with the other man. He told her that part of his life is over and he no longer think in that way. He told her that he shot him in the head.
What do u think she should do? I told her to run from that because he could do that again.... But she says she want to give him a chance.
Am scared for her, and even myself , because i live with my cousin. He dont seem to be violent but ... who knows? Whats the possiblity on that ... please let me know..
Why is you're user name "liar2"? Are you serious about this thread?? People here really care...
I have a hard time believing he shot this person in bed with a witness there and nothing happened to him. But Say they do turn him in, without a body (again I don't see how they don't have a body if he shot him in a bed) or murder weapon there isn't to much the police can do or am I wrong? I never killed anyone so I don't know what they would need to convict him.
spitvenom, he didnt shoot the person in bed wit the girl.... he caught them in bed together... it was a friend of his... he walked away that time.... but months after he met him somewhere n shot him... no one was around. he said he never told anyone about it. but he felt as though he was really close to her... n he wanted to be free of serets.. thats y he told her..... I guess what is worst? its premeditated rite?
Sounds as premeditated as you can get. But I think I would take the advice of the others here, and make an anonymous call to ask if they have any unsolved murders...someone shot in the head around that time. You can call crime stoppers or something like that, and you don't have to give your name. Heck, call America's Most Wanted.
If you want to protect your cousin, then you owe that to her. You don't have to tell her it was you.
I still think that this guy is a phycho whether he is telling the truth or not, so do your cousin a favour and do the right thing. As someone mentioned before, if his story is true, your cousin could be considered an accomplice if it isn't reported.
Think about the other boys family too, and how they must feel if this is something they have had to deal with.
He told her that part of his life is over and he no longer think in that way. He told her that he shot him in the head.
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