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N0help4u · Jan 1, 2010, 06:19 AM

Go get help from counselling. If your parents didn't press charges when you told them then there is no way that he would be in jail. You need to find ways to handle it and move on with your life the best you can and counselling will help. I don't think you can do anything legally after all these years.

tickle · Jan 1, 2010, 06:21 AM

The only way you are going to find closure for this horrendous act and move on with your life is report him. Yes, you still can and it is a shame you didn't in the first place. You will have to know he is going to pay for your suffering. Talk ti a counsellor at school about this and get started on a better part of your life. You ow it to yourself, you have to try.

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excon · Jan 1, 2010, 06:25 AM

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Originally Posted by 16girl12

Im just wondering if maybe its not a big deal and I need to get over it?..

Hello 16:

It IS a big deal - AND you need to get over it. Seek professional help if you can't do it on your own.

excon

jmjoseph · Jan 1, 2010, 06:28 AM

You should get counseling, and tell your parents, or some adult that you know will do something about it.

The last thing you want to do is use drugs to mask the feelings that you are having.

Start the new year off right, and do something about this.

God bless you.

16girl12 · Jan 1, 2010, 06:59 AM

Iv been to prof help and I can't do it cause I can't talk about its eating me up inside and the last time I went I sat there watching my parent cry...and I blame my mom and dad cause they never did anything to get him introuble and then I blame my self because I just laid there, I didn't even say no, just pretending to sleep so he would stop.

excon · Jan 1, 2010, 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by 16girl12

the last time I went I sat there watching my parent cry...

Hello again, 16:

I'm not talking about FAMILY therapy. I'm talking about YOUR therapy. I agree with you. Your parents are BROKEN and you can't fix them. Fix yourself.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't love your parents, even though they did wrong. But, don't live there any longer than you have to.

excon

Fr_Chuck · Jan 1, 2010, 07:29 AM

To get help, you have to start helping yourself by talking to profesionals about it, And what in heavens name were your parents doing in the room when you had this counseling, I would say you need a different couselor personally,

Also to some I will say that if he merely touched but did not have sex, they may not see it as a big deal but that is thiere issue and they may not understand the trouble it has caused you.

Next you can ask your mom and dad if they pressed charges ( called the police) and if they did not ask them why also.

Next why are you "looking" for him on a social networking site ?

As for jail, he may have, it has been 8 years, and he would not have been in that long

16girl12 · Jan 1, 2010, 07:53 AM

I wasn't looking for him...hello
Im not a creeper his friend was at my house he was on his myspace and I saw him as one of his friends. And so your saying finguring is just touching...ohhh ok fr..chuck you just kind of made me feel worse

excon · Jan 1, 2010, 08:05 AM

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Originally Posted by 16girl12

ok fr..chuck you just kind of made me feel worse

Hello again, 16:

Let's be clear. He said TO SOME it was just touching... And, TO SOME it was, like maybe your parents. It just isn't HIS position.

You can feel good now.

excon

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