Hi everyone ....i hope i am in the right topic....I do not know who should i ask..but it is a matter of a phsychology.....

I have been in relationship with my girlfriend since last year.. It had been 1 year and 3 months .. For so long , we did fight , and also being romantic to each other... But , theres one thing to found that slowly change....She suddenly wanted o marry fast to me...now can i do that when i dont even have a job and we are just 17-18...yet we are still studying... i told her all reasons why , but she cant make it to understand . Perhaps , thers something make her have a such thinking....

when she was 10 years old , her father had gone.....Since that , her mum took care of her and her sister.. Her sister is much more older that her 16 years...So now , her sister work to support her and the mother... My girlfriend was indeed being control very tight...She cannot use handphone , cannot use internet and cannot go out freely....Her life was being control very tight....However , her mum know our relationship and she didnt objects...

My girlfriend also suffer of mental problem ...i think is ME sickness..It is cause by her last boyfriend where her mum found out the relationships and broke them up...maybe because that guy is older than her a lot and to prevent unpleasent things happen...She went to see pshchologist....being ill for one week ....

As usual we only meet each other in skul or if got party and i am invited to go...there is another chance . Her sister also is very fierce to her and sometimes without reasons...Theres one time i fetch her from school . Her sister called me to bring her to lunch before going back.. So , i do as what she said...after having lunch , it was a big rain..so the traffic was very jammed...on the way home , her sister called my phone and talked to her and mad to her ...she called almost 3 times........I already try to speed our car , but when we reach there , the sister mad very fierce..she ask my girlfriend to stand outside with heavy rain for one hour....i witnessed it with my eye..I was thinking , if she were us , she also cant make it...because of unpredicted consequences

With all the background and sample...i hope you all can give an advice and opinion..Because , i love her and i never regret to have her .....