| i know not what to write here i guess for this to work well you will need a short history, child of a divorce angry-protective to not so angry-need to help to not angry-with a need to comfort ok that is out of the way. now on to the question i listen and i am good at it, how do you stop without offending the people who already talk to you for i am rapidly discovering that i am not equipped to deal with the truths well not the truth so much as the misdirection that comes with knowing. i know this sound bad but you can not always be everything to everyone. |