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Old Nov 1, 2009, 03:13 PM
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Give me a sign.

Hey guys i dont know whats going on but i recently i can feel like im falling away and im starting to break. I need something or someone to keep me alive. Im starting to fall apart. I feel as if no one cares and empty inside like im already dead. Im no longer the same. I've been in the dark for so long and i dont know what to do anymores. I need some sort of a sign, anything will do to show me the way.

Anyways thanks for reading. I need some advice. Thanks.

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Old Nov 2, 2009, 12:25 AM   #2  
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What's brought this on? Why have you been in the dark?

I don't want to just type meaningless words of solace, so it would be good to know what has created this dark night of the soul for you.

If it's any consolation, many many people have been having a hard time recently - and I don't mean financially. I come across people, every day that are questioning their lives, looking into their souls, trying to find meaning.

I know I am struggling at the moment but I do try to make time in my life for the people that I care about. There ARE people that care, you just have to connect with them.

Anyways, tell a bit more about what is happening with you.
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hey none, i know you were feeling a little left out of the loop since you started college,has that improved?

as gemini said,i also dont want to type random words of solace.....can you narrow down why your feeling like this?
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Hey sorry you re not feeling too great- can you tell us a bit more please?
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Hey guys, i dont know how to explain it more. I guess i just feel as if there is no purpose in living, and nothing to live for. It feels empty everyday and it feels like im just holding on barely to get through the day.
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Maybe you should go see your doctor?
You could be a bit depressed.
You ve just started college is that right? That's a big change of life style.
Do you have friends to talk to?
I remember from previous posts that you talked about feeling lonely.
Talk to us and tell us more.
Take care.
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Hey Amicon, yah i went to the doctors and they prescribed me some anti depressants only if i feel like i need some but i didnt get any. Yah i just started college, i have a couple of friends now. Im not sure if its because im lonely, i mean that could be the reason. But yah.
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I dont know a lot about meds but maybe you should? Watching comedies that make you laugh your head off might help?
Sending you good thoughts.

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is college working out ok none?

you know,its not for everyone...

if you cant pin point exactly what is getting you down,make a list....go through that list and tick off the areas that you think about or concern you the most...example...family,college,friends,a girlfriend,lonely,money....or just plain bla with everything!

happens,even to the best of us.

is there a college councillor on campus?

going by your other posts it would seem even though your surrouned by people your still lonely...its a tough place to be in your head when that happens.

for me,what works when im feeling crap is i do the things that make me feel good,when im good,so to speak...i love the mountains,so when im having a bad day and i just want to not be,i force myself to go to the mountains,its a car drive away,but somewhere in my head i know it works and ill feel better.

another im going to say.and its a little out there,but you may be missing human contact,a hug,the physical contact of another being....
i dont know how your fixed for time,but if you can volunteer in a animal hospital or shelter,caring,petting and recieving affection can help release those feel good hormones...

nothing like a waggy tail to put a smile of your face!

other then that none, im out of ideas for now,but i will keep you in mind...

theres always a shoulder here for you,and for all its worth...hug.

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I dont know exactly if college is working out, i mean my grades are alright but not horrible, but i have always wanted to major in music but my parents disapprove of that and their paying for my education so yah. Plus there are alot of stress with meeting the deadlines and sometimes i dont feel like keeping up anymore.

There are lots of things that concern me lol but then again who doesnt have anything to be concern about. Not having girlfriend, friends arent as reliable, school marks, family not giving the independence i seek, getting a good job, pursuing a career im happy in etc etc.

Yah seems like im surrounded by people but it just feels lonely sometimes, perhaps its not enough of a social life i am looking for. The last time i got a hug was like YEARS ago i even forgot when. I think i need one. I try to smile when im around others to not bring the bad mood but sometimes i cant help it and there's so much i can do until i start looking down again.

But i mean, just seems like im just another person with just problems except im complaining and no one else is. I dont even know why i am down, everything just feels so empty.
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