My girlfriend and I were friends for about 3 years before we realised that we both wanted eachother. I had a girlfriend before her, and she was my friend through that... And ever since my new girlfriend and I have been going out she tells me that she has dreams that my ex and I always get back together or that I cheat on her with my ex. She tells me that she isn't afraid of losing me cause she knows I'm not going anywhere, and I really have no idea why else she would have those dreams...

Could anyone give me some possible reasons why she has these dreams?

If anyone can help me with this, it would help a lot..

thanks

Seven24

Dude its simple my gf did the same thing its because she knew what you and your ex had together as did mine, and i asked my gf why she would always say that , and basically she said b/c she was jealous that it wasnt her and she wished that it was blah blah blah shell get over it its just that fact that your new gf is someone that knows about u and your ex and your history together Everythings gonna be alright chicks are weird dude

dvg85

thanks.

MrAdams

Don't fret any over it all the dreams dont mean she thinks you are cheating on her nor do they mean that she is cheating on you .. basically she has some insecurities about herself that she may not be able to live up to what you and your former gf had more than likely she truely truely loves you and you show her that you feel the same towards you shes a good woman not to up and accuse you but rather actually discuss this with you just continue to show her how you feel and treat her as gold but dont over do it .. then it will appear as though you are compensationg for something just reassure her by actions not words that she has nothing to be insecure about ... insecurities arent something we like to admit but we all have them about something dont let her feel demeaned for them just be a good man and a caring bf to her in time her dreams will pass

elrp

Well, as a girl myself (Haha) she may just feel a little bit insecure. She knew how you felt about your ex and she's probably just being paranoid that you still have feelings for her, or you liked her more than you do your current g/f. Just reassure her that you have no feelings for your ex and that it's her you want to be with.

But, like seven24 said, she will get over it. She just needs a bit of time. The fact that she told you she's having these dreams it's a good thing, it shows she's open with you and you can discuss stuff that's bothering her. So, if these dreams are bothering her, then she's likely to tell you about it.