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    anonymus me Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 7, 2010, 03:27 PM
    I feel bad about something I did in the past and I'm afraid in case someone finds out
    2 years ago this girl who at the time seemed like a friend but everyone else told me she was rouble but I didn't listen because I thought she was fun. Whenever I think about it I get this awful dreaded feeling and it won't go away because I see her in school all the time .we don't talk we're very mean to each and now hate each other. What happened was in the beginnning we just drank and snuck cigarettes together from her mum, it was fun while it lasted. She kissed me and I kissed her back ,we didn't have sex but we did some stuff I'm to ashamed to talk about with anyone . I think she has kept her mouth closed this long only because she's ashamed 2 but I got mad at her and called her some things which I regret to this day but she was just as mean back to me so I told her to never speak to me again.. we didn't until she told her mother that I stole cigarettes . I denied it because her mother came to my mother so I got scared and denied it... she says mean things when we pass each other and so do I but I just wish we didn't know each other.. I mean I know we were just curious teens.. very young but I don't know how to relieve my feeling and don't say talk 2 my friends because they hate lesbians... which I am not and I guess they just dislike what they do but I could never tell them.. I made them hate her too.. do you see god I feel awful.. please help me from anonymus me
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    Jan 7, 2010, 04:15 PM

    Hey Anonymus,
    I think the less contact you make with her is the best. Don't say anything mean to her as she walks by, ignore her. By calling her mean names back is going to only pour fuel into the fire. Being mean to someone because they are mean to you isn't the right thing to do. If you can't talk to your friends you can talk to me anytime dear I don't mind giving advice and lending someone an ear when they need to vent. My AIM information is on my page and you may also message me on this site. If you have any issues you feel upset about let the Askmehelpdesk community we are here for you when you are down. Just stay calm and be nice and bite that tongue of yours. =]
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    Jan 7, 2010, 05:43 PM

    Thank you it means a lot... at least I can put my mind at ease
    p.s thanks for not judging me lol
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    Jan 7, 2010, 05:48 PM

    Dear Anonymus,
    I would never judge someone who is asking for help and is putting their heart on the line. If you need anymore advice let me know and I'll be more than glad to help you =]
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    Jan 7, 2010, 06:15 PM

    Wel I have just submitted a problem on bullying if you'd like to give me your view on that problem :)

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