I'm only 13 and i have more problems than i can handle... I don't talk to my parents about it and i don't have any one that i can got to, i don't trust a lot of people.. So please help me. I have thoughts of killing my self and i take pills and drink i feel like theres no other way to cope with my problems... I think i suffer from depression but every time i i try to talk to my mom about my problems she doesn't listen. She spends all of her time on the computer.She never pays attention to me or anything that i have to say... I just really need HELP so
PLEASE...

jolienoire

Okay Jordan, what is making you depressed? what type of problems are you having that makes you feel the way you do?

talaniman

You need to talk to at least one trusted adult, a school counselor comes to mind, and ask for help. An adult family member maybe. It comes down to you will have to trust someone. Do you have a family physician?

JordanRose13

My mom she make me feel like im use less, and my friends every time i feel like i can trust them i tell them personal stuff and they go behind my back and say something to other people and their moms...
Like this weekend i went to a party and got drunk and feel asleep with this guy...
I didnt know what happened his sister went and told her mom that i went down on him and nothin happened

Choux

Where is your father? The father is the greatest ally for a girl in her teen years as she confronts all the sexual pressure coming at her from all directions.

Your father needs to give you love and attention; he needs to treat you like the beautiful young woman you are and give you strength so you can resist all the sex, drugs, alcohol out there.....

Fr_Chuck

Well sorry first why is a girl 13 going to parties, drinking and so on.
Sounds like there needs to be a seroius change of life style.

But you need to discuss this iwth a teacher or school couselor so that professoinal help and counseling can be done.

Allheart

Here is a little video...watch it for me Jordan, I hope it helps




First of all Sweetheart,

You are never alone. EVER. We all are here for you and I would love nothing more then to help your way around this.

Sweetheart, please, don't join in with those that wish to put you down. You have to rely on yourself and love yourself.

At 13 you should not be drinking. Drinking is a depressant, it will only make you more depressed.

Tal is right, go to a school counciller. If you tell us your area, we can give you links to places you maybe can go.

Please, I completely understand about having it rough at your age, but this is where you have to dig down deep, and trust and beleive in yourself. There will be a time when you get older that you will be on your own and true friends will be in your life.

You have us here...always.

Someone told me that no one, on this earth, is ever worth YOU allowing them to hurt your spirit or your soul.

At this age, you will have to follow the rules of your home. If there are problems in the home, seek a counciller at school. Soon you will be 18 and can start making your own choices and decisions.

I want you to want more for yourself. We all do.

Jordan, please pop back in and let us know how you are. You are too beautiful and too young to be drowning in this way.

All of these hard times will make you stronger. Trust and beleive in yourself. I beleive in you.

We hope to hear from you very soon.

Allheart