my bf says hes a sociopath. it makes sense i guess. how do i deal with this. because iv'e had enough now where i could almost leave him. At the same time is it right to leave him just because of that?

N0help4u

If he is a sociopath nothing really matters to him....move on without him and find a life for yourself. Sociopaths are great con artists and can convince you of anything.

beth911

I think i left him because i thought i quit careing about him. and we never see each other.
now i realize i do care but i just dont wanna be hurt anymore and hes like a stranger to me and i neeed someone whos there for me.
and now i cant think about all the times he hurt me. i wish i could just think about that so i wouldnt hurt as bad now. i just keep thinking of all the times when it really seemed like he did love me and things changed and i think its from not seeing him.
maybe if i would have just waited a few weeks things would b better.
but he still would get mad every now n then and hurt me.
and he still wont even hold hands with me or anything

N0help4u

You have to realize in any relationship, even the MOST abusive, the woman often tends to remember the past in an idealistic romanticized way. As time goes on they tend to block the negative hurts to a minimal numb.

s_cianci

Run from him and don't look back.

talaniman

http://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...ip-163044.html, This is more of the same, as her other posts.

susangpyp

Talaniman: Thanks for the heads up.

beth911

I told him i found someone else. and then he wanted me back and i took him back.
now i kinda miss talking to the other guy. i swore on everything i would never talk to him again and i wouldnt do this to him again.
things are going great now
but what should i do?