hi pple im f, 20 years. i feel really shy to speak boldly to the people around me, especially to boys..
im not able to look at their eyes and im not able to find the reason why. i really want to overcome this problem. help me come out of this, give me a good solution plzz..

Clough

If there are some boys that you trust and are close to as far as feelings, you could tell them about your problem and practice speaking to them while looking into their eyes. It really just takes practice.

Most people don't look into the eyes of another all the time while speaking with them. But, in order to show that you are in earnest concerning the subject about which you are speaking, you will normally spend some amount of time looking into the other person's eyes.

Idrees

I used to feel shy when I was a child. I am still shy, but now the intensity has
decreased pretty much. When I was a child I used to shy from beautiful girls specially
from those who are in makeup. I was very much fascinated with them as well. It was
difficult for me to talk with them and if I say something, that was very childish.

When Internet came, it became easier for me to chat with girls. Now I am almost in
mind half of average age of my country. I am shy, but not that much. Now I can talk
with girls. But still, I feel difficulty while talking to a girl, whom is of type that
I may get involved. If it happens that at conscious or subconscious level I am getting
involve with her then it is difficult for me to talk with her. May be its because there
are some forces at uncurious level that try to stop me and as a result I shy (my
theory).

I suggest that 1st you try to communicate in text (online e.g. any messenger). Then
talk with him in voice. Try to talk for longer. It'll help you build confidence. In the
next stage your mind will be prepared to face him. I hope it'll be of any help to you.