Am I really selfish?

Somehow I think I already know what the answer is. I usually try to help other people the best I can even though I am not an expert. I even keep in contact with a few members here. I searched on here and I am not sure I read anything the same. There are so many of you/us that suffer when we lose...

I have been in a relationship with this guy. After we met, 3 weeks later my father commit suicide due to some family problem. It was not anyhow related to my relation with this guy. But since my father's death it seems that I have changed a lot. I have lost control over my temper and I lose it when...

Hello, I've been dating my friend off and on since December. We took a class together and on the very last day I asked her out, before I had hardly talked to her. We dated for two weeks, she dumped me for someone in another country. There was some time that I did not talk to her, maybe a...

Is it selfish to just elope and not invite anyone to the wedding? I like small weddings but if it was up to my fianc? We would have 500+ at the reception/weddings. I can think of a lot of better things to do with that money.

My husband has done many things to hurt me. To begin, he lied about who he was when we were dating. We were young and in college; he pretended to not smoke, get drunk, and go to church regularly. Thus, we seemed to have so much in common. We talked for hours; he swept me off my feet with...