Hi i am 15 and i have a girlfriend. I am getting annoyed with my erections. I get erections when i am just making out with her and not doing anything else and i don't want to be aroused. And also sometimes even if we arnt kissing if we get really close i get a erection and i want to be able to just lie with her without getting a erection popin up . Please tell me what to do. Any ways to help it stop

starbuck8

I feel a little uncomfortable, saying this to a 15 yr old boy, but I commend you for asking the question.

Try masturbating several times, before you meet up with her, or if you are with her and you feel like you are going to get an erection, politely excuse yourself from the room, and go into the bathroom.

It's normal at your age, but it is good that you are asking questions, and you are respecting your girlfriend. I hope you aren't planning on going any further with her, at age 15. Believe it or not, girls will respect boys that have self control, and care enough to stop before it goes too far.

Jesushelper76

Honestly, this is completely normal to get erections often. It is normal and it might be annoying but at the same time but it sounds like you care a lot and do not want things to get to far which is good. Is there anyway to stop it. Probably not, since your attracted to your girlfriend.

simoneaugie

As a girl, I was always amazed with erections. It meant that I turned him on! Boys are frequently embarrassed by the unwanted or unexpected erection. Girls either don't notice or know that it means that she is sexy. (Well, maybe that's just me.)

Girls may be concerned that because it's hard, he'll take advantage. Can you talk to your girlfriend about your unruly member? If the two of you can discuss it and get comfortable with a natural occurance then it won't be such an issue.

ISneezeFunny

I remember I used to get erections during my sophomore year of high school...around 1040am...in spanish class. for NO reason. My teacher LOVED it when kids would come up to the board to write stuff in spanish too...so you can imagine how rough that was.

When you start getting an erection, I suggest you excuse yourself to the bathroom and "fix" yourself...either do what starby says or just adjust yourself so that it's not noticeable. The more you think about it, the longer it'll stay, so get your mind off it.

ISneezeFunny

took me 7 years, but now I can say "hi" properly.

T77Tiger

I always try to think about somthing else and even if i am not thinking about it from the start i cant stop it from coming up

ISneezeFunny

I feel ya, as you get a bit older, you'll get a better control of your body. In the meantime, do what you can to minimize letting people know, and you'll be ok.

bushg

Wear whitey tightys instead of boxers, loose pants and longer shirts...may help disguise it.

Fr_Chuck

it is all part of being 15, and all the above answers is where it is at