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Why am I going soft during sex?

Asked Sep 13, 2009, 06:14 PM — 17 Answers
Me and my girlfriend have sex almost everyday and we love it. Recently I been going soft during sex, or right after cuming. Its almost like when I need to be hard or she wants me to be I can't be but when were not doing anything were having for-play I can but in the middle it gets soft? When she gives me oral I have no problem staying hard no matter how long. What could this be from? I don't smoke or do drugs, used to drink a good bit but stopped drinking 8 months ago. I don't know if this has anything to do with it but somtime when I try to pee its hard to get the flow going. Help? Thanks

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Sep 15, 2009, 02:48 PM
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I can't say no cause then she'll think she's not attractive and I don't want her and bla bla bla lol.
Sex is not the only way to make your girlfriend feel attractive. Use your common sense child!
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Sep 15, 2009, 03:03 PM
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Sex is not the only way to make your girlfriend feel attractive. Use your common sense child!
Not being ignorent, but you seriously have NO CLUE what your talking about or what type of person I am. I NEVER rushed into anything or hinted tword it, I do a lot of things for my girlfriend, she is the one who wants it, I even tell her EXACTLY what you just said. I could care less if she told me she didn't want to again, I love her for who she is and not sex. I tell her how much she means to me each and every day and just how beautiful she is and would do anything for her and her happy-ness. I know that's not the only way to make her feel attractive, its just what she wants.
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Sep 15, 2009, 03:13 PM
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i know that's not the only way to make her feel attractive, its just what she wants.
Then maybe you should grow up a little, be a man, and tell her, "We are too young to be doing this."
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Sep 15, 2009, 03:51 PM
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Then maybe you should grow up a little, be a man, and tell her, "We are too young to be doing this."
I appritiate your concern guys but this turned from a question into everyone getting on my case, were 16 and both choose to have sex. Its our choice, and no she's not a hornball we just play around and call each other that, and her as well as me choose to and want to. I Love her and would never do anything to hurt her, if she wants to stop that would be more then fine by me, whatever makes her happy. I don't want her thinking its her fault that its happenening or that she isn't attactive or that she isn't doing something right because she is perfect, that's why I tried to ask you guys, thanks for ALLL the help guys, really you helped me sooooooooo much, like no.
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Sep 15, 2009, 04:14 PM
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not being ignorent, but you seriously have NO CLUE what your talking about or what type of person I am. I NEVER rushed into anything or hinted tword it, I do a lot of things for my girlfriend, she is the one who wants it, I even tell her EXACTLY what you just said. I could care less if she told me she didn't want to again, I love her for who she is and not sex. I tell her how much she means to me each and every day and just how beautiful she is and would do anything for her and her happy-ness. I know that's not the only way to make her feel attractive, its just what she wants.
You said youreslf that you can't deny her or she'd feel unattractive, that's what I'm talking about, you CAN deny her and still make her feel attractive. DUH. You're going to have to get used to people getting on your case, most of us call it like we see it. If you don't want people "picking" on you, then don't post personal stuff. It's going to happen
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Sep 16, 2009, 01:15 PM
The answer to why you are going soft is to see a Physician and have a physical history and exam. Other than that you are asking "us" to diagnose your problem over the Internet.

While you're at the Doctor's office have a blood sample taken for DNA purposes so that that doesn't have to be done at a later time.

If you decide to stop having sex with your girlfriend that extra time might be well spent learning to spell.
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Sep 16, 2009, 01:18 PM
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If you decide to stop having sex with your girlfriend that extra time might be well spent learning to spell.
Touch

Can you tell me what "appritiate" means?
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Sep 16, 2009, 05:49 PM
I would help you with appritiate but I'm working on attactive and happenening.

As I said - less sex, more education.
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