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Asked Jun 27, 2012, 07:54 PM — 18 Answers
So my new girlfriend and i have been together for a couple days so far, and weve been getting very intimate. Weve been having lots of make out sessions but are not sexually active. The thing is, a little while after these sessions, or if theyre very long, my genitals (im a guy) start to get very very sore and tender, like if anything (including my clothes) touches them they throb. Also my lower abdomin is very sore. This comes as a suprise because im bery relaxed when im with her and were not sexualy active in any way. My question is has anyone else ever had this and does anybody know what it is because right now i cant walk because it is so painfull. Thanks in advance
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Jun 28, 2012, 08:16 PM
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It happened to me if u move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow I'm being serious. It's better to be safe and check everything that might have to do with it than find out it actually is. And u should wait to have sex until ur older and quit it with the underage sex, that's how u get stds which it might also be.
So you're saying that you lost your balls?

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It happened to me if u move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow
I agree that if there's a concern the OP should see a doctor.

Underage sex? Where did you get that from? The OP stated that they're not sexually active.
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Jun 29, 2012, 05:01 AM
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You're not sexually active, and you shouldn't be, that's good. The pressure, or discomfort ,you're feeling, is most likely due to being aroused, without release.

You're in Canada! We have sex education! You didn't learn this in school!?
No i have not learned this in school, but ive never heard of this in my life, which is why im worried
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Jun 29, 2012, 05:04 AM
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So you're saying that you lost your balls?



I agree that if there's a concern the OP should see a doctor.

Underage sex? Where did you get that from? The OP stated that they're not sexually active.
No were not having sex and theyre not twisting or even uncomfortable, they just get tender,
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Jun 29, 2012, 05:08 AM
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It happened to me if u move them wrong they can twist and cut off blood flow I'm being serious. It's better to be safe and check everything that might have to do with it than find out it actually is. And u should wait to have sex until ur older and quit it with the underage sex, that's how u get stds which it might also be.
I dont have an std, and its nit from discomfort, it just starts
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Jun 29, 2012, 05:24 AM


Sexual arousal - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
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Jun 29, 2012, 05:27 AM
Hello h:

Google, "blue balls"..

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Jun 29, 2012, 08:37 AM
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Hello h:

Google, "blue balls"..

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Omg thank you excon, that would be it, is there a way to treat, fix or stop it from happening? Obviously without Havig sexual release?
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Jun 29, 2012, 08:44 AM
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Omg thank you excon, that would be it, is there a way to treat, fix or stop it from happening?
Hello again, h:

Nahhh..

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Jun 29, 2012, 09:09 AM
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Hello again, h:

Nahhh..

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Dammit -_- thanks so much
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