help ive got these skin coloured spots on my penis ive ask about this befor and i got told its natural! but i would like a second appinunn so what do u think? and also can i get rid of them because im scared to have sex with my girlfiend and i really dont no what to do! what do you think i should do?

if you could hurry and anser my question this would help me so much! as i got to addmit im scared about it!


thank you!

Tim

J_9

They are normal and natural. Most adult men do have these spots. If they are not painful and you have never had sex, then you don't have to worry about STDs.

They are called sebaceous cysts, basically just a little oil built up under the skin is all it is.

sk8terboygaz

ok then thank you alot you have helped but i have got one more question will they go or can i get rid of them becausee other wise im going to be scared to have sex with my girlfriend so what do i do?



thank you!


Tim

J_9

Usually they don't go away, and most likely you can't get rid of them. They are normal and most men have them.

If you are scared to have sex because of this, maybe you are too young to have sex? Also, remember that ifyou have sex, you run the risk of being a father no matter what kind of birth control you use. The only 100% effective method of birth control is no sex.

Are you ready for fatherhood yet?

Just food for thought.

sk8terboygaz

once again thank you! lol and no im not ready to be a dad thats y i would use a comdom! and i understand what you are saying but even if they dont go what am i going to do because i dont always want to be scared of having sex??


thank you


Tim

J_9

Well, first you have to mature enough so that you are confident with who you are as a person. I know it sounds harsh, but I have boys most likely around your age, but you are not ready yet, with a condom or not, if you are not confident with yourself.

How about the person with a birthmark on their face? Do you think they are scared to go out in public? Probably not, because they know WHO they are inside. That is what is important.

You are young. Get some life experience under your belt before you begin having sex and babies. And NO condoms are not 100% effective either.

My nursing school class did an experiment with condoms. We had 100 condoms and we filled them all with water. Guess how many had teeny tiny microscopic holes in them where the water (sperm) would leak out?

67

So, see, even if the condom doesn't break or come off, there is still a chance.

Enjoy what life you have now, get confident with your own skin, before you risk losing your freedom.

Tuscany

Great answer J-9.,
I bet you are the best mom!!

sk8terboygaz

well ive got to say your good lol i cant thank you enuff and i understand everything your saying!



thank you


Tim

J_9

LOL, Tim I am a Mom of 4 kids ages 20, 19, 13, and 4. And they are all still virgins. So, I kinda know where I am coming from.

I am 42 and too young to be a grandmother . I am sure your Mother feels the same way.

Just learn to feel comfortable with who you are and the right time will present itself. Just don't rush. You are not ready yet.

sk8terboygaz

hello again im not going to go on anymore about them spots even though im still worring about then but i wanted to ask another question this is going to sound pritty silly but it seems that the skin on my penis is shredding and i know that sounds odd but what is going on?? please help


thank you once again

Tim