I am a 50 year old male who gets easily aroused but I find that it takes forever to reach orgasim. I sure would like to go back to the situation when I reach an orgasim in less time. Any help?

talaniman

How slow are you and why is it a problem???

kepi

Sounds like HE is taking longer to orgasm than his partner, and is then left without orgasm....

pad5000

Boney,
I have the exact same problem -- and probably share your frustration with the answers above. My wife does not like me taking 45 minutes to come -- despite what the ladies say above -- and I don't like it either. I wish there was a way to experience more pleasure more quickly -- the masturbation before sex answer isn't bad -- but my God, who has the time?
This is related to 'head' issues, sure, but I also think we need to retrain our s, frnakly. I've stopped watching visual porno while masturbating -- I think I need to be more 'present' for my girl, right there in the moment. I'm also doing Kegels and acupuncture. I'll let you know how it goes...and keep me posted if you figure anything else out!
Thanks!

Boney

Hi Talaniman

Thanks for that. Yeah I have tried more foreplay - but it is kinda lengthy - am looking for a way to increase feeling / sensitivity. Thanks

Boney

Pad5000

Thanks for this. Yeah a bit long in the warm up zone is frustrating. I have found that Kegels and an Aneros help. The Aneros really gets things going. Have you every tried one? But if the acupunture works or some other way to keep it nice and natural let me know. Cheers.

Boney

Hi Kepi
Thanks for the advice. It is just a bit off putting having to do this every time or having to rush off somewhere to get warmed up. But hey the advise is good it does help.

pickerill

Try being more adventurous in the bedroom, try something new, this could help to lighten the load!

josephh19

After you orally satisfy your partner have her orally stimulate you and then without hesitation enter her. It will work!