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    Oct 4, 2008, 07:55 AM
    Is it gonorrhea?
    My boyfriend and I are sexually active. Our last intercourse was a week ago.

    Yesterday, my boyfriend told me that he has gonorrhea. I don't know if it is really gonorrhea.

    He told me that he felt DIFFICULTY IN URINATION and he noticed a YELLOW DISCHARGE.

    A while ago, we were together and I gave him a blow job. His penis and testicles looks very normal.

    Meanwhile, with my situation, I also felt some symptoms of gonorrhea: MILD FEVER, BODY ACHE AND CHILL but I do not have yellow or green discharge. It is normal and transparent.

    Please tell me if it is GONORRHEA.

    Thank you.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 07:58 AM

    Please see a doctor at once. Because you gave him a BJ you now have this in your mouth and throughout your system. He needs to see a doctor at once also if he has a discharge and difficulty in urinating.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 07:59 AM

    Doctor ASAP

    It is something, and you need medication attention as does boyfriend.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:00 AM
    It sounds like it is possible. However, you and your boyfriend will need to be seen by a doctor to get the proper diagnosis and treatment. Remember, STDs left untreated can cause problems with fertility.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:07 AM

    Aww. We are so scared to be checked by doctors. We are just minors. Huhuhu. We do not know what to do.

    What are the treatment the doctor will give? Do you know? Wahh. What are the tests? Will be there some laboratory test? Hayyy.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:09 AM
    Go to your local health department. You both will need to be put on antibiotics.

    Sounds like someone in this relationship is not being faithful.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:18 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Go to your local health department. You both will need to be put on antibiotics.

    Sounds like someone in this relationship is not being faithful.
    Aww. You think so? Hay. Is it possible that it is because of poor hygiene down there?
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:22 AM
    Hun, I know so... Did much of my teen nursing clinicals in a health department.

    It is NOT because of poor hygiene, gonorrhea is a sexually transmitted infection. It is passed on through sex ONLY. So, it sounds as though one of you two is cheating on the other.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:22 AM

    You don't get it from poor hygene
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:31 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Hun, I know so....Did much of my teen nursing clinicals in a health department.

    It is NOT because of poor hygiene, gonorrhea is a sexually transmitted infection. It is passed on through sex ONLY. So, it sounds as though one of you two is cheating on the other.
    What if he did not cheat on me and never had a sexual intercourse with somebody else, is there a big chance that it is not gonorrhea?
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by twinkiedooter View Post
    Please see a doctor at once. Because you gave him a BJ you now have this in your mouth and throughout your system. He needs to see a doctor at once also if he has a discharge and difficulty in urinating.
    Even if I did not swallow the semen?
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:51 AM
    Sweetie, I cannot diagnose this over the internet. You HAVE to see a doctor about this.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:51 AM
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    Even if I did not swallow the semen?
    Yes, even if you did not swallow the semen.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    Sweetie, I cannot diagnose this over the internet. You HAVE to see a doctor about this.
    Okay. Thank you for the information and I'm so sorry for asking too much questions ah?

    Lovelove. Mwah. =)
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    Oct 4, 2008, 08:56 AM
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    Yes, even if you did not swallow the semen.
    Aww. Okay okay. Thank you. =)
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    Oct 4, 2008, 09:06 AM

    There is a big chance this is something serious, and it can even get deadly if left untreated.

    No it is not because someone is not clean ( but that is a totally different issue)

    Swallowing does not make a difference, things are absorbed in the mouth very easy and gets into the blood stream right away in the mouth.

    You need to go to a health clinic, your family doctor, something,
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    Oct 4, 2008, 09:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    There is a big chance this is something serious, and it can even get deadly if left untreated.

    No it is not because someone is not clean ( but that is a totally different issue)

    Swallowing does not make a difference, things are absorbed in the mouth very easy and gets into the blood stream right away in the mouth.

    You need to go to a health clinic, your family doctor, something,
    Hay. Okay, thank you. I think I really have to see a friendly doctor. I will just earn some confidence.
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    Oct 4, 2008, 07:06 PM

    This is serious. If left untreated it can cause some very serious problems. Stop acting dumb. See the doctor. Have your boyfriend tell whoever he cheated on you with that he has the clap and that they have to be seen by a doctor also. Yes, he cheated on you, get over it. Hopefully you have not been with anyone else either as you would have given this to them as well.

    I don't care if you are minors or majors or whatever, this is how epidemics of STD's start - by people who don't properly see a doctor when they know something serious is wrong with them.

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