me and my husband got married and appearently he has loved me from the time he has married me but from the first day he has been scared of sex and we have not led a healthy sexual relationship. We only have sex when i push him to have sex. He seems the least attracted to me and still claims that he loves me. He never makes any romantic moves on me and now after three years of constantly asking him whats wrong he does not answer my question . After many fights now I have left him as I feel unwanted in this relationship. I have a deep felling there is something sexuallly wrong with him. He usuually gets a hard on when we are having sex stays for a while then softens up and he hardly comes. I need help !!! please help me

letmetellu

Was he like this when you were dating was he not interested in sex, did he ever get a hard on. You say that you only have sex when you push him, how do you push him. I would like to have some details so I would know how to discuss this better.
Has he started taking any medications, do you have money problems that could be bothering him.

Send me more info and we can talk. You could send an e-mail me if you would like.

Kattalover

I agree with letmetellu: it's hard to say without more information.

How old are you and your husband? How long were you together before you got married? Has he always been like this?