Question about being a virgin??

Imax · #1 Apr 10, 2005, 02:22 AM

I am a 17 year old teenage guy from canada and I was wondering if its sad or pathetic to be a virgin at the age of 17. And when is a good age to lose your virginity if there is one ?

Hope you can help me out. Thanks.

fredg · Apr 11, 2005, 06:23 AM

Hi,
I am 63 yrs old, so take what I say with my age in mind!
It is no "sin" to be a virgin.
I was 18 when I got "lucky".
Your first time will be up to you, and the young lady you like well enough to have sex with. BE SURE you wear protection, a condom, when you do.
Don't ever take any young lady's word for it that you are the first....unless you know of course, that she is not lying to you.
There is no "set" age at when a young man has sex, it's different for everyone.
My first was in the front seat of a car, with a bench seat, sitting on a deserted river bank, looking at the moon......very, very, nice!!
Best of luck,
fredg

billp · Apr 11, 2005, 10:31 AM

I agree with fredg. There is no "age limit" and certainly no real value to going all the way unless it feels right for both you and the girl. I was 17 and my girl was 18. More boys than you realize don't get there until they are in their 20's. There is always a lot of bragging (and lying).

I found that the most fun was with someone I really loved (and I loved my first--she is now my wife!). It makes it far more worthwhile. Otherwise it is like two dogs, which is how it felt in my "fallen out" period when I tried "the others."

cheers,

Bill

Star_Girl_123 · Apr 12, 2005, 11:52 PM

Hey there

Just thought you might want a female opinion on this post.
I was 17 and my boyfriend was 18 when we both lost our virginity. I'm now 19 and I find nothing more annoying than overhearing guys bragging (or yes, more like lying as is often the case) about how many girls they've slept with.

If you dont push for it, it will come to you when it's sposed to.

Oh and I dont believe there is any particular age that one should lose their virginity, but I dont believe in not having sex before marriage either - you've gotta try before you buy!!!

zeeshan · Apr 28, 2005, 06:29 PM

[quote=Star_Girl_123]Hey there
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aHmm aHmmmm... may I have your contact number please....

Star_Girl_123 · Apr 28, 2005, 08:29 PM

In your dreams

zeeshan · Apr 28, 2005, 08:33 PM

lollzz.. well in my dreams I'll do something else....

xXRachelXx · Apr 29, 2005, 01:34 PM

Hey,
I lost my virginity when i was about 15... and i regret it... i really think you shouldnt be pressured into it by all of your "buddies", they might say they've done it but they are probably all in the same position as you are... Do it with someone you love or like... but dont let it get to you. (being a girl) i think that you MUST make sure the girl you are planning with WANTS to do it... i didnt and the sex felt good... but very awkward, ive made many mistakes in my life (such as being a call girl for a day) and (having sex with guys who pressured me) just go with the flo and let what happens happen.
:P
Rachel

HANK · Apr 29, 2005, 01:45 PM

You ought to be damn proud you're a virgin. It's a smart move. When looking at the future, with all those diseases out there, young and old alike have to think more then twice before they take the next step in a relationship. Wait until your wedding night!

HANK

Brandi Nikki · Jun 3, 2005, 10:03 AM

I think it is a good thing to be a virgin! that way u really gotta worry bout all the yhings u can catch(there is A LOT!!!)



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