going limp during sex

punkrock58 · #1 Aug 14, 2007, 02:15 AM

Ok im 17 and the other day i was having sex in an out doory kinda not so private area....and we were doing are thing i was hard but then as we go along it seemed like i was harder at times then others....then as we were going it just went dead for no reason....this has never happend to me before...but ive never finished during sex....i go a really long time...i sumtimes get random hard on's also when i think about sexual activitys....i masterbait quite abit to pornografy or even just thoughts in my head just takes longer...the only way a girl has ever gotten me off was with a hand job....i also take phills at times...but the ones that are perscribed to me are anti-depressants....so if any of you guys have any ideas i would apreasate it
Justin

Evil dead · Aug 16, 2007, 07:54 PM

Masturbating regularly actually makes it a little softer i've noticed. There used to be times when my became so hard it was physically painful - I could've smashed rocks with it. But i've noticed it's not as hard as before.

Simple remedy - stop beating off. It reduces excitement because you've seen most of it all in porn if you get what I mean.

punkrock58 · Aug 16, 2007, 08:43 PM

Ok i dont really get soft at all when i masterbait...and the physical pain i have had befor as well and still do from time to time....but i understand what you mean but over stimulating....so how long do you think i should stop? or should i just stop all togeather.

KeepItSimpleStupid · Aug 17, 2007, 03:43 AM

It may be a side-effect of the anti-depressant. Check the prescribing info. Do a search for "<drug name> physician prescribing information" and look for side effects.

jac1186 · Aug 27, 2007, 05:10 PM

Ive never comed during sex either, but I dont take any medications. I can go a long time also. I go soft before I come from sex. I did masturbate alot to pornography but I cut way back on that.

punkrock58 · Aug 27, 2007, 09:21 PM

actually i finally finished...took alot of consitration and force....lol but i finished...man did it feel good...didnt go soft...but it seems like when switching positions it gose soft quite quick...any ideas anybody?

jac1186 · Aug 28, 2007, 07:56 PM

Any advice punk rock as to my problem?

punkrock58 · Aug 29, 2007, 08:15 PM

well...what do you like privacy...or being adventurious? me and her went to a creek bed when it was becoming night...fully clothed...and i just let her be on top the whole time...so maybe that might work for you who knows?lol

zaracuda · Sep 3, 2007, 07:05 PM

damn do i no how u feel, im 15 been with my girl for 3 years n recently ive been getting limp while having sex aswell, and while recieving oral sex it just stays limp, maybe someone here could help me out with my problem aswell

punkrock58 · Sep 4, 2007, 10:32 PM

just to let you know it sometimes takes quite sometime to get an answere....but my q is...has she been doing anything different?



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