going limp during sex

punkrock58 · Aug 14, 2007, 02:15 AM

Ok im 17 and the other day i was having sex in an out doory kinda not so private area....and we were doing are thing i was hard but then as we go along it seemed like i was harder at times then others....then as we were going it just went dead for no reason....this has never happend to me before...but ive never finished during sex....i go a really long time...i sumtimes get random hard on's also when i think about sexual activitys....i masterbait quite abit to pornografy or even just thoughts in my head just takes longer...the only way a girl has ever gotten me off was with a hand job....i also take phills at times...but the ones that are perscribed to me are anti-depressants....so if any of you guys have any ideas i would apreasate it
Justin

MrPippin · Sep 13, 2007, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by punkrock58

i also take pills at times...but the ones that are perscribed to me are anti-depressants....so if any of you guys have any ideas i would apreasate it
Justin

Talk to your doctor about this problem, anti-depressants often cause erectile problems. See if he can prescribe an anti-depressant that does not have this side effect.

tairyn123 · Sep 13, 2007, 05:28 PM

if you guys use condoms as your protection maybe that could be the problem. My boyfriend had the same problem when we used condoms. He would lose his erection while hacing sex. Now that i have been on birth control for a long time he hasnt had that problem. i guess he just wasnt getting enough stimulation with the condom.

also...i am in NO way suggesting you dont use a condom!! but if you are with the same girl maybe she and you could talk about a different form of birth control??

ballengerb1 · Sep 13, 2007, 06:57 PM

Were you standing up in the outdoor arena? Maybe get your blood pressure checked after standing and doing exercise. I think you MAY have a pressure problem.

punkrock58 · Sep 17, 2007, 05:24 PM

well im off the meds for sometime now....and no i wasnt standing or anything...just laying down type deal....but i find that when i have sex....that when im out it gose away quite quickly and its hard to get back...any ideas?

QandAkid92 · Aug 22, 2009, 09:11 AM

So listen to this, I've never not busted for sex unless I had wacked off or already had sex that day, I got about a one nut limit unless I'm by myself but so I went on vacation I met this girl and we ed on the beach the second night and the only reason we didn't the first night is cause I couldn't get hard, then on the second night I went limp inside her three times! Really embarresing, eventually i got hard enough to bust but how do you get more adventurous then that? And I still had trouble staying hard? I gotta stop watchin porn and spankin it

QandAkid92 · Aug 22, 2009, 09:11 AM

So listen to this, I've never not busted for sex unless I had wacked off or already had sex that day, I got about a one nut limit unless I'm by myself but so I went on vacation I met this girl and we ed on the beach the second night and the only reason we didn't the first night is cause I couldn't get hard, then on the second night I went limp inside her three times! Really embarresing, eventually i got hard enough to bust but how do you get more adventurous then that? And I still had trouble staying hard? I gotta stop watchin porn and spankin it