erection problems

Koolestcat308 · #1 Sep 30, 2005, 07:51 AM

hey im 15 years old and am having erection problems. Me and my girlfriend have just started having sex and its been difficult. We have to use foreplay to get me erected,usually oral pleasure. After im erected it usually doesnt last that long after i put the condom on. Its not that hard to get an erection because i usually get them kinda often when were foolin around,i have on and off days it seems.Im freaking out because 15 year olds arent supposed to have to take viagra already

. Im really confused and could use any help. Thank you

dimples · Sep 30, 2005, 08:51 AM

You are right. Viagra are not candies for you, young man. Know what, there really is no need to worry about erection during sex at your age. Any guy could tell you that they had the same problem too when they were young. Also, though I am very much pro usage of barriers, there tend to be more difficulty maintaining an erection when wearing a condom due to lack of sensation.

fredg · Oct 3, 2005, 04:48 AM

Hi,
At 15 yrs old, you really, really have a lot to learn, and this is one place that can help. Take it easy, and don't worry about it. You are just starting out with one of the greatest pleasures of all; and it won't happen overnight.
One thing you might think about and your girlfriend, too, is:
At least 40% (that's almost half) of all girls in the United States are pregnant before they are 20 yrs old.
Years ago, that was "unheard of". Now, it's a fact.
Another fact: Using a condom does not mean there is a 100% chance she will not get pregnant. Think about it......you are not 100% safe.
You want to be a Daddy at 15??? Got a job? Got your own apartment??
What are you going to do when she gets pregnant??
I do wish you the best, but you are heading for trouble.
fredg

rainbowelite · Nov 2, 2008, 06:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by fredg

Hi,
At 15 yrs old, you really, really have a lot to learn, and this is one place that can help. Take it easy, and don't worry about it. You are just starting out with one of the greatest pleasures of all; and it won't happen overnight.
One thing you might think about and your girlfriend, too, is:
At least 40% (that's almost half) of all girls in the United States are pregnant before they are 20 yrs old.
Years ago, that was "unheard of". Now, it's a fact.
Another fact: Using a condom does not mean there is a 100% chance she will not get pregnant. Think about it......you are not 100% safe.
You want to be a Daddy at 15??? Got a job? Got your own apartment??
What are you going to do when she gets pregnant??
I do wish you the best, but you are heading for trouble.
fredg

Seriously do you not think he has thought about all of that already, he has a girlfriend, a hige number of peple are in his situation, i dont think lectures will help to be honest

Dapimpuhate · Nov 5, 2008, 01:38 PM

theres alot of things i could/would say.. but i am not ur parent..only thing i can say is.. safe sex all the way.. anyway... but my idea is.. maybe ur used to having sex so dont have sex for awhile and see if that helps... i heard that sometimes guys get TO excited and cant get erect.... also u can get lube.. like KY jelly warming sensation and what not to help with that..make sure u can use the lube with condoms though..sometimes some lube will make the condom break n what not...

path · Nov 6, 2008, 10:34 AM

This is not a lecture but just remember like someone said above condoms are not 100 %. Are you sure you are ready to be a father?



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