Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help!
Ask    ||    Answer
 
Advanced  
 

Ask QuestionsprogressAnswer QuestionsprogressBuild ReputationprogressBecome an Expert
 
Free Answers in 3 Easy Steps

Register Now
3 Steps

At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to:
  • Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics.
  • Accept money for answers that you provide.
  • Communicate privately with other members (PM).
  • See fewer ads.

Home > Health & Wellness > Men's Health   »   delayed ejaculation

 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Question
 
 
#1  
Old Sep 22, 2006, 08:47 PM
nick r
New Member
nick r is offline
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 2
nick r See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
delayed ejaculation

My girlfriend is getting upset because sex is taking so long. It takes me around 15 minutes to ejaculate. The shortest time has been 5 minutes. We can't have a quickie and I was just wondering is this normal and is there anything that I can do do make sex quicker at times. Most of the time it is ok but it is getting her frustrated.

Reply With Quote
 
     

Answers
 
 
Old Sep 22, 2006, 08:51 PM   #2  
Heating and Air Conditioning Expert
letmetellu is offline
 
Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Texas
Posts: 2,845
letmetellu See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.letmetellu See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.letmetellu See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Sounds to me more like premature ejaculation and you will get over it as time goes by.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 22, 2006, 09:07 PM   #3  
New Member
nick r is offline
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Posts: 2
nick r See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
No, I don't think it is premature. Apparently her last boyfriend could *** really quick or last really long. As I want sex every day a bit it would be good to have a quickie in the morning. A quickie though last anywhere from 15 to 30 minutes. Is there something to do with the prostate. Also when I come, it just blobs out and doesn/t shoot a long way. I am 36.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 22, 2006, 10:24 PM   #4  
Über Member
Jesushelper76 is offline
 
Jesushelper76's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 5,357
Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jesushelper76 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
You should be proud of yourself. Lots of men are lucky if they last a couple of minutes. Give yourself a pat on the back and tell your girlfriend that she is lucky that it does last long. Most women want this? It is hard when partners had someone to compare too. Everybody is different.


Joe
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Sep 22, 2006, 10:33 PM   #5  
Adult Sexuality Expert
kp2171 is offline
 
kp2171's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2005
Location: looking for my pants
Posts: 4,681
kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.kp2171 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
if your gf is pi$$Ed that it takes 15 min to get you to ejac. shes lazy.

you have got to be kidding me.

men generally have to hold back to allow time for the woman to build up to climax. and shes angry that you take a little longer???

this is BS.

best case scenario - lets say my partner sneaks into my bathroom and intends to "surprise" me as i come out of the shower. and lets say its all about satisfying me. it might take that long. if i was still the pimply 15 year old on the school bus who would damn near ejac. every time i say a glimpse of a girls thigh, well the delay might be shorter. but im not. it takes a little work to get things moving and for me to get lost in the moment.

she is being absurd.

there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.

the last girl i dated before my wife i could get off damn near 99% of the time, within 20 min of engaging intercourse. just the way she was "wired". my wife, i can probably satisfy her maybe 30% of the time... and shes not pi$$ed about it. she knows that shes just hard to get to climax.

so i think your gf is being a snot. do you tell her that shes not as tight or as big chested or as active as your HS sweetheart or your first? of course not. thats rude and disrespectful.

if shes grumpy about your needing 15 min (damn near a commercial break) to get it done, she is CLUELESS!!!

Comments on this post
Jesushelper76 agrees: Right to the point. I do not understand why some men are so concerned about this, WHEN IT IS NOT EVEN A PROBLEM BUT A GIFT.
  Reply With Quote
 
     

Your Answer
Email me when someone replies to my answer
Join Login





Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

 
Similar Sponsors


Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page

Similar Threads
ejaculation
(4 replies)
Ejaculation
(14 replies)
Lexapro - Delayed Ejaculation, If Ever
(5 replies)
ejaculation
(8 replies)
My child has delayed speech
(6 replies)

Search this Thread

Advanced Search

Bookmarks

Sponsors



Copyright ©2003 - 2009, Ask Me Help Desk.
All times are GMT -8. The time now is 07:40 AM.