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    canadianbacon Posts: 21, Reputation: 2
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    Jun 9, 2007, 08:39 PM
    Can't Masturbate to Orgasm
    This is sort of embarrassing, but I'd rather be embarrassed and get answers I guess :confused: . Anyway, I am a 20 year old male, and I have never been able to reach an orgasm through masturbation. I've tried numerous times, and I just bored/frustrated after a long session of masturbating. I figured that it meant I just couldn't ejaculate at all. However, when I started getting intimate with women, I could still not reach an orgasm through hand or oral stimulation, but I COULD through intercourse. So, I know I can orgasm, but why only through intercourse and nothing else. I would really like to be able to pleasure myself, or at least know to throw in the towel and not worry about it.

    I know it sounds stupid, but any advice would help, thanks :(
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    Jun 10, 2007, 12:09 AM
    To tell you the truth, I don't know if there's anything you can do. Some things just don't work for certain people. You say you've tried many things, but I'm still going to link you to a Male Masturbation website. It has some great suggestions. I advise you to try the ones that give a sensation similar to that of intercourse and see if it works.

    Best of luck!

    Male Masturbation- JackinWorld.com
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    May 29, 2008, 01:22 AM
    Good link Kepi ;), and nice title!! LOL!
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    Oct 14, 2012, 11:50 AM
    I have developed the same problem. It sucks not to find any advice. My wife only wants sex 1 or twice a month and it is very frustrating not being able to take cre of myself.
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