I disagree about the pain, but others may say differently. Moodiness? Absolutely.
Lots of things can contribute to problems, and as was already mentioned, mental blocks can be killer. Physical issues like depressioin, high blood pressure, etc can contribute, not to mention that the older you get, the more difficult it can be. At least its not the same as when you are 18... I remember riding to school in 8th grade on the bumpy bus rides and getting steel piercing erections for absolutely no good reason. Man... those erections are wasted on the young! Not saying I cannot get or sustain now, but I have noticed differences as I've aged, and I'm a little younger than your husband. Again, outside the physical, the mental side is big too. If he's upset or frustrated, if he just cannot lose himself in the moment, even if he wants to, then that can escalate the problem.
A few questions:
Is he having problems with sustaining or is longevity is fine, but no climax? When you've had sex, has he tried to climax without waiting for you? Can you stimulate him to that point by other means than intercourse?
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