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Never make a person a priority in your life, while allowing them to make you a option in theirs.

Obstacles are what you see, when you take your eyes off the goal!

There are no shortcuts to success. You have to work at it.

Check these posts out for some good insights on relationship break ups.
What to expect when you get dumped

List of things to do after breakup

No Contact Calandar

How to get them back
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January 10, 1954
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trying to get pregnant Women's Health May 11, 2008 06:07 PM Please do not judge me. Having another children to add on to the beautiful children i already have is a blessing and more than what most people have. life is bigger than child support money. Life is great when you have alot of love.
Is my boyfriend gay Adult Sexuality May 11, 2008 02:55 PM I'd agree with that.."experimentation" is the term.
How to know if hes the... Relationships May 11, 2008 06:20 AM EXACTLY!!!!! That's what I did, and I realized that most of the problem was within me..
Virgo men Relationships May 11, 2008 12:33 AM That's all I was saying...hehe.
My girlfriend and I... Relationships May 10, 2008 07:01 PM How true my dear, it's hard when we don't get a chance to see the 'whole picture'
should i leave my husband Relationships May 9, 2008 07:33 PM Sorry Tal, but kissing her husbands is not the answer.
What is going on with... Relationships May 9, 2008 01:07 PM Maybe she should offer to stay over with the friend, but leave the 2 year old at home with her dad to help him think. I totally agree with this answer....
What is going on with... Relationships May 9, 2008 12:55 PM Well said! (as usual...)
Think I Love her, Think... Relationships May 8, 2008 09:55 PM Exactly! Great advice as usual. Some lesson are hard learned.
Dating a divorced... Relationships May 8, 2008 06:13 AM Truer statement never uttered. If all parents thought like this children would not have many of the problems that they do.
Possible Solutions Of... Research May 8, 2008 02:03 AM Answer was straight and to the point!!
Possible Solutions Of... Research May 7, 2008 10:17 PM Thats not realistic, i mean is there a way on how to minimise the amount of drinking. people just wont stop willy nilly there has to be some form of rule.
Dating a divorced... Relationships May 7, 2008 10:01 PM Thanks for the reassurance.
Is ignorance the best? Relationships May 7, 2008 08:30 PM Exactly!!!!
My Best Friend Has Told... Relationships May 7, 2008 10:07 AM Exactly
"Taking a... Relationships May 6, 2008 09:41 AM Thanks, I'll give that a try and let you know how it works out :)
The NC Calendar Relationships May 6, 2008 07:04 AM Amen
What should I do? Relationships May 5, 2008 03:49 PM Tal thanks for the comments - they always seem to help. Please see above I almost posted a pity post...again not like me.
Can a non-Christian do... Christianity May 5, 2008 06:34 AM Spectacular answer!!!
How to get him/her back Relationships May 4, 2008 08:33 PM Answered with kindness and insight. Dead on!
i want to start from... Relationships May 3, 2008 06:08 PM Great advice as usual :)
The good old 'I need a... Relationships May 3, 2008 08:50 AM Yep, dead on.
My boyfriend has... Relationships May 2, 2008 11:01 AM Couldn't have said it better, dear Tal. You hit the nail right on the head - hope they give each other that chance to work it out.
Second though on... Relationships May 1, 2008 10:06 PM Lived together for a little over a year.
The NC Calendar Relationships Apr 30, 2008 08:31 PM see tal thats why you get the big bucks, GREAT ANSWER
he's still trying to be... Relationships Apr 29, 2008 05:12 PM The way he used to accuse me of fooling around boggled my mind sometimes. He was really good with the charm. looking back, he did make me think I was crazy sometimes.
How to handle false... Marriage Apr 28, 2008 01:11 PM yes, when I believe in myself, I feel stronger.
Will a gay person go to... Christianity Apr 26, 2008 12:37 PM Come on Tali, that makes too much sense, you are going to confuse people! :]
i lost him and we love... Relationships Apr 26, 2008 11:09 AM This is correct. I read it in the handbook!
Married and in love... Relationships Apr 26, 2008 09:28 AM Ahhh, I think you hit the nail on the head.
she said she needed a... Relationships Apr 25, 2008 04:26 PM True but everyone's situation is different as is the way they handle stress
I think my wife's... Relationships Apr 24, 2008 07:22 AM Perfect advice :) (again...lol)
Boyfriend may have a... Family Law Apr 24, 2008 02:36 AM agree
It's so painful. Relationships Apr 23, 2008 04:53 PM Sorry I just wanted to add that he said he still likes me quite alot...he did show those feelings back it's just well he is trying to move on and it's so hard for me.
Afraid Marriage is over Relationships Apr 23, 2008 04:19 PM I agree...very straightforward and to the point
not sure how to approach Teens Apr 23, 2008 01:51 PM think we all have been used once or twice and its not nice SO DONT DO IT!!!
b/f & suicide Relationships Apr 23, 2008 12:13 PM I def agree. She also shouldn't be doing this alone. Where is his family?
pics of girlfriend in... Relationships Apr 23, 2008 09:10 AM a bit rough, but true…
shes fooling on me or... Relationships Apr 23, 2008 07:35 AM read this if you havent.
Will a gay person go to... Christianity Apr 22, 2008 09:26 PM good judge, Homosexual is not a sin. no part of the bible saying it is a sin
what is the age for... Relationships Apr 22, 2008 12:13 PM I will cherish what I have now.
He's Racist! Relationships Apr 22, 2008 05:58 AM Life would never be easy...being on constant watch.
Broke NC Convo Seemed... Relationships Apr 22, 2008 04:27 AM How's that? It's great!
Will a gay person go to... Christianity Apr 21, 2008 10:41 PM Totally in sync with you on this one. Sin is in the eye of the beholder, and religion is obviously something that should not be used to judge someone. Judging, in the Biblem is defined as a sin.
How do you know? Relationships Apr 21, 2008 04:51 PM Yes.
Hurting and have no... Divorce Apr 20, 2008 06:31 PM Good answer.
My high school... Relationships Apr 20, 2008 04:28 PM Exactley!
He has a girlfriend.... Teens Apr 20, 2008 08:37 AM He most certainly is
Another she needs space... Relationships Apr 20, 2008 04:53 AM *applause*
will he come back? Relationships Apr 19, 2008 04:13 PM Truer words never spoken. Of course it's so much easier said than done for someone trying to make sense of the pain of a break-up
The NC Calendar Relationships Apr 19, 2008 07:26 AM So simple yet so accurate. What the hell was I thinking? Thanks I needed someone with a clear vision to point me in the right direction.
Emotional sex, not... Adult Sexuality Apr 19, 2008 03:48 AM I agree! I think he was trying to say that she was more than just a...well...fill in the blanks! Nice play on words, by the way, hehe!
Should I go down the... Marriage Apr 18, 2008 09:19 PM Spot on.
Broke NC Convo Seemed... Relationships Apr 18, 2008 08:37 PM she is a consenting adult and age is just a number
Why does my ex... Relationships Apr 18, 2008 08:08 AM Why can't I say things this short and simple?? You ROCK, Tal! :)
If looks aren't the... Dating Apr 18, 2008 07:10 AM Ooo I like that answer!
Broke NC Convo Seemed... Relationships Apr 16, 2008 11:29 PM I agree.
Running away Relationships Apr 16, 2008 09:37 PM Very well said. Excellent advice, let's hope it gets through.
Torn between my past... Relationships Apr 16, 2008 10:47 AM Right on the money with this one!
Will a gay person go to... Christianity Apr 15, 2008 06:38 PM it is a sin;its in the bible Sodom and Gomorrah
does he want me or not Relationships Apr 15, 2008 03:35 PM Your always good at catching the inconsistancies in peoples posts. It is good to know.
Break with GF! need... Relationships Apr 15, 2008 03:33 PM Ain't that the truth!!!
I'm a man, in love with... Relationships Apr 15, 2008 01:05 PM Thank You!
How to get him/her back Relationships Apr 15, 2008 07:47 AM Thanks, I needed to read that. This is not the life of the other person, it is your life to lead with happiness.
When is NC over? Relationships Apr 14, 2008 08:55 PM Brilliant, as usual.
Should I go down the... Marriage Apr 14, 2008 02:04 PM Simple and true
How to forget her &... Relationships Apr 14, 2008 09:33 AM Selfish Friendship.. That is So TRUE!.. dont speak to her man move on
why would your husband... Adult Sexuality Apr 14, 2008 07:03 AM I agree.....I never leave the wife frustrated....get the poor woman off and she won't need the toy.
Those little reminders. Relationships Apr 14, 2008 12:50 AM Great and wondeful advice, as always Tal.
I want to fix this... Relationships Apr 13, 2008 11:19 PM Good answer. I have read this whole thread carefully. I think I agree. I don't recommend "getting tough with her. I think it's inappropriate to try to dominate her or "train" her and it almost certainly won't work anyway.
Why do we always fall... Relationships Apr 13, 2008 09:51 PM That says it all.
He's Racist! Relationships Apr 13, 2008 08:13 PM Thank you, I have to be strong!
My 17 year old hates me... Parenting Apr 13, 2008 09:16 AM Exactly!
boy trouble Dating Apr 13, 2008 08:36 AM agreed
Why is everything more... Marriage Apr 13, 2008 06:50 AM Exactly! If he doesn't care she is making her own life and continues with his way then what has she really lost--I only see gain if he doesn't wanna change!
Married Men Only Adult Sexuality Apr 12, 2008 08:05 PM What a guy.....................(yes you do masturbate....its only human dude)
To the people who say... Relationships Apr 12, 2008 07:24 PM I know I personally owe you as you played a huge role in my growth and emotional healing.
The Bases Dating Apr 12, 2008 06:27 PM granted I have only been in a few long relationships, I hate when my friends keep count of how many girls they have been with. competely disrespectful!
Is she selfish? Adult Sexuality Apr 12, 2008 03:41 PM Excellent point.
She wants space.But... Relationships Apr 12, 2008 11:41 AM Thank you for being there...and always being positive.
Is he right for me? Relationships Apr 12, 2008 10:43 AM Right on. OP, listen to tal, he knows what he's talking about.
He's Racist! Relationships Apr 11, 2008 09:11 PM I do really agree to that!
Are there diffrerent... Adult Sexuality Apr 11, 2008 03:34 PM yup, CUMmunicate.
Married Men Only Adult Sexuality Apr 11, 2008 03:11 PM I love your answer....
Fantasy with a new love Relationships Apr 11, 2008 07:10 AM I do agree...thank you
Breaking up, for stupid... Relationships Apr 10, 2008 11:26 PM I couldn't of said it better myself!
I don't know what it... Relationships Apr 10, 2008 08:21 AM HILARIOUS
I don't know what it... Relationships Apr 10, 2008 08:05 AM Freakin AMAZING!!!
Can Someone Tell Me... Relationships Apr 9, 2008 02:48 PM Tal is right, and it's hard to hear but you are letting her get the best of you....and she knows she is doing it. So you have to stand up for number 1 because she never will.
Mom of 17 yr.old... Criminal Law Apr 9, 2008 12:50 PM I agree. It's a new day in my home and he knows it!
is it me or is my... Marriage Apr 9, 2008 08:07 AM Very good answer.
my girlfriend loves... Dating Apr 9, 2008 05:30 AM Wow I love this! Nicely put!!
I need some... Relationships Apr 8, 2008 02:44 PM Yes, if you "tie her hands" with a visitation order through court that will solve the issue with his other children. The threats to you, are they documented? Do you have witnesses? Have you considered a protection/no contact order?
Letter written during... Relationships Apr 8, 2008 12:22 PM 100% LOVE THE PARTY IDEA
Can a guy be too nice? Dating Apr 8, 2008 12:19 PM like a fortune cookie...nice ideas.
Return Engagement Ring Relationships Apr 8, 2008 11:22 AM dont want to drag it out figure out what to do without regret Thanx
Trying to Understand Mental & Emotional Health Apr 8, 2008 10:40 AM Thank-you for the info, however, I would never disrespect her. I would like other insights.
my 16 yr old daughter Family Law Apr 8, 2008 10:05 AM Absolutely - and the day she threatened me would be the day she'd be in Court as a minor in need of supervision - somewhere, but not here.
I messed up so bad! Relationships Apr 8, 2008 07:37 AM Very true! Time to move on now girl!
When is NC over? Relationships Apr 7, 2008 05:34 PM Couldn't agree more , great advice!!




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