[kaykat]

Okay firstly I am 15 years old, I'm smart but I guess I wasn't smart enough to make a guy wear a condom the first time I had sex. He said he would pull out. But by the third time we did it, he told me had "came in me a little" this was Friday through Saturday. Is it possible I could be pregnant?

So regarding my last post (if you didn't see it you should go look because I don't have time to play a review game)

So if my (.) Is late by two days do I take a pregnancy test now?. my (.'s) sometimes are irregular and Im not sure if I've missed it or if I just haven't got it yet.. please help :(

Its been over two weeks now since I was sexually active. And the anxiety is killing me that I could be pregnant..

Okay thanks

[Curlyben]

Yes it is, now starts the waiting game

[smoothy]

And to add to what Curlyben stated... pulling out is NOT a form of birth control AT ALL. He doesn't need to finish AT ALL to make you pregnant.

Now you have to wait until your are two weeks late for your period and sweat... you can't get an accurate test until then.

[Homegirl 50]

Yep, it's possible

[Jake2008]

Another possible teen mother not smart enough to be on the pill and protect herself, and isn't even aware that 'pulling out' is NOT going to prevent pregnancy.

Another possible baby brought into this world with a child for a mother, and a child for a father, and neither one has a clue how their actions will create life long problems, for all three of you.

If you aren't pregnant, educate yourself before you resume sexual activity. Learn that you are not a wild animal in the jungle who has no control over mating. You can say NO, you can reject sex with a little willpower and look beyond instant satisfaction, and gratification, and realize the risk you take could very well bring a baby into this world. YOU are in charge of YOU. Nobody else, and no blaming your partner who you shouldn't have trusted in the first place, because you have no idea what intimacy involves.

How about thinking about what you want, and why sex is a bad idea. Maybe finishing high school? Going on to college? Establishing a career? Learning the old fashioned way about how long a road you have ahead of you, without a baby. Think what you'll be giving up, and how you will suddenly be forced into a life long commitment that will be your only focus in life.

Sex at 15 is a bad idea. Sex at 15 without knowledge of protection, is just stupid. Cheap, meaningless sex is all it can be at age 15. Add ignorance to the mix, and you are a disaster in the making.

I hope you aren't going to be just another statistic, and you've dodged a bullet this time, and you aren't pregnant. If you are, you have only yourself to blame, and a child that will be raising a child, will be the role you take on.

[peacemaker129]

I know the fear you're experiencing, been there honey. The best thing to stay calm and don'tfreak out. Studies show if you freak out enough, your body will actually startto believe it whether it's true or not. It will make you gain weight, it willstop your period (stress mostly) and it will freak you out all the more. I'msorry you are going through this, unfortunately 16 is the age where you can getbirth control without parental consent. If I were you I'd find comfort insomeone, a friend, maybe a close relative, or even a parent. Someone to holdyour hand, whether it's your own fault this happened, no one everdeserves to go through this alone. A lot of people would argue this and say youdeserve to suffer blah blah blah. Stay calm honey, and if there is a baby after all of this, your lover better have his crap in line.

[DoulaLC]

Hi kaykat,

Yes, pregnancy will be a possibility. When is your next period due and are you usually regular in your cycles? See what happens when you would expect it next. Unfortunately the guy wasn't smart enough to make sure that HE was using a condom either (many young men will gladly go without if you don't insist on it). And it has to be used correctly to gain the most effectiveness. His penis does not enter you at all until the condom is on. Often times people start having sex, then feel it is okay to pull out, then put it on, just before ejaculation.

It is the responsibility of both people involved, but you will have the final control over the situation, so you need to make sure that all is being done to lessen the chance of an unplanned pregnancy. Even with contraception, pregnancy is going to be a possibility as none are 100% effective.

Now all you can do is wait and see about your period, while you also give some careful thought about having sex. If you are not at a stage in your life where you would feel comfortable physically, emotionally, and financially having and raising a child, you have two choices. No more sex until you are at that stage, or at the very least make sure that you and your partner both are using forms of birth control to lessen the chance.

If a guy won't take part in the responsibility, or won't take part in it correctly, as in how to use a condom, then you have to be the one to end it right there. This is why birth control needs to be discussed well BEFORE the sex begins as it is too easy to just take a chance when you are in the middle of things. You can discuss with your doctor forms of birth control that might be right for you.

If all of this seems too much to have to consider, or embarrassing to talk about, then you'll know that you just aren't ready yet to be considering sex. If the guy leaves because of it... then you'll know he was only with you for what you were willing to give him... and not worth your time.

[Fr_Chuck]

First, stop being a rude kid... if you do not have time to properly ask a question, don't ask.

Next you do not ask the same question twice, all you do, is add more information on the old post.


There are plenty of sperm in the early fluids, so even if he "pulled out" you can still be pregnant. So, teach the guys, no condom, no sex... also know that even with condom, there is a chance of pregnancy.

Two days late is not late. You could test, but there is a large change of false reading. Best to wait two more week, and see if there is going to be a period or not.

After two week, if no period, do a test, with first urine of the mornng.