[brwneyedbabe]

So as all of you know it has been 3 months since I have seen my ex boyfriend and 2 months since we have broken up. I feel like I'm doing a lot better but there are just some days where he crosses my mind. I mean I wonder how he is doing and if he is happy. I wonder if he misses me or even thinks about me. He was my first love and I just wonder if he still loves me. I miss him a lot and would like to see him and just see how he is. I have not talked to him and I'm just not sure why I think about him sometimes. Its not even as much as I used to. I just wish I could show him truly what he means to me. Help anyone?? I wonder if things are all right with his new girlfriend

[Ash123]

Hang in there.

You are relationship de-toxing...Take at least 3 more months before breking any silence for closure... friendship etc. You are still healing.

[BlazingCold]

Those feelings are perfectly natural. You're still in a state of grieving.

That said, do not dwell on those feelings. If you feel them start to bubble up, find something that you like to do to take your mind off it.

Do NOT break down and try to look him up. You may find something (like him in a new relationship that's going wonderfully) that you wish you hadn't. Then you'll be at square 1 all over again.

[Jiser]

It will take time but things allways get easier. There may allways be that pang, even in ten years. But one day your realise a week has gone by and the ex hasn't crossed your mind once. Sometimes it really is better to have love and lost. What you experienced has been part of who you were and what has made you today. Thanks to your ex you can move on and find someone better, first find yourself and get happy.