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dreamangel226 · Sep 5, 2007, 03:08 PM

I had a baby five months ago and I have been with my boyfriend for two years now. I love him sooo much and things are great. The problem is that when we're about to have sex and he's doing foreplay, I can't get wet unless he goes down on me. I didn't used to have this problem. I mean I used to get wet if he just kissed my neck a little, but now it seems like I can't. Is there a such thing as your body being overstimulated or have we just been together for too long and my body needs something new? (I have never and would never consider cheating, I'm just confused as to why I don't respond like I used to.)

cornedbeef · Sep 5, 2007, 03:42 PM

Try not to worry so much about it and purchase some KY jelly to do the lubricating for you. That will help take away the worry. Also remember 5 months is not that long after you gave birth. Your body is probably still in recovery and your hormones have not yet settled back to normal. Hope this helps. Cheers Richard

J_9 · Sep 5, 2007, 03:45 PM

Most likely this has to do with hormonal effects of having the baby. It takes up to a year to get totally back to normal after childbirth.

Get some KY for the time being, things will return to normal eventually.

dreamangel226 · Sep 5, 2007, 03:48 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

Most likely this has to do with hormonal effects of having the baby. It takes up to a year to get totally back to normal after childbirth.

Get some KY for the time being, things will return to normal eventually.

Thanks. Got some, but I was wondering if there was something wrong with me. A friend of mines told me that after being in a relationship with the same person for a while, your body tends to get bored from being stimulated in the same place. Don't know if it's true or not, but it definitely made me wonder

J_9 · Sep 5, 2007, 03:54 PM

It is slightly possible. If you are stimulated in the same place continuously you tend to become a little less sensitive in that area, but it doesn't have to do with being in a long-term relationship with one person, just being stimulated in the same area.

However, in your case, it is most likely due to hormonal disturbances after delivery.