[araina]

I have a sister who is 3 yrs elder to me.
I don't know why but I always get dreams in which she tries to kill me.
Once in my dream she paid a driver some money made me sit in a bus and threw me off the cliff.as in the driver jumped out right before I fell from the cliff.
Second dream she pushed me from a train into a big river/sea..
Third dream she stabbed me in my back on a main street when I was taking a stroll with my boyfriend.

Also am very very scared of heights and water.

And you we don't share a good relationship.she tries to put me down in front of my parents,relatives,brother etc etc.. although I never fight back and try to correct her because she says it in every sentence so I really don't have the time or strength to tell her how pathetic she is and what she is trying to do.

Does anyonehave any idea why I get such dreams?is it because of our strained relationship?

I don't really think much about her.I don't really care.so I don't know why I get such dreams.

[J User]

You are getting these dreams because even though you do not think you care about what she thinks of you deep down you want her to like you and treat you w/respect.

[mleeanne]

You have these bad dreams because even though you are able to put her behavior and bad attitude out of your thoughts, it still stays in your mind locked away in that filing cabinet that you keep all the way in the back for useless information. Once it's in there it may seem like it's far removed but it's still there. The dream about her stabbing you in the back is because she IS stabbing you in the back. In your mind, you are sisters and should share a common bond. In her mind you are still the pain in the butt smelly loud baby that interrupted her life and took her parents away from her. Everyone desires respect and it looks like it's next to impossible for you to try to communicate that need with her at this point in her life. It's just one of those things that you have to let go and let God. I don't know what religion your are, so I hope this prayer doesn't offend you. Let's pray for her. God, please soften the heart of araina's older sister so they can both live in your loving light as sisters should. Please, let her sister see how hurtful and wrong her behavior is so that araina can sleep peacefully at night. Thank you Lord, in Jesus name we pray. Amen.