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I'm going to meet with a counselor at the JC that I'm attending. I'd like to have him or her go over where I could be and how long it would take to get there, with realistic circumstances (as best as...

LOL yeah I definitely didn't miss it, KBC. I have a great job, and I'm due for a promotion soon as well. They pay for my school, they give incredible benefits, they are very lenient with the hours...

I read and write just fine, and my teachers have said the same thing. ADD... I have a few family memebers who have ADD, including one severe case. I've considered it, but I've always looked as ADD as...

In all honesty, I would say yes. When I'm working on something that I enjoy, I focus well. But when it's something that I'm doing just because, I often times wander. If I'm studying a text book,...

The distractions definitely used to be more important, because I had more motivation to do things other than school. I'm feel as though I'm more motivated to get through school, and get my degree. My...

Thanks KBC :) It's been hard on my conscience, for the last few weeks especially. I don't know what I'm looking for as far as advice, but any wisdom is great.

Oh, and I've been focusing less on games and relationships, and more on things to better myself, like going to the gym, reading, audiobooks, etc. I feel it's definitely doing me good, but it doesn't...

I definitely see your point. I'm conflicted because I like my job a lot, I do well in it, and it's treated me well so far.

On the flip side, I have a feeling that without a degree, I'm setting...

Hey guys, I fear this could get long. From the beginning: I graduated high school in 2004. I did quite poorly, and barely graduated... I was so preoccupied with other things in my life that I found...

It's not like I know before hand... it's just a feeling that I get after a short time. Almost like a mental block. I think "hmm, I feel like I won't be able to get off for some reason", and then...

To me, there's no reason to get as upset as she does. She text'd me later saying "why do I even bother if I can't get you off?" To me, I believe I have no "problem" here... it HAPPENS from time to...

On a rare occasion, I have a hard time ejaculating during intercourse or from oral sex. I'd say once every 40 or 50 sexual experiences this happens to me. A good example is recently it was early in...

Ouch. Some harsh posts, heh. I can definitely see opinions fairly clear. It's still difficult to accept, but I know what you're saying. I'll think about everything you guys have said some more. Right...

I think that you need to tell her how you feel. I suspect she probably already knows, but desires to hear it from you directly. I believe if your friendship is as strong as it sounds, that if you two...

But, I'll continue to think about it for the next couple of days, whether that's a good decision on my part. My outlook on this might be dramatically different 24 hours from now for whatever reason....

Sorry Skell, I don't want to make you feel like your opinion is taken lightly. I really am taking in everything you've offered. Emotions are just hard to counter, and I'm sure you know that....

This is what's so difficult. A large part of me is slowly falling for her really hard. But there's a part of me that knows what's happened in the past; that knows what you're telling me.

The...

You make good points. The thing is, you point out exactly what I'm asking.

"If you are so infatuated by this girl why not just let it go how it is, if it is so good, and see what happens. If she...

What's unfortunate is I typically don't put others first. Out of my relationships, she's the only one that I have. There's still that feeling that she used me as a rebound, and I'm not denying that....

Skell and talaniman helped me out quite a bit a few months back. I was in a rough spot, and needed some unbiased help, and I got it here. So, that's why I come back for some more. This is kind of...

Thanks for all the help guys. I get advice from my friends, and others from time to time, but they always just tell me what I want to hear. It's good to hear the reality of it. I had already told...

Yeah. I've now made that conscious decision. Unfortunate to be used.

And that I'm done with her BS.

It's a harsh reality, but it is reality. I think what I'll do is just ignore her completely, phone calls, aim msg's, myspace msg's, etc. If she ever sends me a message asking me why I'm ignoring her...

Heh, yeah I'm here! Yeah, it's been hard, it really has. So many things said that seemed so meaningful... just ended out of nowhere. Get this: her mom called me one day and asked me to come talk. So...

She told me I was one of her best friends while we were going out... then again when she broke up with me.. haha.

I've told myself for the last week that the next time I talk to her for any amount of time that I'm going to just walk away from her.. but that opportunity hasn't come yet, and it's left me thinking...

Thanks skell

To add a little more, we've talked in person a couple of times, for a couple of hours each time.. just hanging out, things were totally normal. I basically told her that I did miss her, and that it...

Well, my ex dumped me a few weeks ago.. her reasons were that she felt guilty for not giving herself enough time to be single after her past relationship, and that she felt things were moving too...

Still haven't heard anything from her. Today was better for me though. I decided to go buy some new shoes, so that lifted my spirits a little ;)

So... last night (Monday) she logged on AIM and sent me a message. It was completely unrelated to our situation, and I gave her a single word answer. I said two or three more lines to follow up my...

Anyone else have any input? Skell helped me out a ton, but I'd like to hear any other opinions, even if they're the same as Skell's.

I'm typically not one to vary from what I'm focused on, which in my case was college. But once I met her I saw the potential and put everything aside for that. You've given me the revalation that I...

Ok, it makes sense. I don't want to just drop her, you're right. I like this girl, and everyone I know and she knows see's us being a good couple. That means a lot to me, personally. I think I'll...

She didn't cheat on him for me. I made it entirely clear that I had interest, but in no way would pursue anything with her in a relationship, because I felt guilty. So we were just hanging out as...

I asked her a number of times (not so much asked, but said) that I hope that I wasn't just a rebound, and that the connection was a true connection. Every time she said it wasn't a rebound, and that...

Ok so, I've read a few "taking a break" threads and things seem to come to the same consensus of "just give her her space." The thing is, each case is different obviously.

My case is: I'm 20,...