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| | | | | | Signature | I've learned that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.
I've learned that making a "living" is not the same thing as making a "life.."
I've learned that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. | | | | | | |
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I love my family. I am a wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend. I consider myself normal - whatever normal is.
I like photography and cooking, reading.
I don't know that I am an expert on anything. I am like everyone else. I put one foot in front of the other and try to get through the day the best way I can.
I know with my FAITH in God - I can get through anything!
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 Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | to cheat or not to cheat | Relationships | Aug 19, 2008 10:00 AM | That my view | | New Marriage with... | Marriage | Aug 17, 2008 10:19 AM | Kiss the wife first, and then hold the baby is some great advice to new fathers. | | New Marriage with... | Marriage | Aug 15, 2008 11:03 PM | Absolutely right on advice! | | My mom hates my friend | Other Family & People | Aug 14, 2008 07:29 AM | I second that. | | New Marriage with... | Marriage | Aug 12, 2008 05:40 AM | sums it up really good | | He has a kid? | Dating | Aug 5, 2008 05:53 AM | Yeah I would be up front with him that you are not ready to jump into anything especially the sleeping bag OR the tent. | | being called Ma'am | Etiquette | Jul 30, 2008 11:37 AM | yeah...I was a little offended:( | | How did you scream when... | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Jul 29, 2008 08:00 PM | your right they dont hurt much at all | | Is yellow discharge... | Women's Health | Jul 27, 2008 08:19 PM | yep | | missed 3 pills! | Women's Health | Jul 27, 2008 11:21 AM | my thoughts too | | 18 yr old suddenly... | Parenting | Jul 24, 2008 08:47 AM | Good Answer! Don't forget about her car (if she has one). If its in your name, you have every right to take it back. Show her how hard life can really be on her own. | | emotional affair | Marriage | Jul 18, 2008 01:58 PM | yep | | there has to be more... | Marriage | Jul 15, 2008 08:31 AM | We both suck at bowling too, but it makes for such a great time! | | You can drink even... | Parenting | Jul 3, 2008 10:43 PM | I agree... although I think this is a smidge extreme. IF you want a kid, you have to be willing to take these sacrifices. | | Black Out options for... | Interior Home Improvement | Jun 25, 2008 08:56 AM | fair enough |  | Black Out options for... | Interior Home Improvement | Jun 24, 2008 07:52 AM | Suggested a solution that I already outlined in my question as NOT an option. | | Is it possible | Marriage | Jun 22, 2008 09:34 AM | I can go with that. | | In times of sorrow | Bereavement | May 29, 2008 01:07 PM | Offering to cook or clean or any other chores for them will be of tremendous help! | | my daughter is hurting me | Parenting | May 22, 2008 08:12 AM | I totally agree, there had to be something that set her off.....even if she doesn't figure that out we need to give her helpful advice for NOW!! | | being called Ma'am | Etiquette | May 14, 2008 02:36 PM | lol, if I wore a name tag and someone called me babe. I would probably hit the roof! | | being called Ma'am | Etiquette | Mar 25, 2008 07:38 PM | Very good sweet Ma'am, very good! | | lump behind my 13 year... | Medical Specialties | Mar 25, 2008 12:19 AM | a cyst is very possible, usually unproblematic. | | Step Kids | Marriage | Mar 21, 2008 01:01 PM | Great advice, keep up the good work NowWhat! Talking it out can do wonders!! | | potty training for 8yr... | Parenting | Mar 20, 2008 10:05 AM | I'm not sure that humiliating your child is a good idea. Best to build confidence. | | period 3 weeks late... | Women's Health | Mar 19, 2008 01:23 PM | great advise | | dating a married man | Dating | Mar 12, 2008 08:48 AM | there are some things missing for sure... | | I need to leave my... | Divorce | Mar 10, 2008 09:55 PM | Great advice here, taking control and doing the best for her kids! | | dating a married man | Dating | Mar 8, 2008 02:17 PM | well put |  | should i stick around... | Dating | Feb 5, 2008 10:14 AM | dont with him | | is ignoring the bully... | High School | Feb 3, 2008 12:48 PM | thanks for the reassurance | | How do I talk to my 10... | Parenting | Feb 2, 2008 07:25 AM | This is supposed to be an advice site. When the "experts" are barely literate, how credible do you think they sound? | | being called Ma'am | Etiquette | Jan 27, 2008 05:48 PM | Very good answer. | | Should spanking a child... | Other Member Discussions | Jan 27, 2008 01:18 PM | Heck yes NowWhat!! | | Should spanking a child... | Other Member Discussions | Jan 27, 2008 10:57 AM | EXACTLY! | | Should spanking a child... | Other Member Discussions | Jan 25, 2008 08:02 PM | there is no need to spank a child. A bully. Picture yourself in prison and a guy bigger than you starts to take advantage of you. If the man can build nuclear powered aircraft carriers then there is another way to treat a child | | Gay Marriage | Marriage | Jan 11, 2008 05:05 AM | Exactly. | | Gay Marriage | Marriage | Jan 11, 2008 04:20 AM | Yes. I agree | | looking for answers | Marriage | Jan 10, 2008 06:14 AM | Very wrong on many levels. | | My husband just found... | Marriage | Jan 1, 2008 09:50 AM | You're very right! | | "Happy... | Religious Discussions | Dec 19, 2007 06:28 PM | Exactly! | | Holding A baby Upside... | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Dec 14, 2007 06:19 AM | Thank you very much. And as usuall, I will be very careful during play time. | | Should spanking a child... | Other Member Discussions | Dec 14, 2007 05:34 AM | I completely agree. :D | | important! need some... | Christianity | Dec 11, 2007 06:00 PM | I'd have no problem with that! | | "Happy... | Religious Discussions | Dec 11, 2007 07:13 AM | I know! this political correctness is just getting so out of hand! its just so pathetic.. | | important! need some... | Christianity | Dec 10, 2007 12:56 PM | Great answer. | | my husband told me he... | Marriage | Dec 10, 2007 07:24 AM | I agree whole heartedly. | | important! need some... | Christianity | Dec 10, 2007 05:34 AM | What amazes me, are those who want organized prayer, and are CERTAIN that the prayer is going to be a Christian prayer. I'm sure they think they force that on us too. | | My husband just found... | Marriage | Dec 4, 2007 09:55 PM | Very well said. :] | | My husband just found... | Marriage | Dec 3, 2007 04:58 PM | He does need time to get his head around this situation. | | 2 Negative test, but I... | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Dec 3, 2007 06:01 AM | yep...wait until you are 7 days late, test again, if neg. set an appt for a blood preg test | | boyfriends behaviour... | Adult Sexuality | Dec 2, 2007 05:50 PM | That's what I was thinking. Stop the dirty talk. | | Brother asks for money | Other Family & People | Dec 1, 2007 04:08 AM | I needed an objective answer and I got one. NowWhat had good things to think about. | | love and marriage | Marriage | Dec 1, 2007 02:06 AM | Very well could be!! | | trying to save my... | Marriage | Nov 29, 2007 05:52 AM | maybe I can get the neighbors to watch the kids a couple of hours Im not for sure but I can try,your right we do need us time,I remember when we went on a cruise for a week on our honeymoon that was the best time of my life | | i am prego! | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Nov 26, 2007 01:41 PM | ok thank you for the help!! | | i am prego! | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Nov 26, 2007 12:17 PM | Good advice...and nice job drawing from personal experience. | | Im 16 and want to run... | Children | Nov 26, 2007 09:39 AM | NowWhat, you are right on!! | | Mammogram worries, 2... | Women's Health | Nov 25, 2007 07:56 AM | It's nice to hear from someone that did not have cancer so that the OP does not get all worked up over my story alone. | | Corproal punishment for... | Elementary School | Nov 24, 2007 11:57 AM | I never really thought he would be spanked. He was paddled for hitting another child and urinating on the bathroom wall. I feel that both of these things he probably wasnt the only child doing it. Not that I think its ok, I feel it wasnt just him | | My husband just found... | Marriage | Nov 20, 2007 04:53 PM | Ditto! | | should i stick around... | Dating | Nov 19, 2007 06:18 AM | Precisely!!!!!!! | | My husband just found... | Marriage | Nov 18, 2007 04:18 PM | Painfully true, but good advice | | Corproal punishment for... | Elementary School | Nov 17, 2007 06:31 PM | Agree, agree - 1,000 times agree! | | Corproal punishment for... | Elementary School | Nov 17, 2007 06:02 PM | That was my thought. | | marriage and free sex | Marriage | Nov 17, 2007 05:10 PM | Kudos! Even though we don't agree, you are not coming off judgemental and that is a quality to be admired! | | Corproal punishment for... | Elementary School | Nov 17, 2007 04:37 PM | So very true!!! | | should i stick around... | Dating | Nov 17, 2007 11:59 AM | I got that PM too and what his wife is does not matter. It could be a lie too, to justify his affair. Even if it is the truth, the man needs to take care of his own business first. | | should i stick around... | Dating | Nov 17, 2007 11:57 AM | Exactly! she could be a serial killer but as long as he stays he has to honor his vows to God & her! | | is it ok to make teen... | Parenting | Nov 12, 2007 01:33 PM | thanks !! | | Crying Todler | Children | Nov 12, 2007 07:44 AM | A crying corner, I'll try that. She doesn't like to sit in the corner so it just might work, Thanks | | To young to marry? | Marriage | Nov 10, 2007 05:21 AM | yes, she should consider college and herself right now. not some horndog boyfriend who is in it for sex and control. | | Corrections needed | Language | Nov 8, 2007 06:18 AM | It was usefull | | How do I rebound from... | Relationships | Sep 17, 2007 11:34 AM | Great Answer!! She is not owning even 10% of the responsibility and you need a new therapist!! | | constitutional... | Politics | Aug 16, 2007 09:07 AM | You've got that right...those are a bit backwards... | | Tenants Who Won't Move... | Real Estate | Aug 16, 2007 06:41 AM | haha,smart | | Child Support after 18? | Family Law | Aug 9, 2007 05:31 AM | sorry but it is very commom for child support to go to 21 if they are in college | | Husband Going To... | Marriage | Aug 7, 2007 10:11 PM | Good answer ... there's definately something going on with this 'sounding board' that the husband is not revealing. | | Husband Going To... | Marriage | Aug 7, 2007 04:01 PM | Spot on. | | Should a parent take... | Parenting | Aug 3, 2007 03:31 AM | Yes, Children are being made aware of many things by means of the TV. You sound like a good mom though. Just answer all her questions before school mates do. :) | | soul ache | Marriage | Aug 2, 2007 06:26 PM | i am so sorry u kow this pain happened to my Aunt she lost 15 lbs oh God | | changing minor's surname | Family Law | Aug 2, 2007 06:41 AM | This answer covered all bases! | | private caller from a... | Marriage | Aug 2, 2007 04:18 AM | that's what I was thinking - sounds fishy so rather than going after her, ignore her and talk to him! | | whαt's the... | Paranormal Phenomena | Aug 1, 2007 07:50 AM | Sorry! That's what is called a "Gravity Hill" It's an optical illusion, you're still pointed uphill but it doesn't look like it. I've been to the one in NH just south of the Canadian border. Also one in Utah that I read about. | | Making custody more fair | Family Law | Jul 31, 2007 02:55 PM | 100%!! I've learned a very powerful lesson now. | | Making custody more fair | Family Law | Jul 29, 2007 12:12 PM | I find the same as you and totally agree. | | Making custody more fair | Family Law | Jul 28, 2007 11:28 AM | Yes. This is the hardest thing I have ever dealt with in my whole life. You're right again. With everything I've got in me: Thank you. | | I really like my manager | Workplace Relationships | Jul 27, 2007 08:14 AM | I agree! | | Marriage following... | Marriage | Jul 26, 2007 03:07 PM | I agree you should try and wait a few more years. | | leaving abusive,... | Marriage | Jul 26, 2007 11:22 AM | good point. I would want that in writing if I could get it. | | Seperated/Disabled/... | Family Law | Jul 25, 2007 10:39 AM | Yes, she needs to be proactive and make sure the attorney is suing her husband for everything that she wants. Details/agreements get sorted out later with his attorney. | | middleschool lockers | Middle School | Jul 20, 2007 01:11 PM | i think that person is right which my middle school it starts in sept | | Your Opinion on The... | Christianity | Jul 18, 2007 08:46 PM | good question | | Your Opinion on The... | Christianity | Jul 14, 2007 02:12 PM | FYI: They take most the stem cells from the umbilical cord after birth and poses no harm to the child, and they also use the cells of aborted fetus's. But those lives were disgarded by the parents already. So why not help benefit someone else's life? | | Stressed, and Depressed... | Marriage | Jul 13, 2007 06:28 PM | Yeah! so would I | | Stressed, and Depressed... | Marriage | Jul 12, 2007 08:16 PM | Yes it is time to leave until HE makes the right choices. Then she can decide if that is good enough for her. | | Stressed, and Depressed... | Marriage | Jul 12, 2007 06:51 PM | I would like to know as well. | | Your Opinion on The... | Christianity | Jul 12, 2007 05:28 PM | We all have.... | | Your Opinion on The... | Christianity | Jul 12, 2007 02:05 PM | this statement show how little you learned in that class due to a closed mind -- Savage | | Stressed, and Depressed... | Marriage | Jul 12, 2007 12:43 PM | Fantastic answer!!! | | Your Opinion on The... | Christianity | Jul 12, 2007 07:15 AM | Exactly! Our right to free speech is supressed by someone who doesn't want to hear anyone else believe. That's sad. |
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