 | |  | | | | View Profile: Marriedguy | Marriedguy Full Member | | | Last Activity: May 6, 2008 02:36 PM | | | | | | | |  | |  | | | | Signature | | Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. | | | | | | |  | |  | | | | Topic Info | Contact Info | | | | | Additional Information | | Location:
Yonkers, NY
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I'm a husband to my beautiful wife and father to two boys. American Red Cross: First Aid & CPR/AED Instructor. NYS certified Security Guard Instructor. I have been on the Board of Directors of Cooperative Apartment for about three years. I have knowledge of building operations, NYS Business Corporation Law and Mediation of neighbor/tenant disputes. I am part-time college student. My major is Computer Information Systems and my minor Behavioral Science/Humanities. Behavioral courses and personal experiences have giving me insight on relationships, marriage and family.
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Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | Too many sex partners | Adult Sexuality | May 10, 2008 08:27 PM | No, marriedguy, I do think you think your standards should apply to everyone. Look at some of your answers. I think you just don't want to admit that you think your standards should apply to everyone. I think there is a bit of judgment going on here. |  | How to handle false... | Marriage | Apr 30, 2008 01:17 PM | yes. the problem is me. I dont love myself enough. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 20, 2008 09:10 PM | SUPPER GOOD ANSWER! |  | How to handle false... | Marriage | Apr 16, 2008 04:27 PM | wow, so accurate it hurts. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 16, 2008 07:56 AM | i agree. im against abortion im 18 and have a son. but i did everything on my own. i had sex and had a baby its my responisbility to take care of him |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 16, 2008 07:56 AM | i agree. im against abortion im 18 and have a son. but i did everything on my own. i had sex and had a baby its my responisbility to take care of him |  | Lying about me | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 04:15 PM | Hope she doesn't stay. |  | I'm a man, in love with... | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 03:40 AM | kind of harsh, you didnt need to be. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 14, 2008 06:33 PM | Wow!!! If or when you have children I bet your going to be wonderful. Great advise. If your not too busy can you offer me advice on my question too? thanks |  | How to handle false... | Marriage | Apr 14, 2008 11:24 AM | Your so right. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 14, 2008 09:13 AM | I agree 100%. I had very good loving, caring, educational...etc. parents while growing up and still got pregnant at a young age (17). My OWN stupid fault. i knew better! |  | how do i fix thix... | Other Computers | Apr 13, 2008 08:39 AM | ok |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 13, 2008 06:51 AM | You said it all. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 12, 2008 04:27 PM | Triple thumbs up! |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 12, 2008 01:39 PM | All I can say is wow. Great answer, great advice, I have nothing to add. Wow. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 12, 2008 12:51 PM | Very good answer, with good advice. |  | im seeing her in just... | Relationships | Apr 12, 2008 09:05 AM | That last sentence is all he needs to know. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 11, 2008 08:56 PM | Good advice! |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 11, 2008 07:41 AM | I had a similar reaction. Its very hard not to get angry at someone who gets drunk anf has sex (probably unprotected) at age 15. I think you did an admirable job at expressing that anger while still providding support. |  | Pregnant at 15 | Teens | Apr 11, 2008 07:09 AM | You rock!! |  | Toilet water supply... | Plumbing | Apr 4, 2008 07:15 PM | Quite sure I saved a lot more money by getting the plumber than DIYing it! thanks! |  | what to do | Other Family & People | Apr 4, 2008 06:16 PM | Take it from a guy! He's right. |  | Tenant rights for... | Real Estate Law | Apr 2, 2008 04:49 PM | exactly but unfortunately some people like myself freeze at 68 degrees. :( |  | My ex wants me back | Relationships | Apr 1, 2008 05:49 AM | Thanks for your insight MarriedGuy. If you go back and read my last line, you will agree with me that my mission is complete. :) |  | What should i do? | Workplace Relationships | Mar 30, 2008 08:16 AM | No-brainer, keep it to yourself. |  | how do i get over him | Relationships | Mar 24, 2008 03:51 PM | Great plan! |  | Dating Guide | Dating | Mar 24, 2008 01:07 PM | love that,chose your location and weapon wisely thats great lol |  | how to know your a good... | Other Family & People | Mar 21, 2008 02:06 PM | Hey! I always got extra points for my kissing! |  | Breakup in my 3yr LDR... | Relationships | Mar 20, 2008 08:18 PM | I agree with your translations with what he said and what it really means. Excellent advice. |  | How long before sex? | Dating | Mar 20, 2008 05:18 AM | Balancer. |  | How long before sex? | Dating | Mar 19, 2008 07:03 PM | balancer. |  | How long before sex? | Dating | Mar 19, 2008 05:14 PM | wrong, remember God? man and woman is suppose to be together. it will be fine to wait for marriage. |  | How long before sex? | Dating | Mar 19, 2008 06:40 AM | This is one of the reason STD is rampant in this country! |  | My boyfriend dumped me... | Relationships | Mar 19, 2008 03:42 AM | Why would she? |  | How long before sex? | Dating | Mar 19, 2008 02:43 AM | Absolutely. |  | My boyfriend dumped me... | Relationships | Mar 18, 2008 09:28 PM | Exactly! |  | Too many sex partners | Adult Sexuality | Mar 18, 2008 10:20 AM | good point! |  | How can i get my... | Relationships | Mar 18, 2008 05:58 AM | THANKS OUR HOUSE IS A 5 BEDROOMS AND 3 BATHROOMS SO IT IS A BIG HOUSE |  | what should i do? | Dating | Mar 16, 2008 03:59 PM | you are right but they can include him in friends which she would be better off as anyway |  | a complicated man | Dating | Mar 16, 2008 06:51 AM | exactly |  | Trying to get some... | Relationships | Mar 16, 2008 05:48 AM | Spot on. |  | what to do? | Dating | Mar 15, 2008 08:12 PM | I AGREE. |  | what to do? | Dating | Mar 15, 2008 07:57 PM | And even if they had focused on the communication, 4 months is not enough time to think you KNOW a whole lot. You're at best about a third of the way through the learning data. This stuff takes time to work right. |  | Trying to get some... | Relationships | Mar 15, 2008 06:02 PM | Exactly what I would have said, but much better. |  | i was dating this guy! | Dating | Mar 12, 2008 12:34 PM | 4th guy? I sure did miss that one! |  | i was dating this guy! | Dating | Mar 12, 2008 12:31 PM | Love this answer. |  | how can i get rid of... | Dating | Mar 12, 2008 10:53 AM | WTG Marriedguy. Ummm would you like to have the talk with my 14 yr old for me??? |  | Would you think that i... | Other Family & People | Mar 11, 2008 01:07 PM | I agree different guys want different things. Let here enjoy cause she may not have it later! And you will get your moment too. |  | big mistake | Real Estate Law | Mar 10, 2008 12:38 PM | Thought it couldn't be enforced until it's actually on file - believe it or not, ran into this when I got divorced! |  | What should i do? | Workplace Relationships | Mar 10, 2008 06:17 AM | Thank you!!! OMG, seriously...she's the aunt. Back off! |  | What do I do now? | Relationships | Mar 8, 2008 08:44 PM | Darn good insights. |  | wiring a phone line | Landline Phones | Mar 7, 2008 06:09 PM | White/blue to green, blue/white to red, white/orange to black and orange/white to yellow. |  | how to tell my... | Children | Mar 6, 2008 09:04 AM | I want to test the other guy but he refuses, he said he will not do it .. that my bf should have to.. Is there anyway I could test my bf without him knowing?! ;x |  | At War with the neighbors | Real Estate Law | Mar 6, 2008 07:38 AM | i would not move for anyone why should you leave your home |  | Married but my name... | Real Estate Law | Mar 5, 2008 04:45 AM | I agree - the fill in the blanks stuff is difficult, very difficult, and this whole situation is open to interpretation. |  | Windows fails to load | Computers for Beginners | Mar 5, 2008 02:43 AM | Unable to use boot disk |  | is he playing me and... | Dating | Mar 4, 2008 05:10 PM | ok thanks |  | Married but my name... | Real Estate Law | Mar 4, 2008 01:21 PM | Great answer. Straight to the point. Makes sense. A lot of help. thank you. |  | Who is the most... | History | Mar 4, 2008 06:05 AM | VERY good point. The world would be very dark without Tesla's invention... great thought! :) |  | 4th amendment rights... | Other Law | Mar 3, 2008 06:41 PM | Yeah I think Fr_chuck was just trying to cover all bases in your post |  | Ex-Boy & New Guy... | Relationships | Mar 3, 2008 04:45 PM | I think you are right |  | Touchpad problems | Laptops | Mar 3, 2008 04:38 PM | thanks for your quick reply. Will try anything at this point. |  | Still love my ex | Relationships | Mar 3, 2008 12:49 PM | Agree with all of it!!! Well said! |  | 10-15 pounds by summer? | Weight Loss | Mar 3, 2008 09:57 AM | excercise is key, though rate of weight loss, 15lbs/mo, is extreme if the person is mostly in shape... diet is impt, but moving your body is best way to get results. |  | ex-boyfriend name calling | Dating | Mar 3, 2008 04:14 AM | Very good suggestions. responding will only make it worse. |  | wife sexting | Marriage | Mar 2, 2008 04:07 PM | ....and picking your battles...:D |  | do my ex miss me? | Relationships | Mar 1, 2008 11:17 AM | Good suggestions. |  | marraige fraud | Immigration Law | Feb 29, 2008 06:42 AM | No problem - the case was pretty interesting but I wasn't sure the OP knew how to get to the home page - didn't mean to sound "snarky" if I did. |  | Weak Moment, Am I doing... | Relationships | Feb 28, 2008 11:36 AM | Exactly |  | Why can't we walk on... | Oceanography | Feb 28, 2008 10:01 AM | clear explanation |  | GirlFriend never helps... | Relationships | Feb 26, 2008 10:55 AM | I think you are right on this one. I had already bought an engagement ring but thank god i saw the light |  | wife sexting | Marriage | Feb 26, 2008 06:09 AM | Nice answer! Once a cheater, always a cheater! |  | whats a good age to... | Marriage | Feb 25, 2008 01:49 PM | Parents everywhere just bowed their heads to you in agreement and thank you... |  | How do I get my ex back | Relationships | Feb 24, 2008 07:57 AM | it's the guy's version of "i need time" |  | can someone explain this | Dating | Feb 23, 2008 02:14 PM | yeah defensive move If he had said he liked her too then it would be more talk and worse off in his eyes |  | GF Broke up with me and... | Relationships | Feb 23, 2008 06:45 AM | BINGO, I think he is already in friendszone. |  | WHY do men do this! | Relationships | Feb 22, 2008 04:50 PM | I wonder the same thing, it must be worse than I thought. |  | My husband wanted me to... | Marriage | Feb 17, 2008 08:28 AM | thank you so much for your advice |  | The Good Guys | Politics | Feb 12, 2008 06:57 AM | Right on |  | wedding and reception... | Weddings | Feb 9, 2008 03:25 PM | Perfect response!! |  | Outlook Express | Email | Feb 9, 2008 08:35 AM | Yep, and it really only works on services like AOL if the person hasn't opened the email. |  | Are we meant to be | Dating | Feb 2, 2008 10:51 AM | good answer and I do believe that verbal abuse leads to physical abuse, too. |  | Excel - Creating a link... | Spreadsheets | Jan 30, 2008 09:32 AM | Awesome! Thanks... I thought i was at a dead-end!! |  | He says he loves me,... | Relationships | Jan 9, 2008 10:38 AM | I think that this is excellet advice. You are straight to the point, but sympathetic. These are really great qualities!!! |  | cannot work it out, gf... | Relationships | Nov 14, 2007 07:35 AM | I totally forgot to mention that, was gonna wait for the next post didn't want to bruise his ego. |  | scene use casette... | Movies | Nov 13, 2007 10:52 AM | Correct! That answer was lurking in my subconscious but for some reason "Better Off Dead" was trying to block it, and I knew that was wrong. |  | Why Women Cheat? | Relationships | Nov 7, 2007 08:07 PM | Agree |  | I think this guy is... | Dating | Nov 7, 2007 06:25 PM | Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? |  | Grown man still letting... | Relationships | Nov 7, 2007 03:40 PM | WOW! I admire your capability to ignore your FIL's bigotry and persevere in the face of such negativity. I don't know if I could have been as strong if faced with that. |  | Why Women Cheat? | Relationships | Nov 4, 2007 08:00 AM | I say you are both right ---depending on the woman | |