 | |  | | | | View Profile: liz28 | liz28 Senior Member | | | Last Activity: Today 06:40 AM | | | | | | | |  | |  | | | | Signature | | A smart person learns from their mistakes, but a wise person learn from other people mistakes! | | | | | | |  | |  | | | | Topic Info | Contact Info | | | | | Additional Information | | Location:
new york city
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I learn from all the mistakes I made and from all the wise choices. I will do anything to improved myself to be a better person and mother. In learn you might come cross a dead end or roadblock but you turn around and go a different direction. This world is a big boomerage so just be carefully what you throw out there because it come back to you and help anyone along the way if you can.
I have helped people and children alot when I was a rape counselor, it this was the hardest thing to deal with mentally and sometimes I still cry thinking about the stories I heard. I also was an crisis counselor and dealth with alot as well.
Along the way I might need help to answers and not afraid to ask. I love myself more than any man and thanfore will not get used or allow any man to mistreat me. My best friend in the world is my mother and I think God to have someone like her in my corner.
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manager
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Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | In love with a married... | Relationships | Aug 20, 2008 09:25 AM | Thats not asking to much, is it???? |  | does someone's pet... | Personal Growth | Aug 20, 2008 07:44 AM | OMG!!!! My ex used to say this EVERY 4 - 5 words!!! I wanted to STRANGLE her!!! |  | does someone's pet... | Personal Growth | Aug 19, 2008 06:51 PM | Nice. |  | date wont return cell... | Dating | Aug 19, 2008 06:02 PM | Yep. I would consider going to his house or place of work and demanding it and it wouldn't hurt to ask the police for help. They can always say no. No harm done. |  | to cheat or not to cheat | Relationships | Aug 19, 2008 10:01 AM | Absolutely agree. |  | would this be bad? | Relationships | Aug 18, 2008 03:30 PM | Exactly Liz!! |  | A really old man dated... | Teens | Aug 18, 2008 05:58 AM | exactly! |  | girlfriend left me | Relationships | Aug 17, 2008 10:13 AM | thanks for advice. am 38 years old |  | Getting married | Weddings | Aug 16, 2008 07:45 AM | Exactly what good is a secret LDR marriage for now! |  | My mom hates my friend | Other Family & People | Aug 16, 2008 07:24 AM | I agree. I have a feeling that there is a bias issue here that is not being addressed. |  | is he still trying to... | Relationships | Aug 14, 2008 06:52 AM | Doesn't even sound like friendship. |  | Married and in love... | Relationships | Aug 13, 2008 09:59 AM | That what I see too!!! |  | My mom hates my friend | Other Family & People | Aug 13, 2008 04:51 AM | Exactly. And what kind of lesson is she teaching her daughter by showing this judgemental behavior? |  | babies mom may not be... | Relationships | Aug 12, 2008 06:37 PM | very good. |  | dating an older man | Dating | Aug 12, 2008 03:55 PM | Lol, your parents arent stupid, they will know you are up to something and everything said here has been consrtuctive take it or leave it! |  | Cheated on | Relationships | Aug 12, 2008 09:54 AM | Right on the money!! |  | friends w/benefits not... | Relationships | Aug 11, 2008 11:11 AM | True!!! |  | 17 an 14 ok to date? | Relationships | Aug 10, 2008 07:13 PM | good points |  | Not sure about staying... | Relationships | Aug 10, 2008 03:01 PM | That was great advice. |  | no friends children at... | Weddings | Aug 8, 2008 10:23 AM | Exactly |  | pregnant teenager | Teens | Aug 7, 2008 09:23 AM | Way to go dear... alert, as usual. Thanks. |  | shes after me because... | Relationships | Aug 6, 2008 05:12 PM | the police will not do anything. they do not have my number do u think i should just end the relationship with this lad?? |  | Feeling Used? | Relationships | Aug 5, 2008 03:42 AM | Us guys are like that. |  | He won't take the... | Relationships | Aug 4, 2008 09:55 AM | thank you for your input it really gave me new insight. |  | Am I blowing this out... | Relationships | Aug 4, 2008 08:49 AM | Aw, that was nice Liz, and your probably right as I know I tend to put the object of the OP's problem in a really bad light. |  | Dumped with kids | Relationships | Aug 2, 2008 07:44 PM | She is stronger than what she thinks. She can do this. |  | Is it possible to... | Relationships | Aug 2, 2008 03:40 PM | Sound advice |  | I only wanted one but... | Relationships | Jul 29, 2008 02:22 PM | they're definetely competing... |  | Having an affair that I... | Relationships | Jul 27, 2008 08:57 PM | Not saying you're a bad person, but just made really bad choices. |  | My Best Friends ex... | Relationships | Jul 24, 2008 12:16 PM | She dodged a big bullet, didn't she. |  | confused at work | Adult Sexuality | Jul 23, 2008 02:39 PM | Don't be "the other woman", not the best reputation to have.... |  | should i leave my... | Relationships | Jul 23, 2008 01:41 PM | well said. I completely agree. |  | too soon to be friends... | Relationships | Jul 23, 2008 01:31 PM | Agree completely... though this can take a VERY LONG TIME! |  | Love Him, but Live With? | Marriage | Jul 21, 2008 08:04 AM | No, we do not have any kids. |  | Love Him, but Live With? | Marriage | Jul 21, 2008 07:06 AM | sooooo well put!!! EXACTLY |  | why she wont take her... | Relationships | Jul 20, 2008 05:39 PM | having stuff there, is an excuse to come back, and therefore an excuse to keep seeing him |  | How do I get over her,... | Dating | Jul 20, 2008 09:26 AM | Excellent point =]~! |  | I dont love my baby | Parenting | Jul 20, 2008 08:37 AM | great answer. positive, resourceful, and not accusing.. |  | 1 year old lab | Dogs | Jul 19, 2008 04:41 PM | Works for me too!! |  | Make a guy chase you... | Relationships | Jul 18, 2008 09:14 AM | I agree, keep him out of your life!!! |  | why she wont take her... | Relationships | Jul 18, 2008 07:10 AM | She still wants him. |  | What do I do? | Foster Care | Jul 17, 2008 03:24 PM | very informative...very helpful |  | Not attracted to me... | Relationships | Jul 17, 2008 10:17 AM | Good point. It will take time and it will hurt, but she will be better off and so will her sons. |  | Not attracted to me... | Relationships | Jul 16, 2008 01:54 PM | So very true. |  | What can I do to make... | Relationships | Jul 16, 2008 07:20 AM | You can't make someone love you. |  | Not attracted to me... | Relationships | Jul 16, 2008 07:08 AM | That was so well said! |  | How can my friend give... | Adoption | Jul 14, 2008 05:15 PM | what's funny is that this guy also handles family law cases. I guess that its not his specialty though. |  | Should I stay or leave? | Relationships | Jul 14, 2008 05:13 AM | Agree 100% |  | What do I do? | Foster Care | Jul 13, 2008 07:38 PM | Great advice Liz. Thanks for the info about saving reciepts and such, what a good idea!! |  | daughter in law from hell | Relationships | Jul 12, 2008 02:07 PM | I agree 100%. Mother in law was out of line. |  | daughter in law from hell | Relationships | Jul 10, 2008 04:49 PM | Absolutely! |  | He says it is my fault... | Relationships | Jul 7, 2008 12:33 PM | They can both try to work together better. Communications being foremost. |  | he's embarrassed of... | Relationships | Jul 5, 2008 05:25 PM | Very well said. |  | He is avoiding me | Relationships | Jul 3, 2008 11:27 AM | exactly |  | Adult sexuality | Adult Sexuality | Jun 27, 2008 08:46 PM | you are perfect |  | Girlfriend says she... | Relationships | Jun 26, 2008 05:32 PM | thanks for the personal info. |  | Betrayal of a 5 year... | Relationships | Jun 26, 2008 05:30 PM | Great ideas, I really appreciate them! I didn't even think about taking him to court, and getting him to sign an IOU is genius! The only problem is that the one girl that I could set all of this up already knows me, so I don't know how to do it! |  | Girlfriend says she... | Relationships | Jun 26, 2008 05:09 PM | Great drawing on personal experience!!1 |  | Don't know what to do now | Relationships | Jun 26, 2008 05:22 AM | Very well said. |  | Grieving for a lost soul | Bereavement | Jun 25, 2008 02:35 AM | Thankyou so much you are a caring person. The cops will not help they cant. Im sick of moving and I will have faith in god for protection!!! Thankyou Liz. |  | love hurts | Relationships | Jun 22, 2008 04:30 PM | Hmmm, good question. |  | is she playing games? | Relationships | Jun 22, 2008 02:33 PM | thank you, i need that advice, i need the push, and i know shes WRONG. thanks |  | how much does a tongue... | Body Art | Jun 22, 2008 02:20 PM | thanks |  | We broke up because he... | Relationships | Jun 20, 2008 04:46 AM | What could she be holding on to?? |  | should i be cruel to be... | Relationships | Jun 18, 2008 07:58 AM | balance |  | should i be cruel to be... | Relationships | Jun 18, 2008 07:55 AM | You have summed it up extraordinarily well. |  | 18 and pregnant | Adoption | Jun 17, 2008 07:24 PM | Super perspective! |  | my ex told me he broke... | Relationships | Jun 10, 2008 11:38 AM | Absolutly. Great Advice! |  | Don't know how i can go... | Relationships | Jun 9, 2008 07:11 AM | I agree, forget about "I can't" and start saying "I can". Turning negative thoughts into positive ones is no easy task, but it is worth to effort to feel better again. Good post. |  | Im so confused!To be... | Relationships | Jun 8, 2008 02:30 PM | thank you I'm still trying to figure out how this site works... what all i need to click on and such! thank you so much |  | I broke up with my... | Relationships | Jun 8, 2008 12:18 PM | NC means don't respond, I know its hard but ignore him. |  | Is he married? | Dating | Jun 8, 2008 01:26 AM | I wonder?, and believe you may be correct! |  | I broke up with my... | Relationships | Jun 6, 2008 03:16 PM | Thank you , you're right, listening to sad music will make it worse.. thank you for your time |  | Taking a break? | Relationships | Jun 6, 2008 12:10 PM | I agree |  | My limit on having fun... | Personal Growth | Jun 6, 2008 07:28 AM | a perfect 10.thank you!! |  | Why do I want my... | Relationships | Jun 5, 2008 01:58 PM | THat's another possibility!! |  | I don't know if he is... | Dating | Jun 4, 2008 11:31 AM | Thank you Liz28! I think I'll follow your advise! |  | How did it get so... | Relationships | Jun 3, 2008 01:14 PM | Thank you for your honesty and quick response. I have to say I haven't looked at the fact that he did leave when things did get tough. I do not compare them though, very different people. Thank you again. |  | Getting a friend out of... | Relationships | Jun 2, 2008 11:58 AM | Good point, I want her to learn a permanent lesson, not a temporary one. |  | how to be the 'perfect'... | Relationships | May 31, 2008 06:38 PM | question might be how as well |  | Got dumped | Relationships | May 31, 2008 05:00 AM | Agree 100% |  | He wonders why i look... | Relationships | May 29, 2008 12:56 PM | Thank you, this one reached me the most |  | Annoyed | Dating | May 29, 2008 12:08 PM | liz28 thank you for your comments I appreciate the help. |  | smoker vs. non-smoker... | Relationships | May 28, 2008 04:08 PM | thank you so much for ur input it was much appreciated :) |  | Should I still try to... | Relationships | May 28, 2008 02:08 PM | Good points |  | he is multi dating. | Relationships | May 23, 2008 09:27 AM | thank you...you are right...that's one of the reasons he doesn't want a deep relationship as he said |  | Dealing with losing my... | Relationships | May 23, 2008 09:17 AM | He sure is wasting his time trying to change someone from a playa to a loyal partner. |  | She took everything | Relationships | May 22, 2008 12:24 PM | Agreed. |  | She took everything | Relationships | May 22, 2008 09:01 AM | Good advice |  | Baby's father in... | Relationships | May 20, 2008 12:03 PM | My thought exactly. |  | Dating married man... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 05:35 AM | Thats good advice |  | Confused Girlfriend?... | Relationships | May 17, 2008 04:08 AM | great post. |  | I want my girl back | Relationships | May 15, 2008 01:38 PM | sometimes when you loose someone she realize what you lost and it turns into regret and then you want then back to undo all the wrong and turn it right. |  | breakup with girl fried... | Relationships | May 15, 2008 12:48 PM | Good idea! |  | can you be a single... | Foster Care | May 15, 2008 07:37 AM | Thanks for helping her mom get her girl babk! It is hard to let go.....Good info here about visitations and such! |  | Baby momma dramra | Relationships | May 15, 2008 04:52 AM | The courts will look after the interests of the child despite the adults. |  | He was seperated and... | Relationships | May 14, 2008 11:52 AM | Yes! that is correct. she needs to leave him and his wife alone to mend their marriage. |  | Is he messing with me... | Dating | May 14, 2008 07:48 AM | im 18 and he's gonna be 20 and yes it is the same guy |  | husband wont touch me | Marriage | May 10, 2008 08:04 AM | If it is an affair then it's GUILT. Everytime he looks at you & you're treating him well, he feel guilty. I agree. | |