 | | | | | | View Profile: Jiser | Jiser  Ultra Member |  | Last Activity: Jul 12, 2008 12:48 PM | | | | | | | |
| | | | | | Signature | Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.
Chuff:
Zoo:"Shes the one that said i love you, shes the one that wanted to be with me forever"
"So from that we can derive that she’d lied. I think we both know you can do better then a lying sewer rat."
"Lesson learned, women like challenge, once it’s gone so are you!"
When you do NOTHING then you can't make things worse
Get busy living or get busy dyin! | | | | | | |
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22 | Location:
England - Bournemouth
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I.T. tech
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 Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | How do I get over my... | Relationships | Jun 25, 2008 12:07 AM | wonderful advise | | Getting back in touch... | Relationships | May 25, 2008 07:29 AM | will do! | | Getting back in touch... | Relationships | May 25, 2008 07:23 AM | I was just about to add that, thanks Jis, thats a great suggestion. | | A great movie for... | Relationships | May 15, 2008 10:40 AM | Wrong! They do my friend. When you become mature, they return! | | 2nd day of no contact | Relationships | May 15, 2008 08:51 AM | That does look familiar! | | Girlfriend needed break... | Relationships | May 10, 2008 04:38 PM | option 2 would be best in an ideal world where men and women could communicate on all levels :) | | What is my... | Relationships | May 10, 2008 04:19 PM | Thank you! | | The good old 'I need a... | Relationships | May 3, 2008 06:05 PM | Yep | | Not a great way of... | Relationships | Apr 29, 2008 04:43 PM | There ya go, be polite and brief. | | My high school... | Relationships | Apr 18, 2008 08:07 PM | Agree 100% | | My high school... | Relationships | Apr 18, 2008 05:27 PM | Great point. | | Why is no contact and... | Relationships | Apr 17, 2008 05:34 PM | It is amazing when we see them for what they are, without the pedestal | | ex's staying friends or... | Relationships | Apr 11, 2008 04:24 PM | Wise words Jiser, and welcome back. | | Soulmates or too much... | Relationships | Mar 13, 2008 06:23 AM | yep | | Hey Guys | Relationships | Feb 14, 2008 09:19 AM | My God? | | Finding it so hard. | Relationships | Jan 12, 2008 02:09 PM | Took the words right off my keyboard. | | How do people fall in... | Relationships | Dec 23, 2007 06:54 AM | Thats the way. | | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | Dec 22, 2007 09:49 PM | Absolutely .......well said Jise | | fourth time's a charm? | Relationships | Dec 17, 2007 02:43 PM | i wanted to point out that i am inexperienced,unlucky,and nowadays,very vulnerable and needy.i miss the old self sufficient me |  | Sick of being single | Relationships | Nov 25, 2007 02:22 PM | Your right too thanks!! | | Finding it so hard. | Relationships | Nov 18, 2007 04:29 AM | Agreed completely! | | its the ex's birthday | Relationships | Nov 17, 2007 08:46 AM | Right on! | | did i make the right... | Relationships | Nov 17, 2007 04:50 AM | Being alone for a while is one of the toughest, but best way of getting yourself straight and learning who you are and what you really want. |  | its the ex's birthday | Relationships | Nov 17, 2007 03:52 AM | Where was the goal of your post? I didnt heard anything about "he must learn to be a better person". Everyone here gives only some freaking solutions like move on, but that move on, doesnt mean focus on your problems and character! | | "Get Back your... | Relationships | Nov 2, 2007 02:35 PM | It's true. They all basically say get a life. They are great in that sense, because getting a life is your only choice. Hence, it's the only thing that works. | | she dont love me... | Relationships | Oct 31, 2007 02:20 PM | Very good advise Jiser | | how to? | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 01:54 PM | Thanks and that is so true relationships in high school dont last that long | | Where are you in the... | Relationships | Oct 29, 2007 06:42 PM | oh yeah, thats what i mean! | | "Taking a break... | Relationships | Oct 24, 2007 04:11 PM | Right on. Giver her what she wants. Grass isn't always greener. | | Do I return her things... | Relationships | Oct 22, 2007 04:08 PM | Simple to the point and great advice. Listen to Jiser. | | Does it ever happen? | Relationships | Oct 22, 2007 03:33 PM | I so agree, we all need to be ourselves | | Do I return her things... | Relationships | Oct 22, 2007 02:51 PM | good advice | | geting a girl friend | Relationships | Oct 12, 2007 06:23 PM | Best adivce ever!! | | what is up with my... | Relationships | Oct 12, 2007 05:29 PM | I concur, bugger off and see how you feel when he's not around for longer than a week. | | my girl wants a break... | Relationships | Oct 9, 2007 05:04 PM | Yep. Ex. Meaning X her out of your life. | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 4, 2007 06:22 AM | This is the only way to agree with Chuff - Overdozed, listen to him, he has helped me so much and his advice is dead on | | Finding it difficult to... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 05:11 PM | Excelleny advice, take control of your own life and stop being dissapointed by others | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 04:07 PM | How can you not agree with this? | | When has enough time... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 11:56 AM | Seems like you're growing (lol) a pretty good head on your shoulders Jiser! Yeah don't contact her. She should be the one coming back to you. | | Yay! NC worked! | Relationships | Sep 30, 2007 12:55 PM | Im sure you will be Jiser. Good luck mate =) | | Yay! NC worked! | Relationships | Sep 30, 2007 09:19 AM | Its all about enjoying your life, without her!!! | | Yay! NC worked! | Relationships | Sep 30, 2007 05:11 AM | I hope you do turn out to be the one that got away too. :) Sounds like you're already turning into gold. | | Stories of Getting back... | Relationships | Sep 30, 2007 04:10 AM | At least this one is actually answering and not ridiculing the post! haha | | Finding it difficult to... | Relationships | Sep 29, 2007 05:19 PM | But when your confidence hits rock bottom is difficult to be happy with yourself. | | the most romantic thing... | Relationships | Sep 29, 2007 04:31 PM | aww that's cute thanks for responding | | I want to bring us back... | Relationships | Sep 25, 2007 11:41 AM | Absolutely | | I want to bring us back... | Relationships | Sep 24, 2007 05:46 PM | I know Jiser that you are right in that he should not be my life. I think when we broke up at first I felt like that, but no anymore. I still have a lot of work to do though - in terms of taking care of me. Thanks Jis for all your advice. | | I want to bring us back... | Relationships | Sep 24, 2007 05:15 PM | I agree 100% Great advice | | What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 23, 2007 01:22 PM | Yep -- no contact never hurts you. | | Girlfriend wants a... | Relationships | Sep 23, 2007 10:13 AM | Nothing is better than ignorance...he should for sure stay away from her facebook or anything else that has to do with her. | | Broke up but still in... | Relationships | Sep 22, 2007 12:51 PM | Very good!!! | | I want to bring us back... | Relationships | Sep 21, 2007 11:54 AM | Yes I've learned a lot from us being a part. In a way, this has been a curse and a blessing. | | Fear keeps tearing my... | Relationships | Sep 19, 2007 08:03 AM | Balancer. Nothing in this post suggests that the OP is a bad person. This response is VERY gentle. | | Fear keeps tearing my... | Relationships | Sep 19, 2007 07:43 AM | i'm NOT a lying "sewer rat" . It sounds like THIS person has the anger problem! | | GF turned up and wants... | Relationships | Sep 18, 2007 08:22 AM | Yup! Spot on | | should i dump my... | Relationships | Sep 16, 2007 04:24 AM | He probably hasn't given it a second thought, LOL! | | Girlfriend wants a... | Relationships | Sep 15, 2007 07:31 PM | I love your signature quotes! | | I want to bring us back... | Relationships | Sep 12, 2007 12:40 AM | Yeah I'm trying to make something of myself in the meantime. It's hard though, because I feel more depressed than motivated. But I know in my head the right thing is to just keep living and to work on myself. | | What should I do? | Relationships | Sep 11, 2007 06:10 PM | Me, too. Great post. | | What should I do? | Relationships | Sep 11, 2007 05:05 PM | You saved me writing it. Well done! | | clueless and scared | Relationships | Sep 11, 2007 08:04 AM | Its not good to need someone. And she wants someone badly, not good | | NC for 6 months &... | Relationships | Sep 10, 2007 11:17 AM | Simple and true | | What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 9, 2007 03:40 PM | Yup! | | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | Aug 31, 2007 08:06 AM | Great advice Jiser, focus on you and not them. | | i want my exboyfriend... | Relationships | Aug 30, 2007 11:55 AM | Well said and some very good advice | | Breakup-No Contact | Relationships | Aug 27, 2007 04:48 PM | Very well laid out Jiser. | | Sudden Break-up - NO... | Relationships | Aug 26, 2007 11:47 AM | Yep- well said | | How do i know hes the... | Relationships | Aug 25, 2007 04:55 PM | I found my soulmate at 16...but I did not solidify this to be true until after he stood in the surgery room through two C-Sections. Real Love Lasts through the ups downs and sheer crazyiness. After the high of NEW is GONE WHAT YOU HAVE LEFT IS LOVE | | I Think I Did The Right... | Relationships | Aug 25, 2007 09:50 AM | Yep! He'll be over her by then and can make a rational decision. | | Is there a way to get... | Relationships | Aug 24, 2007 10:23 AM | Wise answer get healthy first and then make good decisions | | why is it that the... | Relationships | Aug 24, 2007 09:34 AM | that's right!!! | | Dont know if im strong... | Relationships | Aug 21, 2007 03:54 PM | Amen! Give him some time, and give YOURSELF some time away from him. Take him out of your life and go no contact for now. Be good to yourself. | | are songs as meaningful... | Relationships | Aug 14, 2007 08:29 PM | I know what you mean. | | 3 months no contact,... | Relationships | Aug 14, 2007 07:37 AM | Good Point.. | | What should I do? | Relationships | Aug 13, 2007 02:54 PM | Thought it was good advice, telling her to use this time constructively | | Losing virginity making... | Relationships | Aug 13, 2007 12:14 PM | Great! Good advice for both sexes. | | Love, understanding... | Relationships | Aug 11, 2007 01:58 AM | I like that, you make goood sense. | | would you ask her back? | Relationships | Aug 9, 2007 11:22 AM | yep, u nailed it, Jsier! | | Ex wants to get... | Relationships | Aug 9, 2007 05:36 AM | Exactly the point. | | Why wont it stop? What... | Relationships | Aug 6, 2007 07:31 AM | I great answer that includes lot of suggestions. I like that insiration at the end. | | Broke up but still in... | Relationships | Aug 5, 2007 07:13 AM | Does sound familiar doesn't it? | | my heart walked out the... | Relationships | Aug 3, 2007 12:46 PM | true | | Falling out of love | Relationships | Jul 27, 2007 07:20 PM | Being happy on your own sure does help an awful lot | | shaved or natural? | Adult Sexuality | Jul 26, 2007 08:25 PM | Ooh jeez ... don't support his unknowings | | why does she always... | Relationships | Jul 23, 2007 02:42 PM | Sure do. | | I am going NC | Relationships | Jul 22, 2007 05:42 PM | Yeah well done on the new job. As geoff said yoiu have always shown a great attitude. That will pay off for you. | | I am going NC | Relationships | Jul 22, 2007 06:53 AM | Congrats on the new job! It is a great way to start a new phase in your life. Way to go! | | she wants space but... | Relationships | Jul 18, 2007 04:07 AM | Simple hard truth. | | My Girlfriend wants to... | Relationships | Jul 16, 2007 08:00 PM | definitely, pushing will make her pull away. | | Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Jul 13, 2007 03:21 AM | Right on!! | | Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Jul 13, 2007 03:16 AM | It is sad and the changes that dependence sends you thru is sad too. Well said | | Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Jul 12, 2007 04:40 PM | Behind every dark cloud there is a silver lining | | lost love | Relationships | Jul 11, 2007 05:43 AM | You became friends with someone who dated you ex? | | Why wont it stop? What... | Relationships | Jul 10, 2007 12:01 PM | Wow I thank you for the thouroughness of this answer and cant beging to explain how helpfull this is. I will try to apply as best i can. Thank you | | Why wont it stop? What... | Relationships | Jul 10, 2007 01:20 AM | I like your answer! | | I'm afraid I'll never... | Relationships | Jul 7, 2007 09:49 AM | beautiful, and brilliant I'd jiser | | I'm afraid I'll never... | Relationships | Jul 6, 2007 12:39 PM | Amen! as it should be. | | I'm afraid I'll never... | Relationships | Jul 6, 2007 12:16 PM | WoW!! Great Advice, I will also have to take up some of this advice. Good luck to you | | I don't know what to say. | Relationships | Jul 4, 2007 07:27 AM | So true he needs a lot of time. | | 4 year girlfriend broke... | Relationships | Jul 3, 2007 07:02 AM | So true! Wish you the best Jiser! |
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