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Michigan
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I am a soon to be 54 year old wife and mother. I was a stay home mom for 18 years. I operated an in home day care for a number of those years. I enjoy reading and listening to music, am an animal lover and try to keep up with what's going on in our world.
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Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | shes 3 years younger... | Relationships | May 22, 2008 07:50 AM | BINGO! Plus you'll meet older girls that are so much more interesting and into the same things that you are in college. Wait until you find a cool chick in one of your classes. |  | daughters grad open... | Etiquette | May 21, 2008 09:11 PM | valid points here. |  | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 17, 2008 02:03 PM | its just that simple. |  | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 17, 2008 02:01 PM | You either trust them or you don't. Simple and true. |  | Boyfriend doesn't show... | Relationships | May 12, 2008 06:13 PM | I don't think it would hurt too much for him to give a little reassurance to her now and then. |  | Boyfriend doesn't show... | Relationships | May 12, 2008 05:03 PM | A resonable choice. |  | Couples watching porn... | Adult Sexuality | Apr 28, 2008 11:51 AM | some good points |  | i lost him and we love... | Relationships | Apr 26, 2008 10:13 AM | 100% right on the money, couldn't have said it better myself. Great answer. |  | i lost him and we love... | Relationships | Apr 26, 2008 07:20 AM | Thumbs up to both your posts. |  | i lost him and we love... | Relationships | Apr 20, 2008 04:24 PM | I agree completely. |  | I need some... | Relationships | Apr 18, 2008 08:00 AM | couldn't have wrote it better myself. Great advice! |  | I need some... | Relationships | Apr 17, 2008 07:59 PM | The best answer in here. |  | I cheated on her with... | Relationships | Apr 16, 2008 10:04 PM | You called this one right. |  | I cheated on her with... | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 11:31 PM | Great insight and succient! Well stated! |  | I need some... | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 05:07 PM | He is the problem. |  | I need some... | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 04:29 PM | WELL SAID HOMEGIRL I AGREE |  | Is she selfish? | Adult Sexuality | Apr 14, 2008 07:00 AM | Agree....she won't so find a new one that will. Lifes too short to spent it with someone incompatible to your likes and needs. |  | Hopelessly devtoted to... | Relationships | Apr 13, 2008 06:54 PM | Good advice. |  | My 17 year old hates me... | Parenting | Apr 13, 2008 12:35 PM | Couldn't agree with you more!! |  | rebound blues | Relationships | Apr 12, 2008 10:41 PM | Pretty much what everbody has been saying. Good answer! |  | Is she selfish? | Adult Sexuality | Apr 12, 2008 05:44 PM | A reasoable suggestion. |  | Teenage daughter dating | Teens | Apr 12, 2008 04:21 PM | It depends on the state they live in. 16 year olds can legally see whoever they want against the parents better judgment in some states-mine is one of them |  | I need some... | Relationships | Apr 9, 2008 10:14 AM | yep, and she should never get drunk again...she doesn't need to bring anymore kids into this mess. This 27 year old man needs to grow up and quit leaning on women and having so many babies...when he is not sure of who or what he wants. |  | Like a merry-go-round | Relationships | Apr 9, 2008 06:55 AM | My thoughts exactly |  | Catching Her in... | Relationships | Mar 26, 2008 03:23 PM | This is it! You hit it on the head. Couldn't have said better |  | Catching Her in... | Relationships | Mar 24, 2008 10:28 AM | TOTALLY AGREE!!! RIGHT ON!!!! |  | Catching Her in... | Relationships | Mar 24, 2008 09:30 AM | I do agree, he puts up with it. |  | Cheating with my best... | Relationships | Mar 19, 2008 03:33 AM | Pitiful, indeed! |  | what should i do i want... | Relationships | Mar 15, 2008 12:48 PM | I think she just misses what she had, even though its to late now. |  | Fiance says hes not happy | Relationships | Mar 15, 2008 07:24 AM | He has some issues, I suspect it has nothing to do with her, but the grass may be greener somewhere else. |  | to love two man at a time | Marriage | Mar 13, 2008 12:20 PM | Young and congused a dangerous combination. |  | Girlfriend attacked me... | Relationships | Mar 12, 2008 03:41 PM | So true. |  | Multiple cats | Zoology | Mar 11, 2008 07:25 AM | That's very helpful. THANK YOU! |  | how can I make my... | Relationships | Mar 2, 2008 04:12 AM | Yes, indeed. |  | age difference | Relationships | Mar 1, 2008 06:36 AM | A certain s/o told this to a certain s/o and that s/o was not ready to hear it. So that certain s/o now sees the wisdom and agrees. |  | age difference | Relationships | Mar 1, 2008 06:09 AM | Thats what I think too. |  | Jealous boyfriend | Relationships | Feb 21, 2008 01:02 PM | If he wont deal with his issues, you need to leave. |  | Jealous boyfriend | Relationships | Feb 21, 2008 12:22 PM | agree sometimes we try to help others and we sink right with them... |  | How do I shake this 3... | Marriage | Feb 21, 2008 12:14 PM | I agree and I believe we have a need for love and a need to love; and it doesn't include abuse by, from, or toward anyone. |  | Playing Games? | Relationships | Feb 18, 2008 04:32 PM | Great answer! |  | Husband Hides Anal Sex... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 18, 2008 01:27 PM | i agree. i would find my husband less manly and sexy if i found out he liked inserting things in his . its just not sexy. sorry guys, just my opinion... and for the record that goes for my butt too. yuck |  | How do I shake this 3... | Marriage | Feb 15, 2008 01:38 PM | having friends and a great time is fine, but you have to know what comes first. |  | How do I shake this 3... | Marriage | Feb 15, 2008 10:51 AM | I believe this is totally correct. |  | troubled times | Relationships | Feb 14, 2008 06:08 PM | Me too! |  | troubled times | Relationships | Feb 13, 2008 06:17 PM | Babies are cute, but soooooooooooo needy. |  | husband cheating on me... | Relationships | Feb 12, 2008 06:04 AM | AGREED!!! |  | Can a religious man... | Relationships | Feb 8, 2008 09:02 AM | So right. |  | How do I shake this 3... | Marriage | Feb 6, 2008 05:41 PM | That would be a great approach to a bad situation. |  | Feel Used | Relationships | Feb 6, 2008 11:03 AM | Uh Huh. |  | Am i weird?How can i... | Relationships | Feb 2, 2008 06:55 AM | I don't think he is the one either. |  | Girlfriend left for two... | Relationships | Feb 1, 2008 07:08 AM | Right on the money! |  | Girlfriend has decided... | Adult Sexuality | Jan 30, 2008 05:38 AM | I agree. 3 months is typical nowadays for sex to already be in a relationship, and that is unfortunate. Maybe she has realized this, too. |  | Adult with parent issues | Other Family & People | Jan 29, 2008 02:06 PM | You are so right - not every parent is a parent but was just there at the creation for the fun of it. |  | What to do? What to do?... | Dating | Jan 29, 2008 06:17 AM | Yeah, I thought so too. I'm just going to ride the wave from here and see where it leads |  | worrying return | Relationships | Jan 21, 2008 04:46 AM | tht sounds about right, tank you |  | Is it morally wrong | Adult Sexuality | Jan 20, 2008 03:17 PM | yeah that is sorta part of why I said wait until they know each other better |  | I want to keep my... | Marriage | Jan 19, 2008 08:13 AM | great answer:-) |  | I want to keep my... | Marriage | Jan 18, 2008 03:39 PM | very insightful, good suggestions. |  | Mind says this, Heart... | Relationships | Jan 16, 2008 07:03 PM | Yep.........so true |  | Feel Used | Relationships | Jan 11, 2008 03:41 PM | Ignore his calls is the way to go. |  | Is he just trying to... | Teens | Jan 6, 2008 02:15 PM | I wholeheartedly agree, but she didn't say they were in her bedroom, just a room. |  | My Boyfriend of 2 years... | Relationships | Jan 4, 2008 03:20 PM | perfect solution |  | Son and family living... | Parenting | Jan 2, 2008 11:41 AM | Change the locks and the number till they all learn some respect. Very very good answer! |  | Cheating on your ex,... | Relationships | Jan 1, 2008 10:56 AM | She can't figure what she wants so cheating is the answer???? |  | My grown son who can't... | Relationships | Jan 1, 2008 06:50 AM | I agree 100% about the anger. That's the part that drives me crazy. I feel that when I married my second husband I put my son on the back burner. He was becoming a problem before I met my husband though. This is why I feel so guilty. |  | Is he just trying to... | Teens | Dec 31, 2007 10:06 AM | Yep, and either way it means a dangerous boy. |  | Is he just trying to... | Teens | Dec 31, 2007 10:05 AM | dude i think that your like really wrong |  | Cheating on your ex,... | Relationships | Dec 31, 2007 07:46 AM | "If you really care for him, why are you cheating?" That's right. |  | My husband just found... | Marriage | Dec 27, 2007 10:58 PM | Exactly what I was wondering. |  | Wife knows the truth | Relationships | Dec 27, 2007 03:55 PM | No, I am not messing with him anymore. It was hard at first b/c I was still in love with him, but I have to do the RIGHT thing, which was leave him alone |  | my toy or my men | Adult Sexuality | Dec 25, 2007 03:31 PM | Gotcha, use it to teach and have pleasure. |  | Involved with "The... | Workplace Relationships | Dec 22, 2007 08:42 PM | You play, you pay. |  | Girlfriend of 4 years... | Relationships | Dec 22, 2007 10:40 AM | how come your story is changing? Ive been saying this from the beggining but you cost me points and now you are changing. |  | Can a 16 year old and a... | Dating | Dec 15, 2007 05:36 AM | balancer, good job. |  | Can a 16 year old and a... | Dating | Dec 15, 2007 01:41 AM | LET THEM LIVE. you only live once after all love has everything to do with it. it changes everything. |  | Took a 1 week break, ex... | Relationships | Dec 12, 2007 07:07 AM | Definately the right course of action. |  | I don't know what to do... | Dating | Dec 11, 2007 06:49 PM | Well said |  | my husband told me he... | Marriage | Dec 10, 2007 06:37 AM | I agree with that. I also agree that referral is appropriate and that's all I was doing. Some hairy assumptions and judgments were being made and that's not cool. |  | 15 and pregnant | Teens | Dec 9, 2007 06:31 PM | You said it all!!!! Thank You! |  | Involved with "The... | Workplace Relationships | Dec 9, 2007 08:23 AM | Exactly |  | 15 and pregnant | Teens | Dec 8, 2007 06:48 PM | Thank you!!! |  | 15 and pregnant | Teens | Dec 8, 2007 04:56 PM | We see this too much in today's society. Baby's having babies. Then they dump the child off on their parents, so they can go out and "have fun" and not take on any responsibility of that child. |  | For believers only | Christianity | Dec 8, 2007 01:59 PM | My first son was almost dead when born. I had two miscarriages as well. Then I almost miscarried my second son. God is always Good, no matter the curcumstances. |  | He doesn't know if he... | Relationships | Dec 8, 2007 05:33 AM | He doesn't care enough for her anyway. |  | 15 and pregnant | Teens | Dec 8, 2007 03:00 AM | Your right |  | 15 and pregnant | Teens | Dec 8, 2007 12:23 AM | Voice of reason. |  | dumped but don't know why | Relationships | Dec 7, 2007 10:36 AM | so true good advice. I feel better for this advice thanks |  | my husband told me he... | Marriage | Dec 7, 2007 07:45 AM | Right. Just because he came out doesnt make him single again. It sounds like he is being a little selfish. |  | I can't beleive it's... | Relationships | Dec 6, 2007 07:46 PM | Everytime we were together since, things picked up and were looking good... Then when we didn't see eachother for a while and she spent more time with her dancing friends and mother it'd deteriorate again. |  | He doesn't want to talk... | Relationships | Dec 6, 2007 11:54 AM | She hears but doesn't listen, so true. One word...DENIAL! |  | Was I Being Used? | Relationships | Dec 6, 2007 08:10 AM | u dont need men like this |  | For believers only | Christianity | Dec 5, 2007 03:11 PM | Well said about heart attitude!!! |  | For believers only | Christianity | Dec 5, 2007 12:47 PM | Thank you for your response, glad to know I am not the only one and that He hears through the jumble. |  | 14 yr old had sex - I'm... | Teens | Dec 4, 2007 07:14 PM | no, don't lock them up but make them have friends over and chaperone their activities. |  | 14 yr old had sex - I'm... | Teens | Dec 4, 2007 05:41 PM | i agree dont lock them up "not what i meant" place lots of restictions! |  | I ALWAYS have to... | Marriage | Dec 4, 2007 12:59 PM | Very down to earth ... thanks. |  | I ALWAYS have to... | Marriage | Dec 4, 2007 09:34 AM | good answer! |  | I ALWAYS have to... | Marriage | Dec 4, 2007 09:14 AM | Incredibly insightful response! |  | My husband just found... | Marriage | Dec 3, 2007 05:00 PM | They both need time, and maybe some help to deal with this. |  | i am an 18 year old... | Children | Dec 2, 2007 03:03 PM | good points | |