| Question | Forum | Date | Comment |
 | how do i get my ex... | Relationships | Sep 28, 2007 07:31 AM | Meetings with ex's are usually just totally awkard, only after a long period of NC - years (i think personally) can one make something of things |
| What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 23, 2007 02:20 PM | Yes I agree, but I think he didn't mean you're literally a loser. But you may feel like one. |
| What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 11, 2007 05:45 PM | Great point Geoff, there is a difference between losers and those that are hurting |
| What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 10, 2007 03:59 PM | Well said Geoff! |
| What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 10, 2007 03:45 PM | Absolutely right Geoff |
| Thoughts & Prayers Tell... | Relationships | Sep 4, 2007 08:44 PM | Listen to the voice of experience, while your searching for some way to end this, as Geoff points out, this is not that way, and in fact it takes you backwards. |
| Thoughts & Prayers Tell... | Relationships | Sep 4, 2007 12:27 PM | I thought the same way......just delayed the healing process. |
| What to expect when you... | Relationships | Sep 3, 2007 06:53 PM | Well said Geoff! |
| Moving on, FINALLY!... | Relationships | Aug 29, 2007 01:44 AM | Amazing JEFF Time does heal all wounds... |
| 3 months no contact,... | Relationships | Aug 14, 2007 04:54 AM | So true. Letting go, and moving on is hard but necessary to heal. |
| thare is an animal... | Relationships | Aug 2, 2007 08:28 PM | your opions are wonderfel. thank you a lot |
| If you get dumped make... | Relationships | Aug 1, 2007 06:19 PM | Make that two Cups. Great advice Geoff. You hit the nail squarely on the head. |
| If you get dumped make... | Relationships | Jul 31, 2007 06:34 AM | very nicely put Geoff.. |
| If you get dumped make... | Relationships | Jul 31, 2007 05:25 AM | I'll have a cup of coffee to that |
| If you get dumped make... | Relationships | Jul 31, 2007 05:14 AM | i agree, also for my own situation... |
| Still miss my ex after... | Relationships | Jul 28, 2007 11:28 AM | Or get busted in public and will never show their face here again, LOL |
| Should I send flowers... | Relationships | Jul 26, 2007 03:38 PM | Well put Geoff! |
| Should I send flowers... | Relationships | Jul 23, 2007 04:23 PM | Exactly Geoff. The point i have been trying to make. It isnt about playing games. It is about what is best for himself. Some people here just dont get it!!!! You do though!!! |
| do men like big women? | Relationships | Jul 22, 2007 09:35 AM | what a beautiful story |
| do men like big women? | Relationships | Jul 22, 2007 07:48 AM | excellant post. |
| I am going NC | Relationships | Jul 18, 2007 09:44 AM | I like this statement because I agree. If somebody claims they love you so much, then how can they treat you so badly? |
| I am going NC | Relationships | Jul 18, 2007 08:59 AM | Muahahaha |
| my ex apoligised | Relationships | Jul 15, 2007 05:13 PM | Spot on Geoff!!! |
| my ex apoligised | Relationships | Jul 15, 2007 04:17 AM | That is right. |
| Advice For Getting Guy... | Relationships | Jul 14, 2007 04:47 PM | Well said Geoff. Amen! |
| Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Jul 13, 2007 10:35 AM | YEAH TO ME TOO! |
| Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Jul 13, 2007 04:12 AM | He sounds healthy and very well adjusted the way I see it too. |
| Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Jul 12, 2007 05:37 PM | Thanks mate. You make sense as always! |
| I have really tried, in... | Relationships | Jul 10, 2007 09:19 PM | "when we least expect them" That's exactly when what we want finds us. |
| one year of lies | Relationships | Jul 10, 2007 04:51 AM | I heard a quote that said 'We all are psychic, some just do not follow their gut because their fear gets in the way" |
| I have really tried, in... | Relationships | Jul 9, 2007 10:28 AM | Well said |
| Noticed there are... | Relationships | Jul 8, 2007 04:43 AM | Congrats mate, I hope you find that special someone. |
| Choose from only one of... | Relationships | Jul 7, 2007 10:44 AM | Great answer as why chose in the blind. |
| nice guys finish last | Relationships | Jul 1, 2007 10:34 AM | Right, some women only like nice guys! |
| nice guys finish last | Relationships | Jun 24, 2007 11:56 AM | the younger girls seem to like the bad boys, till its time to settle down then the bad boys seem to become the losers |
| Girfriend of 9 months... | Relationships | Jun 20, 2007 01:28 AM | One day geoff, one day! It could be sooner than you think :) |
| Revenge on an ex !?! | Relationships | Jun 17, 2007 09:25 AM | I do hope karma exists geoff! |
| Relationship Breakup Help | Relationships | Jun 14, 2007 06:01 PM | You certainly know how to bang on. Hahahaha |
| Relationship Breakup Help | Relationships | Jun 13, 2007 03:57 PM | It is clear to see how happy and healthy you are. It was never in doubt though considering the great bloke you are. I like too that your still not in a hurry for a GF. Im sure one will come along when the time is right! |
| Relationship Breakup Help | Relationships | Jun 13, 2007 03:13 PM | Don't know if you noticed, but when the questions about your situation stopped, You AND Skell where there for others, and have helped many since, a sure tip off of getting healthy. Well done. |
| My Ex Gf wants to come... | Relationships | Jun 13, 2007 10:33 AM | yep! |
| Breakup Update I'm My... | Relationships | Jun 13, 2007 07:31 AM | Very well-put. I imagine you had a cup of coffee. |
| Relationship Breakup Help | Relationships | Jun 13, 2007 07:17 AM | So glad to hear this! But since Nov. you stopped talking about it on AMHD? |
| Would have been a year... | Relationships | Jun 10, 2007 03:45 PM | lol just wild guess here but i think you're tryin to tell me somethin |
| Would have been a year... | Relationships | Jun 10, 2007 11:45 AM | true, but damn it hurts |
| Would have been a year... | Relationships | Jun 10, 2007 11:23 AM | Exactly. He was so far emotionally gone that he couldn't see she was just not that into him. It was a one sided relationship that is for sure. |
| her ex-boyfriend won't... | Dating | Jun 7, 2007 01:34 PM | It happend exactly to me. DONT GO TO THE END OF THE TUNNEL TO FIND THE LIGHT, CAUSE THERE IS NO LIGHT!!! |
| I Want a Man! | Relationships | Jun 5, 2007 03:22 PM | Exactly right Geoff. |
| I Want a Man! | Relationships | Jun 5, 2007 02:18 PM | Absolutely, you cannot be happy in a relationship until your are happy without one. |
| what kind of girls do... | Relationships | Jun 3, 2007 03:50 PM | Here Here! |
| what kind of girls do... | Relationships | Jun 3, 2007 10:54 AM | Exactly... stereotyping isn't cool |
| Were you needy? Clingy?... | Relationships | Jun 1, 2007 07:43 PM | Ah yes, Geoff you have come a long way and now you are a better person for it. |
| How would I know if my... | Relationships | May 31, 2007 11:19 AM | ***did someone "duh" my Geoff - ?????**** sheesh |
| I want my ex girlfriend... | Relationships | May 30, 2007 07:35 PM | Absolutely, there is a fine line between wanting and just plain neediness. |
| I want my ex girlfriend... | Relationships | May 30, 2007 11:22 AM | Great answer! |
| How would I know if my... | Relationships | May 29, 2007 05:14 AM | Whatever game she is playing can do him no good but keep him in limbo, until she finds something else. |
 | How would I know if my... | Relationships | May 28, 2007 06:08 AM | how can you put that i never said it would you say talk over coffee i say you cant have the talk or coffee if she dont want to duh so the only way to know is to be up front and ask that first the work on where to go next with it ans the qus dont hide |
| Unexpected text from... | Relationships | May 22, 2007 03:35 AM | Yeah, he wants me to say "NooOOoo I don't have a BF thats not true!!!! I used to send him texts implying he had a gf just to hear him say he didn't. I hope he sweats on this, bc Im NOT answering to confirm anything for him. |
| Just need someone to... | Relationships | May 21, 2007 04:05 PM | Exactly right Geoff. |
| My ex broke me and now... | Relationships | May 20, 2007 04:56 AM | Onwords and upwards! Actions in terms of ex's - they would let you know if they wanted you - not the case here |
| Just need someone to... | Relationships | May 19, 2007 01:53 PM | Right, when reality hits us between the eyes is when we find the acceptance we need to start healing, kinda sad we need that hard slap instead of just listening, but at least we get there. |
| Just need someone to... | Relationships | May 13, 2007 07:21 AM | Thanks for the support :) |
| A Word on overanalyzing | Relationships | May 6, 2007 02:23 PM | True to yourself sounds just right. |
| A Word on overanalyzing | Relationships | May 5, 2007 02:47 PM | Too bad its not as easy to do as it is to speak :) |
| Am I making a mistake? | Relationships | May 5, 2007 09:19 AM | I could - but none would be good enough for our Geoff ; ). |
| How Long to Wait? | Relationships | May 4, 2007 05:24 PM | Exactly right |
| Probly never forget my... | Relationships | May 2, 2007 02:20 PM | <Sigh.> After more than 30 years all my exes still haunt me at times, Do you think they have forgotten me? |
| Probly never forget my... | Relationships | May 2, 2007 12:35 PM | I doubt very much you are forgotten. Nobody can forget, I still think about people who I knew years ago! Who knows what the future holds. You can run into the most unlikely of people in the most unusual circumstances, I know that from experiance. |
| Who is the Guy and Who... | Relationships | Apr 22, 2007 03:18 AM | So very true Geoff! |
| dont wanna feel like this | Relationships | Apr 21, 2007 11:59 AM | Great advice. I just had 5 cups of coffee. hee hee! |
| Who is the Guy and Who... | Relationships | Apr 21, 2007 09:14 AM | Very good point. |
| Who is the Guy and Who... | Relationships | Apr 21, 2007 07:40 AM | Ha, yes! You're almost too English for your own good! Of course being a good person for its own benefit is the opposite of cynical! |
| Am i in the wrong for... | Relationships | Apr 21, 2007 06:32 AM | At a young age she has a priority for the next 18 years. |
| Hair loss? | Relationships | Apr 19, 2007 12:26 AM | Its the logical thing to do, just very hard to focus |
| Trying to Start Over. | Relationships | Apr 17, 2007 12:34 PM | Run, Run, Run very fast. |
| nc and got and ex back? | Relationships | Apr 15, 2007 04:59 PM | Spot on Geoff! As always!! |
| Open Letter to my Ex | Relationships | Apr 14, 2007 10:42 AM | Geoff - how very lucky, fortunate and blessed will be the young lady who is deserving of you and all of your banging ons :) |
| I need help on how to... | Relationships | Apr 14, 2007 06:39 AM | Very well said. |
| EX Living in my mind | Relationships | Apr 12, 2007 04:34 AM | Great advice as always |
| EX Living in my mind | Relationships | Apr 12, 2007 04:06 AM | Good advice here. 19? marrige, kids? No way, too much life to live and things to do. |
| dealing with lonliness | Relationships | Apr 2, 2007 12:29 PM | correctamondo! |
| Do I need therapy? | Relationships | Apr 2, 2007 10:55 AM | i saw that thread; wich one was it? it's a good quote. |
| Cheating: Common in... | Relationships | Mar 29, 2007 09:45 AM | There is allot more to it than right or wrong, the heart does not care about reason |
| Update. Did no contact.... | Relationships | Mar 28, 2007 05:04 AM | Will somebody wake this guy up. |
| For men..... | Adult Sexuality | Mar 27, 2007 11:25 PM | True enough! |
| Being angry a bad idea? | Relationships | Mar 27, 2007 10:12 PM | Very helpful answer. This statement, "Acceptance takes time and that is it really, Time heals.." is very true :-) Even if it does not seem like it at first, things do get better. |
| Do I need therapy? | Relationships | Mar 27, 2007 11:27 AM | Thanks for the support - thought that was chuff talking for a minute there :) |
| Best movies to watch... | Relationships | Mar 27, 2007 08:14 AM | ha ha! Geoff! |
| Do I need therapy? | Relationships | Mar 27, 2007 06:19 AM | Exactly we have all gone thru the same thing and all you do is live by a few basic rules. |
| Update. Did no contact.... | Relationships | Mar 27, 2007 03:48 AM | Yes, this is all likely. Please be aware of being sloppy seconds. Let go and don't be there for her anymore, doesn't mean you have to totally emotionally detach but move on ! ;] |
| has any one been dumped... | Relationships | Mar 25, 2007 08:41 AM | Yes! Being in love is amazing! That's why we want to fall in love knowing there's always a risk that we may get hurt. Just be careful next time! |
| Cheating: Common in... | Relationships | Mar 24, 2007 03:15 PM | Exactly good point, have fun while your young and learn and grow. |
| has any one been dumped... | Relationships | Mar 24, 2007 09:26 AM | Why base your life on false hope, waiting for a maybe. |
| Cheating: Common in... | Relationships | Mar 24, 2007 06:04 AM | It must be easier to do the wrong thing as opposed to what is the right way to do things |
| Cheating: Common in... | Relationships | Mar 24, 2007 05:51 AM | Thanks Geoff : ) |
| Rekindling old Flames -... | Relationships | Mar 23, 2007 05:52 AM | Yes, that major change needs to happen and sadly, it does not. It often looks like it though and that is why people get suckered back in. |
| saucy dreams | Relationships | Mar 23, 2007 01:05 AM | I guess so! |
| too much contact | Relationships | Mar 21, 2007 02:23 PM | Thas fine Geoff. |
| Zodiac matching | Relationships | Mar 15, 2007 04:30 AM | i believe wap is a LEO ha ha ha |
| Zodiac matching | Relationships | Mar 14, 2007 04:06 PM | It amuses me with some people. But i dont dismiss them either. I like to keep an open mind. I dont think that is an attribute of a Scorpio though. Ill have to check! |
