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Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Forum | Date | Comment |  | number 1 cause of divorce | Divorce | Nov 18, 2009 11:44 AM | Well said. |  | When is it really too... | Marriage | Nov 18, 2009 03:10 AM | Well said |  | toddler same sex... | Children | Nov 18, 2009 02:30 AM | I liked this |  | toddler same sex... | Children | Nov 17, 2009 02:24 PM | There are still far too many people who have a bias against homosexuality and those minds will never be changed. |  | I can't leave my... | Relationships | Nov 17, 2009 01:14 AM | very well said. |  | I can't leave my... | Relationships | Nov 17, 2009 01:02 AM | Awesome advice Gem |  | Drinking Issue. | Relationships | Nov 16, 2009 01:18 PM | I agree with the last sentence. |  | Drinking Issue. | Relationships | Nov 16, 2009 12:44 PM | I agree 100% I have been drunk countless times and never cheated. |  | Daughter in Law | Relationships | Nov 16, 2009 03:32 AM | accept the things she cannot change. |  | Daughter in Law | Relationships | Nov 16, 2009 12:25 AM | How very true. Sounds like the DIL cut his apron strings. |  | stuck with the past. | Relationships | Nov 15, 2009 11:44 PM | Totally agree!!! She'll do this to you again & again! |  | lost in love | Relationships | Nov 15, 2009 03:02 AM | agree..too much too soon. |  | got dumped for no reason | Relationships | Nov 13, 2009 06:03 PM | Yes, spineless. |  | how do i get confident... | Relationships | Nov 13, 2009 11:07 AM | I agree if you do things as a group it eaiser to communicate. |  | not sure whether to... | Relationships | Nov 13, 2009 01:55 AM | Brilliantly put Gem.OP,Trust is as delicate as glass.Once broken,hard to repair.Understand it thoroughly.You cant hold her inability to trust you again,against her.Keep trying without any hope.If she calls it quits,just accept it. |  | dating and future in-laws | Dating | Nov 11, 2009 09:57 PM | You hit the nail on the head! |  | Should I leave my... | Marriage | Nov 11, 2009 11:21 AM | Excellent advice. |  | Do you still need no... | Marriage | Nov 11, 2009 05:00 AM | if the op can get the last 3 lines of this post into his head he would be doing good. |  | Did I Cross the Line? | Other Family & People | Nov 10, 2009 08:19 PM | I still don't understand why people think that chat speak is okay. |  | Relationships are... | Relationships | Nov 10, 2009 04:26 PM | Yep , great post Gem |  | Relationships are... | Relationships | Nov 10, 2009 03:53 PM | Mirror... I like that analogy. |  | Did I Cross the Line? | Other Family & People | Nov 10, 2009 01:39 PM | Very true. Maybe her DIL should have set some boundries first before innocent mistakes were made. Could easily be fixed. |  | my 29 year old daughter... | Parenting | Nov 10, 2009 10:43 AM | You need to tell her that she needs to be responsible for her own life! You might try to assist her but not if she continually makes you feel awful. It's time to grow up and let go of the past...she is hurting herself and everyone around her! |  | my 29 year old daughter... | Parenting | Nov 10, 2009 09:24 AM | And in the long run, the daughter will learn self respect, and be a better person, and mother. |  | Relationships are... | Relationships | Nov 10, 2009 07:11 AM | I read somewhere - the main purpose of love/relationships is to alleviate loneliness from which we suffer for the major part of our lives. |  | Relationships are... | Relationships | Nov 10, 2009 01:58 AM | I am perfectly imperfect. Love it |  | Should I leave my... | Marriage | Nov 8, 2009 11:31 PM | Love is a complicated mess ,,ain't it ? |  | I want to get married... | Marriage | Nov 8, 2009 04:31 PM | There's nothing else to say. |  | lost in love | Relationships | Nov 7, 2009 04:09 AM | I totally agree...Way over done. He needs to relax and put himself first. |  | what is on his mind? | Relationships | Nov 7, 2009 12:21 AM | yes time to move on . |  | Rescue my marrage or... | Marriage | Nov 6, 2009 11:56 PM | very well said! |  | my dad's fantasy | Dating | Nov 6, 2009 05:12 PM | Very well put Gemini, good insight. I can see her point though, I'm sure he is probably annoying as all get out. |  | Aunt and Grandmother... | Parenting | Nov 6, 2009 04:44 PM | Excellent assessment and warnings. |  | Is this normal? | Relationships | Nov 6, 2009 08:14 AM | great post! |  | Is this normal? | Relationships | Nov 6, 2009 06:57 AM | Very well put! |  | Getting back to business. | Relationships | Nov 6, 2009 05:41 AM | Great advice! |  | Is this normal? | Relationships | Nov 6, 2009 04:12 AM | I am who I am ,you accept me or not,bottom line :) |  | New wife is over... | Parenting | Nov 5, 2009 01:32 PM | Good |  | It started with head... | Child & Teen Health | Nov 5, 2009 12:45 AM | we are seeing the pediatrics nurse for the results for the EEG but as some of you know they ignore what you say because your not the doctor they are.are first health nurse sent refered us to the psycologist because of his behavior |  | cheating husband | Marriage | Nov 5, 2009 12:24 AM | I agree, time to focus on keeping busy and not suspicious of hubby without proof. |  | Devestated on recent... | Relationships | Nov 4, 2009 11:19 PM | true-rebounds rarely work. |  | It started with head... | Child & Teen Health | Nov 4, 2009 06:29 PM | Yes exactly |  | Not sexually turned on... | Adult Sexuality | Nov 4, 2009 01:29 AM | Yes, it is complex . I feel sorry for the "clumsy lover". |  | Not sexually turned on... | Adult Sexuality | Nov 3, 2009 06:54 PM | totally agree |  | Married my ex's best... | Marriage | Nov 2, 2009 07:48 PM | Well said as always. |  | Strip club | Adult Sexuality | Nov 2, 2009 01:06 PM | I disagree 100%. This IS a popular answer! |  | what to do when your... | Relationships | Nov 1, 2009 09:27 PM | So true. |  | Why do men lie? | Dating | Nov 1, 2009 07:27 AM | perhaps you just hit the nail on the head! |  | I'm in love, and she... | Dating | Nov 1, 2009 03:05 AM | That simple. |  | Married my ex's best... | Marriage | Nov 1, 2009 01:37 AM | Exciting and enlivening, maybe, but not welcome |  | Why do men lie? | Dating | Oct 31, 2009 11:47 PM | All very good points. |  | Getting on but my wife... | Marriage | Oct 31, 2009 11:12 AM | Well said. It does seem that he hovers and harps on every little thing. I can't blame the wife for going somewhere where she's accepted and comfortable. It's time for the OP to relax. |  | Strip club | Adult Sexuality | Oct 31, 2009 06:24 AM | Thank you, you took the words right out off my keyboard. |  | my girl developed... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2009 05:35 PM | So very true. He's a doormat and she's walking all over him. It's time for him to get a backbone and backoff. |  | I shoplift and want to... | Crime | Oct 29, 2009 10:54 AM | Thank you gemini. I think you hit it spot on for me, a sense of disconnectedness and boredom. Time for me to take control and fill my life up with meaningful things. Thanks for the helpful response. |  | Having quite a few... | Teens | Oct 29, 2009 07:09 AM | Exactly!!!!!!!!! |  | I shoplift and want to... | Crime | Oct 29, 2009 06:44 AM | Good points. |  | Sexually attracted to... | Divorce | Oct 28, 2009 06:39 PM | Great ideas Gemini |  | I just dont get it. | Dating | Oct 27, 2009 07:25 PM | True beauty can come in different forms |  | I just dont get it. | Dating | Oct 27, 2009 06:34 PM | Very well said and very true. |  | a guy at work acting... | Workplace Relationships | Oct 27, 2009 02:14 PM | Thanks for your aswer that really dos help! |  | Dating/problems with a... | Dating | Oct 27, 2009 01:07 AM | As usual, very good. |  | Proving infidelity | Marriage | Oct 26, 2009 07:13 PM | I like this idea. Simple and free. |  | Step Parenting Causing... | Marriage | Oct 26, 2009 06:47 PM | Absolutely agree. |  | how to adjust after... | Marriage | Oct 26, 2009 05:12 PM | Good points. |  | He never was there | Adult Sexuality | Oct 26, 2009 02:58 PM | good questions and observation skill! |  | Trying hard but wife... | Marriage | Oct 25, 2009 10:04 PM | I fully agree, her business-her responsibility. Share the household chores. |  | Trying hard but wife... | Marriage | Oct 25, 2009 08:04 PM | LMAO ! Testes in a jar,I love it! Thanks for the laugh.Good advice as well! LOL :) |  | My husband left and I... | Marriage | Oct 24, 2009 08:45 AM | agree! |  | Divorce vs children | Divorce | Oct 23, 2009 07:11 AM | Hard to believe isn't it. |  | Can't let go | Relationships | Oct 22, 2009 10:17 PM | You beat me to it by a nano second Gem :) |  | My husband has a female... | Marriage | Oct 22, 2009 08:22 PM | texts are crazy! |  | She is just a friend? | Marriage | Oct 22, 2009 09:02 AM | Definitely unacceptable... |  | Getting on but my wife... | Marriage | Oct 22, 2009 08:31 AM | That's another great option, getting more involved with the other couple.. |  | my girl developed... | Relationships | Oct 19, 2009 07:33 AM | Well said |  | Is is marijuana or my... | Adult Sexuality | Oct 18, 2009 10:59 PM | thank you gemini |  | How do you forgive an... | Relationships | Oct 18, 2009 08:13 PM | Very good advice. I hope he takes it. |  | How do you forgive an... | Relationships | Oct 18, 2009 08:10 PM | Great suggestion. |  | wife cant give reason... | Marriage | Oct 18, 2009 06:13 PM | Rather suspicious, even in forgiving such actions. |  | wife cant give reason... | Marriage | Oct 18, 2009 05:28 PM | We need the whole story, and he needs to be mad as hell. |  | I like this girl, but... | Dating | Oct 18, 2009 09:25 AM | Simple and true. |  | I like this girl, but... | Dating | Oct 18, 2009 01:20 AM | agree. the op needs to change his focus. |  | Would a dumper/Player... | Relationships | Oct 17, 2009 09:00 PM | I have to agree. |  | Full body donation | Death & Dying | Oct 16, 2009 11:07 PM | I get the ewwww factor as well,that is why I have not penned it yet.No demise too soon ,thank you my friend :) |  | Confused after being... | Marriage | Oct 16, 2009 08:49 AM | You always give good advice, she does need a friend to talk to. |  | Never Enough for my... | Marriage | Oct 16, 2009 08:04 AM | i take this view too. |  | Lazy, Insecure,... | Relationships | Oct 16, 2009 06:06 AM | I can absolutely agree with the tough love advice. |  | Urge To Cheat? | Adult Sexuality | Oct 16, 2009 02:57 AM | great advice |  | Girlfriend wants break... | Relationships | Oct 16, 2009 01:25 AM | Spot on. |  | My boyfriend slept with... | Relationships | Oct 15, 2009 09:27 PM | Tool,very apt description,nothing more need be said after that! |  | Never Enough for my... | Marriage | Oct 15, 2009 08:05 PM | Its that simple, just asking what he means is a good start. |  | Never Enough for my... | Marriage | Oct 15, 2009 05:28 PM | I'm with this view. Agreed!!! |  | Would a dumper/Player... | Relationships | Oct 15, 2009 05:27 PM | I agree , well said Gem |  | Did that cheater truly... | Relationships | Oct 15, 2009 12:18 AM | three months is a drop in the bucket compared to a lifetime of BS. |  | Did that cheater truly... | Relationships | Oct 14, 2009 05:54 PM | The truth. |  | Soul mates besides... | Marriage | Oct 14, 2009 09:20 AM | Not harsh at all ,very realistic! |  | Soul mates besides... | Marriage | Oct 13, 2009 11:34 PM | I can't believe how people justify their bad behaviour, by making it sound like they are doing something honourable for their partner. |  | Why would a "man" use... | Relationships | Oct 13, 2009 07:39 PM | Great insight. I believe you're right on |  | Soul mates besides... | Marriage | Oct 13, 2009 12:28 PM | If only they put that much thought and energy into making their marriages better. |  | my boyfriend never gave... | Dating | Oct 12, 2009 02:57 AM | maybe a word in his ear will help,some guys are just clueless. | |