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"Chuff - I had to spread the rep, but you may be the coolest guy ever!" | | | | | | |
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 Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | Just started dating a... | Relationships | May 21, 2008 06:17 PM | right! | | We've been through so... | Relationships | May 21, 2008 05:20 PM | My thoughts exactly | | Is this a sign of a... | Relationships | May 20, 2008 10:03 AM | You hits some good points right on the head, they both are troubled | | Is this a sign of a... | Relationships | May 20, 2008 07:13 AM | Chuff said it before I did...This is exactly what I was thinking...It was all her and he was just having a good time...Sounds like he has a psycho gf...Unbelieveable. How can she do that to him? | | Is this a sign of a... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 05:29 PM | I was afraid of writing that down, way to put your neck out there Chuff :) | | Is this a sign of a... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 05:08 PM | I kept reading posts that I was disagreeing too, and thought I should probably not post my opinion here..glad you did. I see it the same way too. | | The NC Calendar | Relationships | May 19, 2008 04:05 PM | LOL............well I get it but the others probably wont :) | | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 13, 2008 10:14 AM | Oh my gosh, the best chuffing ever, and to true. | | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 13, 2008 10:02 AM | Welcome back Chuff - couldn't have said it better... being a 'gal', I wouldn't have wasted my prescious time on a man who wears blinders. Good for you! | | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 13, 2008 09:59 AM | The comment box is not long enough to fit the amount of laughter I have generated from your post | | 2nd day of no contact | Relationships | May 12, 2008 12:42 PM | YuPP..You so knoww how 2 saii it! | | When I lose it, i... | Relationships | May 12, 2008 09:37 AM | Anger spurs change. | | 2nd day of no contact | Relationships | May 10, 2008 04:45 PM | working out is a great way to start focusing on yourself..Once my exams are out of the way I'm hitting the gym too..what better way to start feeling and looking better for all the other million girls that are out there. | | 2nd day of no contact | Relationships | May 10, 2008 04:27 PM | Chuff man gives it str8! On a plateer (posh english accent) | | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 10, 2008 01:43 PM | You hit it on the head. | | The NC Calendar | Relationships | May 10, 2008 09:13 AM | Thanks, chuff! How can some with such a scary picture be so sweet? | | Woman falls in love... | Relationships | May 9, 2008 05:40 PM | Yes | | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 9, 2008 08:14 AM | I was going to post something...but with this answer nothing more needs to be said. Right on Chuff | | She Cheated On Me | Relationships | May 8, 2008 12:40 PM | totally agree, went through something like this myself and when you get out you feel a 1000 times better in the long run | | Wife and Mother of My... | Relationships | May 7, 2008 12:59 PM | WoW...The Chuffing by Chuff is def. heaven sent...Original. It even helped me. Absolutely amazing advice!!! | | Seeking tasteful... | Relationships | May 1, 2008 04:36 PM | Leave him in the past | | moving on | Relationships | Apr 30, 2008 03:24 PM | Agreed chuff, go to the doc, get the meds, its not weak. I waited way too long before I did. They I could care less what she did. | | moving on | Relationships | Apr 30, 2008 02:54 PM | He needs and deserves some help. What a bummer!! | | what should I do? | Relationships | Apr 25, 2008 01:22 PM | Simple, easy, and true | | 7-Years down the drain? | Relationships | Apr 23, 2008 09:35 AM | I agree 100%....It was just a matter of feeling the pain now vs. later. Later always sounds like a better idea but rarely is. | | 7-Years down the drain? | Relationships | Apr 22, 2008 09:33 AM | Thats exactly what I thought. | | The NC Calendar | Relationships | Apr 18, 2008 08:24 PM | Bravo! | | Emotional sex, not... | Adult Sexuality | Apr 18, 2008 07:28 PM | I thought thats what females always wanted. | | Break with GF! need... | Relationships | Apr 16, 2008 05:36 AM | You have learned your lessons well and are correct. He is hoping for things to change and has no control, unless he acts in his own interests. | | does he want me or not | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 05:45 PM | Exactly right. I agree. | | Break with GF! need... | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 11:06 AM | Right On! Hi Chuff, where ya been? You and Tal are right - he should be strong and think ahead on a life without her. | | I want to fix this... | Relationships | Apr 15, 2008 08:16 AM | Bingo. | | The NC Calendar | Relationships | Apr 14, 2008 06:39 PM | Great post Chuff. Not being able to go NC when you want to is difficult. | | The NC Calendar | Relationships | Apr 14, 2008 02:17 PM | I was wondering where you went; glad to have you back. | | Those little reminders. | Relationships | Apr 13, 2008 09:37 PM | yeah, i tossed a bunch of notes and cards, some stuff i gave back, and gifts she wanted to give back, i just said, its okay... cut your losses and move on. | | Those little reminders. | Relationships | Apr 13, 2008 09:20 PM | Good point. Throwing the stuff away says you're ready to move on. Personally, I think that is the best thing to do, but he does not sound like he's ready for that. | | Breaking up, for stupid... | Relationships | Apr 11, 2008 09:39 PM | Hey Chuff.....what avatar mean? | | I dunno i dunnoo | Relationships | Apr 10, 2008 02:42 PM | Great answer, very good advice. | | I dunno i dunnoo | Relationships | Apr 10, 2008 02:39 PM | Hooray!!! The Chuffster is BACK!!!!! Woo Hoooooo!!! | | trying to satisfy my... | Adult Sexuality | Apr 10, 2008 12:23 PM | Yeah, just don't scathe it with your teeth! | | afraid to love again | Relationships | Apr 9, 2008 07:18 PM | Exactly...this guy is only a stepping stone to her ultimate happiness. | | Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Apr 9, 2008 06:14 PM | What a very good blast from the past, hope you guys are doing great! | | Just want your thoughts! | Relationships | Apr 9, 2008 05:39 PM | Hey Chuff. Great to see you again. your right. It was one heluva post! | | Girlfriend gets kiss... | Relationships | Apr 9, 2008 02:43 PM | exactly. do not make it a big deal for now. | | What Did I Do Rong? Y... | Relationships | Mar 31, 2008 03:10 PM | Thank You. I Will Most Deffinently Take Your Advise. I Mean Guys This Age Are Usually Extremely Immature Anyway. :] Thnx. | | Does This Sounds Like... | Relationships | Mar 20, 2008 06:55 AM | Exactly Chuffer. | | Trying to get some... | Relationships | Mar 19, 2008 04:31 PM | I absolutely agree, since she came to me, I've stood my ground and she gave in ;) | | Trying to get some... | Relationships | Mar 16, 2008 06:46 AM | Harsh but true. | | sex sex and more sex | Relationships | Mar 15, 2008 11:23 PM | Rofl | | 27 female and never had... | Relationships | Mar 15, 2008 11:22 AM | Thoughtful, and true. | | friendzone: a bad thing? | Relationships | Mar 10, 2008 06:48 PM | The chuffmeister returns!!! | | How do I confront him? | Relationships | Mar 9, 2008 06:39 AM | What a way to look at it, as you have made some very good points. Chuffing is back!! | | Do you believe in love... | Relationships | Mar 8, 2008 07:24 PM | yay its chuff! :) nice to see ya back | | Girlfriend of 4 years... | Relationships | Feb 14, 2008 05:47 AM | Thanx for being a wonderful part of my life! Forever grateful of you! |  | Law of Attraction | Relationships | Jan 19, 2008 10:16 AM | coinsidence |  | My best friend won't... | Relationships | Jan 5, 2008 03:00 PM | It doesn't seem relevant because he's commenting on someone he grew apart from and she's talking about an abrupt unexplained break. | | Girlfriend of 4 years... | Relationships | Nov 12, 2007 10:12 AM | I agree he shouldn't be too available when she wants him.. He should put a twist in it.. | | Seperation after 7.5... | Relationships | Nov 9, 2007 03:43 PM | The final part is crucial. I agree with Chuff. Her #1 goal is to get out and explore now not your relationship | | Seperation after 7.5... | Relationships | Nov 7, 2007 06:20 PM | Well done again Chuff! | | Girlfriend of 4 years... | Relationships | Nov 3, 2007 10:29 AM | yeh | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 03:48 AM | Great answer. A lot of great points and great truths. KUDOS ;D | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 01:53 AM | if yu are looking for advise there it is for the TAKING. unless if yu are looking for something else; then yu will be a problem | | stuck in my boyfriend's... | Relationships | Oct 18, 2007 08:42 AM | WOW! Great answer, that clarifies everything. | | I'm in dire need of... | Relationships | Oct 14, 2007 03:07 PM | Chuff: You are right on! | | I'm in dire need of... | Relationships | Oct 14, 2007 05:02 AM | You Are Amazing! Chuff, chuff, chuff! Wonderful dialog. | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 13, 2007 06:39 PM | Very well said and so true, just take the advice. Doesn't get any simpler. | | My Girlfriend of a year... | Relationships | Oct 9, 2007 08:30 PM | Another good chuffing, and so true! | | My Girlfriend of a year... | Relationships | Oct 8, 2007 02:29 PM | Simple truths are the best. | | what is the reason? | Relationships | Oct 8, 2007 09:34 AM | Probably. well, I am complaining now,lol. I will get over with it, thank you, Chuff. | | Engaged and Confused | Relationships | Oct 7, 2007 06:28 AM | Glad to see Chuff's reply. Honest and to the point! | | No time for me! | Relationships | Oct 7, 2007 04:43 AM | Excellent. I can't believe it either. She was trying to rationalize why it's okay to tell a father to limit his time with his kids...when he already has such limited time! | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 4, 2007 09:46 PM | "Remember this is about you, she gave up the right to be cared about so that's her problem now, not yours." Not get off that pity pot! | | i'm the other girl | Relationships | Oct 3, 2007 10:41 AM | Perfectly Chuffed yet again!!! | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 3, 2007 09:02 AM | Nail on the head. Listen to the advice given... | | Why do nice guys get... | Relationships | Oct 3, 2007 05:06 AM | This is not about being nice, just a short lived relationship ending | | i'm the other girl | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 08:36 PM | Dude, i totally respect that... short, and sweet answers... total props! | | Books to read to... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 04:57 PM | Yes...anything by Tony Robbins is a good choice... | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 04:27 PM | One big greenie for the Chuffmeister :-) | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 03:45 PM | Great advice. | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 11:27 AM | You want adice, start taking it....and this is good advice. | | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 2, 2007 11:20 AM | The meister is back! | | my ex-gurl her new baby... | Relationships | Oct 1, 2007 07:11 PM | This is one of your best, and I hope he listens and learns to love himself | | how do i get my ex... | Relationships | Sep 28, 2007 06:35 AM | Practically the same with me ex chuff!!! Transfer of power - owch! A mistake worth learning though,. | | My Girlfriend of a year... | Relationships | Sep 28, 2007 04:13 AM | That about sums it up very nicely. Time to be unavailable. | | My Girlfriend of a year... | Relationships | Sep 27, 2007 07:55 PM | One of the best answers here!!! Grant her that break and show her what she is losing. Thats the only and ONLY way!!! People realise... | | Technically... | Relationships | Sep 11, 2007 07:22 PM | Sounds good to me, let him know that it wasn't him. | | Technically... | Relationships | Sep 10, 2007 05:29 PM | Awesome advice Chuff | | Serial flirt | Relationships | Sep 10, 2007 03:34 PM | Straight to the point! | | Problems with my ex | Relationships | Sep 9, 2007 12:33 AM | Agree with you answer and you're right it's "that good." | | Thoughts & Prayers... | Relationships | Sep 4, 2007 03:39 AM | I agree, I don't think he should send it. It will only pull him back a few steps. | | Thoughts & Prayers... | Relationships | Sep 3, 2007 05:15 PM | Thanks for your response. I've done many of the things you suggest to get over her, but, as my thread title suggest, I know I truly love her. I will continue to try to move on, but I am seeking some kind of closure that I haven't been able to grasp | | going through his stuff | Relationships | Sep 3, 2007 04:19 PM | don't believe it could've been said better | | going through his stuff | Relationships | Sep 3, 2007 04:15 PM | Once trust is broken, there is no hope for the relationship | | He cheated once, can I... | Relationships | Aug 31, 2007 12:30 PM | ahh chuff ya's could always share me, you get weekends and she gets weekdays | | i feel like a Failure | Relationships | Aug 26, 2007 10:43 AM | take heed zell! | | do men like big women? | Relationships | Aug 20, 2007 12:04 PM | very good point | | Relationship closure or... | Relationships | Aug 20, 2007 05:00 AM | I like that idea. | | My Girlfriend of a year... | Relationships | Aug 19, 2007 08:39 AM | It is the best thing for now. The OP can focus on himself. | | How do you let go of... | Relationships | Aug 15, 2007 05:10 PM | Great advice. And im in trainig. I love cage matches!!! | | what do I do. | Relationships | Aug 12, 2007 07:27 PM | this is beyond poor advice |
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