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BE HAPPY!
Seven Deadly *Relationship* Sins of Truly Miserable People
1. Punishing, 2. Complaining, 3. Blaming, 4. Threatening,
5. Nagging, 6. Criticizing, 7. Bribing. | | | | | | |
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Obama-land, Illinois, USA, The World
| Experience:
*Northwestern University
B.A. Psychology, minor Biology
*Sixty-five years of life experience.
*Daughters of the American Revolution-lapsed :)
*Spent time in a 12 Step Program related to AA.
*Divorced since 1983; no children.
*Indoctrinated into Catholicism in childhood;
born-Again Christian 1980's;
declared atheist 2007.
*Female sexuality expert
Some Former careers/jobs:
1. Social Worker, both Medical and Family.
2. Stockbroker.
3. Personal Banker-RetirementAccts, Annuities, etc.
Some Former hobbies and interests:
1. Dog Shows-obedience and confirmation
2. Bridge, poker, and many other card games
3. Golf, tennis, speedwalking and cycling
4. Crocheting and counted crossstitch
5. Cat and dog behavior and training expert
6. Read lots of non-fiction
7. Volunteering
8. Being a great friend
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 Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | What's total world... | Other Religion | May 15, 2008 01:46 PM | Provided information and its source, which is credible. | | constant vaginal burning | Medical Conditions & Diseases | May 15, 2008 12:45 PM | Good advise | | another smoking related ? | Addictions | May 13, 2008 07:35 PM | Good advice. I'm willing to try anything at this point. :) | | anal sex | Adult Sexuality | May 13, 2008 02:27 PM | TRUE | | Marriage betrayed after... | Adult Sexuality | May 12, 2008 06:18 PM | Good questions. | | Premature Ejaculation | Adult Sexuality | May 12, 2008 02:35 PM | ;-) | | was my employer in... | Other Law | May 11, 2008 03:41 PM | That's 100% correct. It is not an entitlement. Employers can and do anything nowadays. | | Turned on by all the... | Adult Sexuality | May 10, 2008 07:07 PM | I'm on a greenie mission today, not really, people just keep giving kick butt answers!! 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Suggesting that she doesn't eat enough so she becomes hungry again seemed a little tripe to me. | | I Don't know iif this... | Adult Sexuality | Apr 16, 2008 04:47 PM | I agree. | | death on the cross , a... | Christianity | Apr 15, 2008 05:52 PM | I think this has merit, I am not sure about the historical comment part though | | Why doesn't my... | Adult Sexuality | Apr 14, 2008 06:53 PM | Drugs do tend to eventually cause many guys to care less about sex all they want is the drugs. | | being a virgin at 20 | Adult Sexuality | Apr 14, 2008 05:29 PM | Agree with everything but the hair, he's bald. I personally think that bald men are sexy. | | Why is he so selfish in... | Adult Sexuality | Apr 14, 2008 01:57 PM | You're right on it. | | Nose piercing infection | Medical Conditions & Diseases | Apr 13, 2008 10:35 AM | Yep. The nose is part of an area called the "Triangle of Death"...morbid. | | Is she selfish? | Adult Sexuality | Apr 12, 2008 03:40 PM | Makes sense to me. Good points | | guardianship of minors | Family Law | Apr 11, 2008 06:21 PM | Was this a "subsidized guardianship?" You should be able to get some info from your local DHS too. | | guardianship of minors | Family Law | Apr 11, 2008 06:12 PM | yep they should be getting survivor benefits. | | Trying to Understand | Mental & Emotional Health | Apr 11, 2008 05:53 PM | Thanks, It makes loads of sense, I never really looked at it that way! | | Just curious | Adult Sexuality | Apr 11, 2008 09:51 AM | Lmao!! 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So, do your homework and see the pics.... | | is it normal not feel... | Adult Sexuality | Mar 27, 2008 11:48 AM | true that good sex for many women takes effort | | Spraying female orgasm | Adult Sexuality | Mar 25, 2008 05:37 PM | I agree with the that's an esoteric kind of skill part but not the fake and impossible | | i have masterbated ,... | Adult Sexuality | Mar 24, 2008 08:32 PM | Justy because someone doesn't bleed the first time doesn't mean they weren't a virgin. What a terrible thing to say! | | i have masterbated ,... | Adult Sexuality | Mar 23, 2008 05:31 PM | Even when a hymen is stretched by a penis (hymens are stretched, not "broken") they do not necessarily bleed. And you are right in saying that they may be stretched in other ways as well. | | How to Stop thinking... | Mental & Emotional Health | Mar 22, 2008 12:49 PM | works for me.... | | anal sex | Adult Sexuality | Mar 19, 2008 04:17 PM | excellent answer | | So confused, no where... | Adult Sexuality | Mar 18, 2008 10:07 AM | That is a very mean answer. She has pain in her clitoris!!!! How does that have anything to do with her sexuality? You realy want to make a young women question that? Get off you high horse and and head out of your A** | | Am I being emotionally... | Mental & Emotional Health | Mar 16, 2008 12:04 PM | To put it NICE and bluntly clear that hits the nail on the head perfectly! 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You dont have any evidence to prove this claim factual | | penetration solve | Adult Sexuality | Mar 5, 2008 09:34 PM | wow, that's really hott! | | Porn and sex addict,... | Adult Sexuality | Mar 1, 2008 02:01 PM | yeah I sense he has an all about him attitude- enough to make many girls N0T turned on | | 19 year old virgin.what... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 29, 2008 09:05 PM | Not sure women in their 30's would want for a no-sex relationship. Sounds a little rejecting. | | Sex: worth all the hype... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 29, 2008 11:09 AM | great post! | | Sex: worth all the hype... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 29, 2008 08:38 AM | yepper! | | is there a God | Religious Discussions | Feb 28, 2008 04:30 PM | no idea what they are talking about, has no place on Christian board | | My boyfriend has a low... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 27, 2008 09:01 AM | Couldn't have said it better myself! | | Getting Married in 2... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 26, 2008 12:01 PM | 100%-Excellent. | | We don't have sex... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 26, 2008 07:30 AM | YIKES! I'm on year 2 w/my bf!!! | | We don't have sex... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 26, 2008 07:29 AM | Thank you!! | | We don't have sex... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 25, 2008 02:01 PM | i agree that there are points when you must decide and accept if you are willing to do the hard work to make it last, and possibly the hard work to still fail for the other persons laziness. | | Sex: worth all the hype... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 24, 2008 05:03 AM | pritty much what i'm getting at | | If you have oral sex... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 23, 2008 04:00 PM | I agree SO much! You stole my thoughts haha | | Why do men like women... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 23, 2008 06:59 AM | It takes a while before the hairs start to grow back. | | Sex with Big Women | Adult Sexuality | Feb 22, 2008 03:28 PM | Couldn't have said it better!! | | boyfriends a sociopath | Mental & Emotional Health | Feb 22, 2008 11:46 AM | I don't want to explain Y I agree! OKAY? I just do!!! LOL | | I cant orgasm while... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 21, 2008 11:28 AM | It sure is. |  | I cant sleep | Alternative Medicine | Feb 19, 2008 10:41 AM | This is a very good answer. But she also needs councelling and probably some mild anitanxity meds for short term. It really helps. Been there, and it is devasting. Get help! It's worth it! | | Normal Orgasym | Adult Sexuality | Feb 19, 2008 09:21 AM | Agreeing to disagree means that you SHUT UP. You didn't. I ended it. | | Sex with Big Women | Adult Sexuality | Feb 18, 2008 09:04 PM | Wonderful answer. You said exactly what I wanted to but I couldn't find the words. | | Normal Orgasym | Adult Sexuality | Feb 18, 2008 05:30 PM | sorry you are missing out | | Normal Orgasym | Adult Sexuality | Feb 18, 2008 05:04 PM | No it is not urine...read my post! | | Speaking of Heaven,... | Christianity | Feb 17, 2008 05:50 PM | Wow-yes I agree about that possible interpretation of heaven on earth. If we lived as Jesus taught then that would be the result. Great point! | | Dealing with a BiPolar... | Mental & Emotional Health | Feb 17, 2008 11:14 AM | Thank you for answering - many things are going through my old head, bless ya too! | | turn him on | Adult Sexuality | Feb 16, 2008 08:44 PM | That'll do it. | | Midlife women suffering... | Adult Sexuality | Feb 16, 2008 07:19 PM | That's what I thought; you should read the article. |
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