 | |  | | | | View Profile: cerisa | cerisa Full Member | | | Last Activity: May 8, 2008 04:05 PM | | | | | | | |  | |  | | | | Topic Info | Contact Info | | | | | Additional Information | | Location:
Southern California
| Experience:
I am married 42 years to the same cute guy I met in high school. Went to college on a scholarship. Raised four children to be decent adults. Worked with my husband to own and manage construction and aircraft businesses. Worked in the public library system, am an avid reader. Now raise avocados and flowers commercially. My life experiences may be of use to others."Experts" may just be the ones who hang in there the longest. ;)
| Occupation:
happily retired from (most)paid work
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Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | In mourning I miss my... | Bereavement | Mar 28, 2008 10:52 PM | Wow they certaintly did smile in heaven .....and are so proud of her. Yes, you are right. |  | What has she done | Relationships | Mar 17, 2008 06:23 AM | THANK YOU i kinda get what every 1 is trying to tell me now im gald i found this site =) 10/10 |  | What has she done | Relationships | Mar 14, 2008 10:40 AM | So true. |  | potty training for 8yr... | Parenting | Mar 14, 2008 09:59 AM | B-I-N-G-O!!! My thoughts as well. |  | I've got news | Relationships | Feb 28, 2008 01:59 PM | WISE! |  | I've got news | Relationships | Feb 28, 2008 01:44 PM | lolol |  | I've got news | Relationships | Feb 28, 2008 10:17 AM | kind, thoughtful words |  | No Fashion sense | Seniors | Feb 12, 2008 02:36 PM | sorry to hear of your sad situation, fire scares me so much! |  | Valentine's day | Relationships | Feb 4, 2008 11:51 AM | i like that |  | What To Think After... | Relationships | Jan 27, 2008 12:46 AM | Bingo! |  | What To Think After... | Relationships | Jan 26, 2008 07:44 PM | I'm with you on that. |  | Songs we sing Part 1 | Relationships | Jan 24, 2008 12:17 PM | You said: "The scars on your heart remind you to take care of yourself, love wisely." But do they, really? I'm not so certain. |  | Marrie man | Dating | Jan 7, 2008 08:03 PM | Sound advice. |  | Follow My heart and... | Relationships | Jan 2, 2008 05:16 PM | So true. |  | Alternatives for... | Children | Jan 1, 2008 11:23 AM | stuffed apples...will have to try it. Yep, your making me hungry. |  | Just so indecisive! | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Dec 31, 2007 01:37 PM | awwww!!! you're such a proud mom!!! |  | Seasons Greetings | Relationships | Dec 27, 2007 04:55 PM | yup and sometime that all you need you no ^^ |  | Seasons Greetings | Relationships | Dec 27, 2007 11:05 AM | lol. Thanks. You are right you know. |  | Confused.stay or go? | Marriage | Dec 27, 2007 04:37 AM | An older respected male is a good idea, excellent suggestion. |  | To young to marry? | Marriage | Dec 20, 2007 03:39 PM | alright i get what your saying. but i do know young girls who are 'horrors' people are nuts nowadays. (: |  | Is he joking or is... | Adult Sexuality | Dec 13, 2007 06:43 PM | Yeah he should be happy. |  | Crush driving me nuts! | Relationships | Dec 10, 2007 09:43 AM | Exactly!!! LOL Imagine that he has commitment issues and likes to screw women with cold sores. That should keep you away. lol |  | How can someone who... | Relationships | Dec 10, 2007 09:00 AM | good advice |  | don't know what to do... | Parenting | Dec 6, 2007 10:52 AM | FANTASTIC advice. I like the drawing from personal experience....!! Very helpful! |  | i am an 18 year old... | Children | Dec 2, 2007 08:41 AM | I agree, lying and using someone is not the answer |  | i am an 18 year old... | Children | Dec 2, 2007 08:40 AM | All good points. Let's hope Miss-V takes those next steps in being responsible. |  | money is tight | Weddings | Nov 29, 2007 02:46 PM | Oh my gosh! You have such great ideas! :) |  | EX girlfriend is... | Relationships | Nov 27, 2007 11:26 AM | good point, as they must like you despite the ex. |  | will he ever want to? | Marriage | Nov 27, 2007 09:33 AM | well said |  | Give up my sex... | Relationships | Nov 26, 2007 03:37 AM | yeah just imagine if he surprised her honeymoon night with swingin THAT night! |  | Am I forgiveable? Do I... | Mental & Emotional Health | Nov 20, 2007 01:00 PM | Thank you very much. I'm not opposed to meds, but even a reduced fee would be difficult right now, as I can't even afford a $23 shirt for my husband's birthday. It's very frustrating. |  | How much should people... | Politics | Nov 18, 2007 10:03 PM | that would be a good start. |  | I think he is scared! | Relationships | Nov 14, 2007 09:59 AM | well said! |  | To young to marry? | Marriage | Nov 13, 2007 10:55 AM | A Big THUMBS UP! |  | dating a married man | Relationships | Nov 11, 2007 05:23 PM | I agree..another hammer hits it right on the nail...bang! Great answer, I am tied, very tired of this kind of thing...he sounds like a user and she sounds like "okay I'm all for this... |  | I am Seeing a married man | Relationships | Nov 9, 2007 10:51 AM | well his name is jack .. Jack a$$ I assumed thats his name because she said jacksgirl. He is going to ruin so many lives. |  | who do you choose... | Relationships | Nov 8, 2007 08:34 AM | Great answer!!! Now that I have been getting some feed back I have been able to think more about the sitaution! this was extremly helpful |  | Pushing People Away | Other Family & People | Nov 6, 2007 06:53 PM | Good response and hey...the True friend part is the most important! One or two of them and you got it made sweet...Hugs to you!! |  | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Nov 6, 2007 07:53 AM | Spot On. |  | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 31, 2007 06:38 PM | Well said Cerisa !!! |  | 18 year old daughter in... | Parenting | Oct 31, 2007 11:55 AM | exactly! she has to learn the hard way and |  | 18 year old daughter in... | Parenting | Oct 30, 2007 04:09 PM | thank-you I am sure you have an incredible ring of trueth to you words! |  | Parent's aren't getting... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 01:14 PM | Yep I was thinking of that too! :) |  | she breaks up with me... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 10:16 AM | EXACTLY! |  | Should I leave him? | Relationships | Oct 28, 2007 07:01 PM | Thank you.. I think I'm going to give him a chance to prove himself to me again |  | For those whos love... | Relationships | Oct 21, 2007 08:19 PM | Great advice, and very compassionate. |  | Should i leave my... | Relationships | Oct 21, 2007 05:44 PM | yep, women dont seem to like security, because security doesnt get them wet, and thats all that seems to matter. |  | custody fights | Children | Oct 19, 2007 09:51 AM | Exactly--amicable |  | I am Seeing a married man | Relationships | Oct 19, 2007 04:33 AM | I don't think he thinks of it as being a free ride all because she did it first. |  | To young to marry? | Marriage | Oct 18, 2007 09:17 AM | that is correct. |  | How do I handle my... | Other Family & People | Oct 17, 2007 07:31 PM | Exactly right! (My mother is also 83 and still can shrivel up any wrongdoer. Oh, and she was a minister's wife too....) |  | Life is one big drama... | Mental & Emotional Health | Oct 15, 2007 05:13 PM | Good answer,good advice. |  | confused love | Relationships | Oct 15, 2007 03:15 PM | Good Answer |  | I don't know what to do | Relationships | Oct 12, 2007 08:37 PM | Why thank you, although some bloke took it for his company. I swear I had it first. |  | Is my marriage in... | Marriage | Oct 11, 2007 04:10 PM | this is a great post and I agree with all of it 100% |  | Is my marriage in... | Marriage | Oct 11, 2007 10:39 AM | She sure has!!!! |  | Any Regrets About going... | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Oct 10, 2007 02:46 PM | I agree. There is no reason to throw out ambition and assume for the worse. Great advice I couldn't agree more. |  | what the hell have i... | Marriage | Oct 10, 2007 02:29 PM | You got that right. |  | Ultimate Proposition | Dating | Oct 10, 2007 10:10 AM | So true, don't start out fake. Let here see the real you. |  | How can you make Your... | Relationships | Oct 6, 2007 10:07 AM | Wonderful wisdom |  | How to answer abusive... | Children | Oct 6, 2007 02:05 AM | Your "ramblings" make sense to me. |  | Does TRULY Happy... | Marriage | Sep 25, 2007 04:19 PM | Good for you. We're (32 years) getting there. |  | MYspace hell | Relationships | Sep 25, 2007 03:14 PM | Exactly - if someone really cares about you and respects you - they're not going to tell the world they are single just to play police with you. |  | Dishes back? | Etiquette | Sep 13, 2007 07:43 PM | Thank you:) |  | Powerless Young Adult | Parenting | Sep 13, 2007 11:16 AM | That's what she's trying to do |  | pregnant with no... | Child & Teen Health | Sep 7, 2007 09:07 PM | Have you tried MediCal? |  | Pretty long story | Relationships | Sep 5, 2007 03:05 PM | Very well said. Who needs drama??? |  | What should I do? | Marriage | Sep 5, 2007 08:33 AM | Oh, you just made my day! It is early yet, but I am so happy to hear your story! |  | What should I do? | Marriage | Sep 4, 2007 11:03 AM | Thank you! I dont know how i'll like living in the Mojave Desert...lol :) |  | am i being mean 2 them | Relationships | Sep 4, 2007 10:15 AM | I totally agree. When I come to a situation where I cant make a decision, I usually choose neither. |  | What should I do? | Marriage | Sep 3, 2007 08:14 PM | Good advise: "turn hers around a little right now" | |