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Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | Run in with ex | Relationships | Aug 15, 2008 11:28 PM | Exactly right |  | "Taking a... | Relationships | Aug 2, 2008 07:43 AM | very wise |  | Ex acting strange? | Relationships | Jul 29, 2008 01:11 PM | Agreed!!! I don't want to know a darn thing about my ex's life |  | I like a girl who has a... | Relationships | Jul 24, 2008 12:51 PM | Respect that they're a couple & leave them ALONE!!! |  | is she cheating | Relationships | Jul 21, 2008 08:51 AM | Without a doubt. |  | whjat to do? | Relationships | Jul 18, 2008 05:48 AM | Thats what I think too! |  | Should I stay or leave? | Relationships | Jul 14, 2008 05:14 AM | TRUE! |  | just got dumped | Relationships | Jul 10, 2008 03:51 AM | good point - don't ever use anyone as a 'rebound'. |  | just got dumped | Relationships | Jul 9, 2008 06:21 AM | That does seem to be the case, more often than not! |  | Girlfriend wants a... | Relationships | Jul 8, 2008 08:42 AM | much of this i said in my post which followed yours. |  | It hasnt even been a... | Relationships | Jul 7, 2008 06:39 PM | Yes it does take time. |  | It hasnt even been a... | Relationships | Jul 6, 2008 07:50 PM | good answere |  | How to show more interest | Relationships | Jun 25, 2008 04:17 AM | Good advice. |  | is she a nut bag too? | Relationships | Jun 23, 2008 08:44 AM | thank you, advice is getting me thru this. |  | I need to get over my ex | Relationships | Jun 23, 2008 03:28 AM | She uses you as her security blanket. |  | Making Assumptions and... | Relationships | Jun 22, 2008 08:14 PM | Wise, balance. |  | How to show more interest | Relationships | Jun 20, 2008 10:19 AM | Excellent Point! I need to remember that for myself, too! Thanks BB |  | would sending Bday... | Relationships | Jun 20, 2008 04:43 AM | Good insights. |  | How did you "let... | Relationships | Jun 18, 2008 03:31 PM | Thanks |  | is he still interested | Relationships | Jun 16, 2008 08:24 AM | I think your totally right |  | when is too many... | Relationships | Jun 12, 2008 10:07 AM | Exactly! |  | Another from Mr SADSACK | Relationships | Jun 9, 2008 12:03 PM | "Don't ask the questions if you fear the answers." - Very True |  | The NC Calendar II | Other Member Discussions | Jun 9, 2008 09:37 AM | Good advice.. I know exactly what you mean, i won't sound annoyed or mean to him on the phone. thx! |  | The NC Calendar II | Other Member Discussions | Jun 7, 2008 11:19 AM | Then read it again, until it get's stuck in your logical brain, and not the emotional brain. |  | Got dumped | Relationships | Jun 6, 2008 11:22 PM | no, the ahole guy is the one who finds someone to sleep with 2 weeks before ending the relationship. |  | Feeling Guilty? | Relationships | Jun 5, 2008 11:05 AM | I know you meant that. No Biggie!! (or should I say..yes, Biggie!) ;) |  | I'm 23, and he's 19.... | Relationships | Jun 4, 2008 05:20 PM | didn't take it that way at all :)...just was letting you know why I understand the little insecure rebel. |  | The NC Calendar II | Other Member Discussions | Jun 4, 2008 06:08 AM | NICE POST |  | The NC Calendar II | Other Member Discussions | Jun 3, 2008 08:39 PM | thanks bigbird. that's how I really try to look at it. |  | The NC Calendar II | Other Member Discussions | Jun 3, 2008 08:12 PM | Yep all true..........nicely put biggie !! |  | How about a... | The Lounge | Jun 3, 2008 05:49 PM | Me Too!! |  | Girlfriend wants a break | Relationships | Jun 3, 2008 04:24 PM | Well put |  | I'm 23, and he's 19.... | Relationships | Jun 3, 2008 05:55 AM | yep...Big red flag Our early childhood effects us more than what most people realize. She watched her daddy drink. Big flag. |  | Dell Dimension B110... | Desktops | Jun 2, 2008 08:42 AM | AGREED |  | Get Your Ex Back - Have... | Relationships | May 31, 2008 12:58 PM | Definietly. In such a situation your first goal is to give value to yourself. Long post but I told this somewhere. |  | Distraght over my ex. | Relationships | May 31, 2008 09:23 AM | Thats a very good point, relax, take a breathe, THINK, before you act. |  | He wonders why i look... | Relationships | May 29, 2008 10:49 AM | Lol! Infatuation should never end when you love someone but unfortunately does... |  | 'Breaks' positive or... | Relationships | May 29, 2008 08:44 AM | So right, her motives are irelevant. |  | Girlfriend wants a break | Relationships | May 28, 2008 07:58 AM | Thanks - you're right. |  | involved with someone... | Relationships | May 27, 2008 06:24 PM | exactly, he will never give up what he has for you... |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 27, 2008 10:08 AM | lol chuff shoulda copyrighted this style of post, he could have sold it off as a template and made a fortune |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 27, 2008 06:25 AM | just got done thinking that |  | First relationship, are... | Relationships | May 26, 2008 02:02 PM | I have to agree. |  | First relationship, are... | Relationships | May 26, 2008 10:55 AM | Fantastic help, thank you. |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 25, 2008 07:54 AM | That's brilliant, what a response! Comforting and realistic at the same time. Bravo. I think I'm going to make that assumption from now on. |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 23, 2008 05:05 AM | Ironnically enough I was having the same problem and I think I'm going to take your solution, which I know from experience has worked in the past. |  | shes 3 years younger... | Relationships | May 21, 2008 08:50 PM | or bubba for a boyfriend in the pokie...some guys are smart some are not. |  | she left me but it was... | Relationships | May 20, 2008 01:01 PM | Good words |  | Upset About No Call Back. | Relationships | May 20, 2008 08:01 AM | LOL! I love your sarcasm! :) Nice one... :) |  | Upset About No Call Back. | Relationships | May 20, 2008 07:44 AM | Balancer, hehe! |  | shes 3 years younger... | Relationships | May 20, 2008 06:40 AM | even if things worked out, its almost scientifically proven that when she hits 18 she'll drop the "I want to see what else is out there" line on you |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 19, 2008 02:39 PM | I have to be honest, I did almost let it get to my head but I started actually THINKING instead of reacting and just told myself, you kept in control, you kept it light, and you moved on. The rest is her problem. |  | Want ex back just... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 02:11 PM | Yup! I think they both had rebound issues and there is a difference between crushes, lust and love - a great big time difference. |  | in a four year... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 09:36 AM | Great observation, and insight. |  | in a four year... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 09:01 AM | Absolutely. Breaking up is a skill, and many people never acquire it. They have to spark some HUGE battle to base the breakup on. That's sad. |  | Read about my EX GF, I... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 06:37 AM | I'm sorry to disagree but sometimes the ex does come back and it is exactly the way intended...I'm living proof...Thank God! |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 19, 2008 06:06 AM | Damn right.Its high time you reject him too and move on FAR,far away. |  | Read about my EX GF, I... | Relationships | May 19, 2008 04:37 AM | Well put |  | Screwed up situation... | Relationships | May 17, 2008 09:09 PM | Thankyou, and very true! You need a separate life. |  | Read about my EX GF, I... | Relationships | May 16, 2008 12:38 PM | Yup time to move on. |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 16, 2008 12:30 PM | Absolutely!!! |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 16, 2008 10:53 AM | Words of wisdom. You need to put yourself as #1 and her behind you. It's your life now, there is no more 'us' or 'we' |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 15, 2008 09:01 AM | That is awesome. |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 15, 2008 08:13 AM | Your friend may be on to something |  | is it all in my head? | Relationships | May 14, 2008 11:45 AM | Exactly |  | Possibly breaking up... | Relationships | May 13, 2008 12:14 PM | That is bring closure and everyone will know where the other stands |  | Ex or Boyfriend? | Relationships | May 12, 2008 08:31 AM | I agree |  | 2nd day of no contact | Relationships | May 12, 2008 02:55 AM | She deserves to be rude to. F her. |  | Having a dip | Relationships | May 11, 2008 01:33 PM | I agree |  | girlfriend ends... | Relationships | May 11, 2008 08:35 AM | It does take two. |  | i hate being jelous? | Relationships | May 6, 2008 12:09 PM | Thank you ha ha I'm glad you see my point of view |  | Possibly breaking up... | Relationships | May 5, 2008 06:18 AM | Being honest is the right thing to do. |  | Old Fling back in the... | Relationships | May 3, 2008 10:01 PM | Lived through this & I KNOW it's factual. |  | getting him to miss me | Relationships | May 3, 2008 08:19 AM | Yes, yes, yes! |  | Loving again and healing? | Relationships | May 3, 2008 08:12 AM | I don't think so either. |  | The NC Calendar | Other Member Discussions | May 2, 2008 06:59 AM | Good opinion |  | Seeking tasteful... | Relationships | May 1, 2008 02:55 PM | Agreed. There's a reason you don't go out with married people. |  | Seeking tasteful... | Relationships | May 1, 2008 02:32 PM | It sounds like she really belive what he did would never happen to her because of the loved her. |  | He has a GF, but we... | Relationships | May 1, 2008 05:40 AM | I agree |  | im finding this so hard! | Relationships | Apr 24, 2008 03:26 PM | True |  | im finding this so hard! | Relationships | Apr 22, 2008 06:21 PM | absolutely right! |  | Grown children problems | Relationships | Apr 22, 2008 03:03 PM | Exactly! A bit late now though, they should have been taught that when they were kids. |  | Can't see eye to eye. | Relationships | Aug 11, 2007 04:16 PM | Don't let her put the guilt trip on you. | |