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I have been in the academic and diplomatic fields for over 2 decades. My expertise is provided by course work in psychology and an unusually diverse social life that has taken me to 5 continents and tested me with relationships that were anything but simple but ultimately brought me to a healthy relationship. I have been both the busiest bachelor alive and now the most committed and happy partner.
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 Latest Reputation Received | | Question | Topic | Date | Comment |  | my girlfriend wanted a... | Relationships | Aug 13, 2008 04:14 AM | That is a very funny mental picture! I wonder what people would think if they saw him do it in public | | I don't know myself... | Adult Sexuality | Aug 12, 2008 11:11 AM | That happens quite often here on AMHD | | Is it Over? | Relationships | Aug 9, 2008 12:16 PM | Exactly and while she may be independent in some ways she also must be co dependent in others or she wouldn | | The Break-Up Survival... | Relationships | Aug 7, 2008 11:28 PM | this is geat a must read for anyone in a relenship or gooing through hard times in a relenshuip | | i need the pro's to... | Relationships | Aug 7, 2008 12:36 PM | Thats true, I would never have even met my wife if my exes hadn't dumped me!! Thank you exes! Hope your as happy as I am, and I mean that from the bottom of my heart!!!! | | i need the pro's to... | Relationships | Aug 7, 2008 11:52 AM | yikes. | | What's your NC number?... | Relationships | Aug 7, 2008 09:12 AM | Thanks man..I owe it all do you guys and this site | | Am I in a normal... | Relationships | Aug 4, 2008 08:15 PM | What a simple solution thats sure to bring success and happiness. | | didn't know i was sharing | Relationships | Aug 2, 2008 11:12 PM | guts. guts. guts. and more guts. | | Is it my period or am I... | Pregnancy & New Motherhood | Aug 2, 2008 10:58 PM | Birth control AND condoms!! | | I have no reason to live. | Relationships | Aug 1, 2008 06:13 AM | This is great, it's spelled out, it's easy, and it provides an ultimate end plan. | | No sex, No closeness,... | Adult Sexuality | Aug 1, 2008 05:32 AM | What happened to that perfect marriage?? Where did it go?? This is getting scarier by the post. | | I have no reason to live. | Relationships | Jul 31, 2008 05:35 PM | Great plan | | He's cheating on me... | Adult Sexuality | Jul 31, 2008 01:18 PM | good answer | | No sex, No closeness,... | Adult Sexuality | Jul 31, 2008 11:21 AM | very true ash, I think the difference was I was willing to overlook a lot of things | | On a break. Girlfriend... | Relationships | Jul 31, 2008 09:13 AM | Absolutely agree. | | Complicated Long... | Relationships | Jul 25, 2008 08:05 PM | balancer-reread the post and this is uncalled for. |  | Complicated Long... | Relationships | Jul 25, 2008 06:54 PM | That is the most dumbest thing I have ever heard. Why go for 2 relationships? | | she says i pushed her... | Relationships | Jul 25, 2008 05:47 PM | good advice guys, i hope i still have a chance! how can a loss of feelings happen so quickly? | | Will i ever find a... | Relationships | Jul 24, 2008 06:06 PM | bravo bravo bravo! | | My Boyrfriend for 1... | Relationships | Jul 22, 2008 12:25 AM | You are so right. Unfortunately, I think she ignored this bit of wisdom. | | boyfriend moving | Relationships | Jul 21, 2008 07:02 PM | I agree. The next guy is standing right there waiting! | | Why do women take... | Relationships | Jul 21, 2008 06:22 PM | Well said! | | How to Break-up and... | Relationships | Jul 21, 2008 10:20 AM | totally agree...he is lucky that even one of the chicks came back into his life. He needs some help! The pain he has caused should immediately put him in counseling.. | | What shall I assume | Relationships | Jun 29, 2008 12:41 PM | Nope he is not ready for a real relationship, fun and games maybe. | | confused co worker | Relationships | Jun 28, 2008 04:09 AM | Great post! | | confused co worker | Relationships | Jun 27, 2008 07:50 PM | Amen Ash... keep social life at least one-mile radius AWAY from getting personal - and never with married people who usually just need compliments they don't get at home anymore. | | over 20 years - First... | Relationships | Jun 8, 2008 07:17 PM | yah i think thats the key, if i ever were to try again it would be with someone with the same cultural background! so im trying ..its just hard to talk with him and to forget him so im trying not to keep in touch at all...lets see | | "Forget me" | Relationships | Jun 6, 2008 06:33 PM | well said, Ash. Great!! | | "Forget me" | Relationships | Jun 6, 2008 01:56 PM | he did it all for love! why cant there be more guys like him,but youre right, he shouldve taken better care of himself, but who am i to talk. | | porn in my marraige | Marriage | Jun 1, 2008 07:49 PM | Expert advice instead of jumping to a simple conclusion | | porn in my marraige | Marriage | Jun 1, 2008 06:34 PM | thank you for your comments we haven't been married that long 2 1/2 years | | porn in my marraige | Marriage | Jun 1, 2008 03:10 PM | Bravo! Encore! | | He needs time but still... | Relationships | May 30, 2008 07:43 PM | Look Below! | | sex with a minor | Relationships | May 27, 2008 08:56 AM | This was sooo last year! Please be more alert! | | Girlfriend of 4 years,... | Relationships | May 23, 2008 09:15 AM | "she needs to be working to get you or it's her loss." exactly! | | Read about my EX GF, I... | Relationships | May 17, 2008 04:38 PM | That's right, good advice. | | Confused about my... | Adult Sexuality | May 15, 2008 01:19 PM | Thanks a mill, I think Ive just completely obsessed about it for so long its hard to break the habit but ur answer has definitely made me feel somewhat better. | | Confused about my... | Adult Sexuality | May 15, 2008 10:53 AM | You gave good advise, but she didn't mean that her boyfriend was in a two yr relationship with a man, she meant she was.. her boyfriend isn't Bi | | My Girlfriend says she... | Relationships | Feb 24, 2008 08:05 AM | congrats on the 1000 posts! | | ebooks to get... | Relationships | Feb 24, 2008 07:34 AM | So true, I think we are better than a book. | | male friend | Relationships | Feb 21, 2008 11:56 AM | I agree, you are not crazy, she is out of control | | U.S. has paid Sunnis... | Politics | Feb 19, 2008 05:28 AM | I remember a similar time - 1968 | | Husband cheated! I'm... | Relationships | Feb 18, 2008 05:08 PM | Thanks I know you are right.. I just want to erase it all | | male friend | Relationships | Feb 18, 2008 05:26 AM | YOU have also brought out some very good points. | | Am I wrong, need an... | Relationships | Feb 17, 2008 07:25 PM | Do all of these things. An ending to this relationship is LONG overdue | | Desperate counselor... | Relationships | Feb 15, 2008 05:00 AM | Thank you been very hard | | Need to understand her | Relationships | Feb 13, 2008 06:43 PM | Good point, forgot about her break up. | | Girlfriend has decided... | Adult Sexuality | Jan 29, 2008 12:32 PM | ah yes. i hate it when i do that... skim through and miss something. thanks for the heads up! | | Finding it so hard. | Relationships | Jan 13, 2008 09:43 PM | yes read that break up guide,very accurate! | | How can I explain this... | Adult Sexuality | Jan 10, 2008 07:26 PM | Good Stuff... It stuck with me, I came back to read it numerous times and am making a copy of some of it to remember in a personal situation! | | Gf wants a break up... | Relationships | Jan 5, 2008 07:58 AM | We all remember that YOUNG love and how it hurts | | My Ex getting in touch | Relationships | Dec 30, 2007 12:43 PM | This one is good. | | this is for the guys. | Relationships | Dec 30, 2007 12:53 AM | Harsh words but very true. | | this is for the guys. | Relationships | Dec 29, 2007 06:17 PM | Thanks Ash, now I know what happened 10 years ago. | | Serious problems -... | Relationships | Dec 29, 2007 11:02 AM | These are great! | | this is for the guys. | Relationships | Dec 27, 2007 06:32 PM | Dead on Ash. You spell it out how it is. Once someone knows they have the other person, its no longer a relationship. | | so very embarrasing | Adult Sexuality | Dec 22, 2007 05:42 AM | nice! i am learning a lot! thank you | | Took a 1 week break, ex... | Relationships | Dec 10, 2007 11:45 PM | I agree with the "giving her time" part. I actually at this point kind of feel like maybe I need to take some time apart. I just have this stinking suspicion that she'll call it quits if I tell her that. Which sucks.. I did it for her... | | low self-esteem | Relationships | Dec 5, 2007 10:02 AM | cute advice;) | | is my bf gay i found... | Adult Sexuality | Nov 30, 2007 10:02 AM | Well said...and a balencer | | is my bf gay i found... | Adult Sexuality | Nov 30, 2007 07:50 AM | im sorry but i dont agree with that | | how do i keep it in | Adult Sexuality | Nov 27, 2007 12:14 PM | Good stuff! | | Am I an Idiot for... | Relationships | Nov 24, 2007 03:51 PM | Not to sure about the 90 days and feeling dif. But every one is dif. But you will feel better and he is right.. TIME heals all wounds.. it relaly does.. | | Is the married man... | Relationships | Nov 20, 2007 06:58 PM | Thank God. | | want the hurt to stop | Relationships | Nov 20, 2007 08:37 AM | great advice Ash. |  | I feel I need to get... | Relationships | Nov 18, 2007 05:17 PM | Thank you for the Guide. It sucks I know I am trying my best I just feel my Drive to do anything Slipping Less and less Everyday. | | Should I tell her | Adult Sexuality | Nov 18, 2007 01:35 PM | precisely | | Why does my girlfriend... | Relationships | Nov 17, 2007 08:29 AM | Great points | | I was Cheated on! | Relationships | Nov 17, 2007 05:08 AM | Amen! | | how to increase time... | Adult Sexuality | Nov 17, 2007 12:27 AM | please write in details, i dident get | | The truth DOES hurt the... | Politics | Nov 15, 2007 12:18 PM | The only thing the accident really proves is because of irresponsible people I'm out $250 that I really need right now if I want my car fixed. | | ex boyfriend is doing... | Relationships | Nov 13, 2007 09:58 PM | very true. Do not waste anymore time its not worth it. Really its not. There is a guy out there that will not end it with you because of issues. Get your game tight. Then fall in love | | My Girlfriend of a year... | Relationships | Nov 11, 2007 09:19 AM | Exactly. We do know what she's saying and that she's playing games. | | I need her back! | Relationships | Nov 5, 2007 06:30 PM | Well she isnt dating or hasnt dated any other guys | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Nov 2, 2007 05:45 PM | Hollar back!:) | | I don't know what to do... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 09:12 PM | Good advice | | this shouldnt bother me... | Relationships | Oct 30, 2007 05:36 PM | LOL totally on the mark,hourly....lmao | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Oct 30, 2007 09:08 AM | I think the current trend points toward more positive news. General P. cannot forcast into the future so he gives wiggle room. more below | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Oct 29, 2007 05:25 PM | Good points. Diplomacy is hurting... | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Oct 29, 2007 03:30 PM | Well done Ash. He will fire back with everything he has and discount your arguments but you have done well! The fact is it is the US's war, down under here just wanted a free trade agreement to be signed so Howard stuck his tongue further up Bush's.. | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Oct 29, 2007 11:19 AM | nice reasoned counterpoints, a nice change for this board | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Oct 29, 2007 10:25 AM | Welcome to the board. Hehe. | | Lets get the ball... | Politics | Oct 29, 2007 10:20 AM | you got him right where you want him | | I'm in dire need of... | Relationships | Oct 29, 2007 09:26 AM | Exactly, the right candidate, like me some time ago :) | | I'm in dire need of... | Relationships | Oct 29, 2007 06:09 AM | Yes, its harsh, but maybe harsh is what you need to recognise your problem and get help before it ruins your life. | | so creepy | Adult Sexuality | Oct 25, 2007 10:32 PM | Excuse me, but you cannot get pregnant from anal sex. It's impossible. | | so creepy | Adult Sexuality | Oct 25, 2007 02:58 PM | thanks! finally a mature answer! FYI i am over 18 | | she broke my heart | Relationships | Oct 24, 2007 05:40 PM | this is going to work i think thank you it ment a lot to me its been hard | | so creepy | Adult Sexuality | Oct 24, 2007 04:36 PM | not that pregnancy is the USUAL outcome using this method of sexual penetration... | | Should i leave my... | Relationships | Oct 22, 2007 08:06 PM | Yeah she's a lot of time to mature. Her cheating is a sign of her needing to be alone for a while. | | Should i leave my... | Relationships | Oct 21, 2007 05:42 PM | 3 in a bed will definitely NOT last, completely agree. | | I am Seeing a married man | Relationships | Oct 20, 2007 06:11 AM | Exactly. They have to start doing the right thing and cut with the excuses. | | why is my boyfriend... | Adult Sexuality | Oct 19, 2007 06:14 AM | i agree | | why is my boyfriend... | Adult Sexuality | Oct 18, 2007 12:34 AM | i agree | | He loves me, but treats... | Relationships | Oct 17, 2007 01:50 PM | excellent! | | I'm in dire need of... | Relationships | Oct 15, 2007 06:00 AM | "molding someone" to whoever's standard of perfection is a dangerous notion in any relationship - and doomed from the start. He should be careful. | | Is ther anyone out... | Relationships | Oct 14, 2007 06:36 AM | I didn't want to write it myself, but yes you are bang on. Those "Godly" men in church won't even stop themselves from touching children... | | I dont know what to... | Relationships | Oct 9, 2007 08:43 AM | Good points! | | sleep voyeur fetish | Adult Sexuality | Oct 9, 2007 03:51 AM | Couldn't have said it better if I tried :) |
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