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    Dec 14, 2011, 08:54 PM
    How can we have a child ?
    My husband and I are 3 years married and still don't have a child , I wen't to an ob-gyne last year (2010) and have an ultrasound and my ob-gyne told me that my ovary is clean and good and nothings wrong with me . But why we still don't have a baby ? We both have work, is it possible that we are over stress at work ? Please help us we really like to have a baby..
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    Dec 14, 2011, 09:08 PM
    Has your husband been checked? (Male fertility is super-easy to check.)
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    Dec 14, 2011, 10:57 PM
    Are your periods regular, has hubby been checked out, he should have been checked same time you were. Do you track your most fertile times and plan sex on those times and hold back on sex before those times.
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    Dec 15, 2011, 02:11 AM
    Fr_Chuck: Sir my period is not regular I didn't get my period for about 5 months and after that the whole 1 month I do have it. So I can't track my most fertile times.. And sadly my husband been not checked out.. What will we do ? We really want a child.. please help us..
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    Dec 15, 2011, 04:20 AM
    So you BOTH go to a fertility specialist. YOU need to get your periods more regular so you can tell ovulation times. He needs to have his sperm checked among other things.

    There are dozens of factors that affect fertility. You NEED to be under the guidance of a fertility specialist to check out all these factors. And stress is one of the factors.

    My wife and I tried for several years to conceive. We went through several tests and techniques including surgery for me. We were seeing a fertility specialist a good distance from where we lived and finally the trips became too much so we switched to one closer. It was a couple of months before we could get an appointment so my wife relaxed thinking nothing would happen until after we went. Well when we went the doctor told us we were pregnant.

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