i am a 25 year old female. i am engaged. currently i am very busy with my career life and i can't afford getting pregnant. my fiance and i agreed on delaying marriage for the time being. we usually have a very superficial sexual contact during which he puts on a condom. i am still a virgin according to medical examination. i know that hymen can permit sperms entery through tiny pores. my fiance wouldn't put the condom right from the begining and lately i had this paranoia that i can get pregnant from the pre-ejaculate coz i know it contains sperms. the last time we had sexual contact was the first day after i finished my period...could i be pregnant?

charlotte234s

It is possible. You will have to wait until the day your period is due and see if it comes. If it doesn't take a HPT.

Razen

I believe you are not pregnant , because you still virgin . I now it's hard to wate until the period time, but I feel you are not

Fr_Chuck

well first if he is entering you part of the way, that is debatable if you are a virgin or not, all depends on ones view. if he is in part of the way and does not have a condom on, the early fluid does have sperm and you can be pregnant. many women from normal life, using tampons, expercise normally break thier hymen, so it would be normal for that to have been long broken from other activities.

But sexual contact with no protection equals pregnancy. So if you can't afford to be so, don't be doing the sexual activity

LearningAsIGo

I have to agree with Fr_Chuck 100%. Culturally, some place a lot of emphasis on the hymen as "true virginity" but penetration itself = sex in many opinions.

Physically speaking, if he is inside you (at all) there is always a chance of pregnancy occurring. The chance is significantly less of course, if additional protection is used correctly. If he's going to wear a condom, he should the entire time you are together physically