"but now that we are going to court for child support he is angry fire hot mad"
... you said it yourself... is it hate? I don't know about that; but he sure ain't happy that you're taking him to court for child support...
If you're done with him, if your relationship is over.. then don't concern yourself with his anger toward you.
Court does not often bring out the best in people... especially when they're being sued by someone they once loved and they know the outcome will not be in their favor... and this is probably why he's acting so 'fire hot mad'...
You just do what you have to do for your son--don't compare how your son is treated to how your EX treats his other son, it will only serve to bring you down and make you upset, leaving you to wonder if it's your fault your son is not going to be loved the same... It's not.
You can't control X, you can only do what's best for your son and hope X wants to be a better father someday... it's sad, I know... but it's all you got right now.. just be the best mom you can be and try not to dwell on what you and your son don't have; but focus on what you do have...
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