well right now im 16 and hes 18. weve been together about 2 years now and we talked about marriage before when we started going out but now he gets mad if it gets brought up. he says hes 18 years old and he doesnt wanna be thinking about getting married or anything like that. Will he ever want to?

beth911

also.... he like never wants to show that he cares much. like hes afraid to hold hands and stuff

Fr_Chuck

at 18 amd upi 16 normally it is not time to start talking about marrrigae, but dating and enjoying being together. in 3 or 4r years would be when you start talking marriage after you are out of school, he is out of college or at lest tech school and working on good job.

on the holding hands, some people show things more than others, due ot culture, you need to discuss that with him

beth911

when i talk to him about any of this he gets mad and he wond ever say why

cerisa

Beth give this relationship some time, you are both very young. You should never settle for less respect, attention and affection than a normal dating relationship though. He may just not know what to say, he needs to make the effort in any case. You don't need to be treated shabbily by a boyfriend.

talaniman

I think you are putting too much pressure on the guy to think about what he cannot even deal with at this point in life, and honestly your both to young at this point. If you know he is doesn't want to talk about marriage, drop it and have fun and let the future take care of itself. Your time will come, but its not now, and you cannot force it.